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Okay my question is long. This is something I am so confused on. Some people say demons do not exsist, but how can they not? We have reports of actual exorcisms and demon possession. Some people have their doubts and still say it's some sort of mental illness and an exocism drives thaty out of them. I believe demons are real, and if I believe demonic possession is real could a possession happen to myself? Now, I am trying to be rational in all and I know there hasn't been a possession/exorcism reported since the late 1940s. But the cases I have read throughly, they sound like real demonic possession and not just a mental illness. In the cases there was supernatural things going on such as levatation, sexual obsenities, foreign languages going on, self-mutilation, vomitting, moving of furniture, etc etc...now how can that be catagorized as a mental illness? But initially some people still believe it is. As for myself, Im really intrested in this sort of thing, I am also wondering if learning too much and sort of becomming obsessed with this sort of thing could open me up to possession? Sometime possession can occur differently for other people, people say the devil is always with you, and filling your mind with thoughts you can't control. Lately I have been having many of those thoughts, evil thoughts. Contemplating suicide, self-mutilation, alot of anger, could I be getting into this too far or could it be something else like depression etc, I know none of you can give me a straight answer but I would like input on what your beliefs are about this whole thing, it's very very hard to understand and complicated. (link)
Think about it if someone knew everything about demons and they were right do you think they would still want to know the truth or just forget about it. The fact is most people wouldn't want to know the truth because they cant control it. it takes a strong human being to accept the truth rather than hide from it or deny it the question you need to ask yourself is which one am i


I am a 24 year old female. Please tell me how to choose between two 30-something year old men that are both in love with me. One I was engaged to but he had to be put in jail for domestic violence The other lives aproxamately 1,500 miles away. My fiance` and I are required to go to a councelor by the courts,but I am in love with both men at the same time too.( My fiance` was drunk at the time of the incident, he is really sweet when he is sober.) I don't know who to choose. Please send me some good advice on who to keep in my life! (link)
My advice is you should pick one who is to say which is the right one to pick the fact is their is no right or rong answer to this question pick one or the other if your right you'll be happy if your wrong try to learn from your mistake and move on


What is the difference between being Atheist and Agnostic? (link)
the difference between Atheist and agnostic is Atheist dont believe in the excistence of god. And agnostic means you are sceptical you dont agree with or deny the existence of god you accept the fact that you just dont know for certain


why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are

1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin

so i dont get it (link)
I cant say why girls like to have sex but for guys it's easy to say i just like having an orgasm but i think it's deeper than that it's about that girl giving herself to you in the most deepest way that she can it's about her trusting you and knowing that out of all the guys she could have she chose to give herself to you

I think guys like looking at porn because their is no risk theirs many things that can go wrong when your having sex with a girl she may not be ready, you orgasm before she does just to name a few think about from a guys point of view whats harder just looking at something and pleasing yourself or going through the whole process


You know how most girls like dating guys that are older than them. Some girls at my school like dating younger guys. And I was just wondering how many years apart do you think is 'too old' or 'too young' to date?

-13/f if your wondering

-Sorry I didn't know what to put this under. (link)
no one can give you the right question all they can give is what they think is right my advice is just be with who you think it's ok to be with of course you shouldn't be extremely older or younger than the person to where it's considered rape


If God gives humanity purpose and meaning, what gives God purpose and meaning?

Is God meaningless and purposeless?! If so, wouldn't that mean that humans are just meaningless and purposeless, and that their "meaning" and "purpose" given by God is purely arbitrary? (link)
no one knows all the answers but think about it If God gives humanity purpose and meaning than humanity probably gives god purpose and meaning it probabley works both ways


ok....... there's this guy and he is preety cute and his friend told me that he likes me and well he never talks to me though(the guy that supposevely likes me)and i dont know how to talk to him. any advice? (link)
he likes you he's probabley just not confident enough to talk to you because he's afraid to get shut down some easy topics to start a conversation with are school or recent events in your area hope this helped


okay so I need to lose weight. well I dont mind getting on the tredmill its just that if i look at the same thing everynight while i'm on there (which is the road because my treadmill is facing the front door) i get bored and its no fun anymore...I already listen to music but thats to focus my mind on something else. I tried asking my parents to move the treadmill in the livingroom so I can watch TV while i'm working out but they still wont go for that! I asked this before, and someone told me to "watch my neighbors" well my neighbors are never out! I just watch cars pass by every 1 hour and i hate it! Any suggestions on how to make it more fun?
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Their is probably no other way to make running on a treadmill fun think about different activities boxing is one that i found that works for me you should just try different things to find out whats fun for you


okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there (link)
Most girls want baby's for the same reason they want someone to love them unconditionally but you should try to look at it from the kids point of view as he or she grows up will they be happy will they have everything you can offer them not emotionally but financially think about it


Can anyone recommend any books or websites of the political revolutionary Che Guevara? I'm hoping to learn more about him, but unfortunately a lot of what I find is very biased against him. Help me out here?

Thanks. (link)
Just go to google and type in information on Che Guevara or go to a bookstore i know he has a few books out Some of the information may be biased but when learning about revolutionaries you have to take the good with the bad


do ouija boards really tell the truth or do ppl just make it up? (link)
They do both of course they can tell the truth the trick is dont move your hand where you want it to go just relax


How do you know if you believe in God or if you just think you do? (link)
I think the best thing to do is take an online religion test believe me they exist just go to google and type it in i took the test twice on two different websites and the same result came back twice it said i was agnostic take the test and no matter what the result is try to come terms with it and answer the questions truthfully


I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks. (link)
Most of the Christians that put you down for not going to church are probabley just insecure and need to put someone down to make themselves feel good I cant see how in gods eyes people who go to church love him any more than people who praise him but dont go i happen to think the opposite i think that people who go to church need that motivation and aren't strong enough to show god love on their own and need to be around people who are the same. just do what you think is right i know its easy to be mad at them but you should probabley feel sorry for them


I write poems about a lot of thoughts that go on in my head. I want to share them with my friends, but I know if they don't appreciate them I will feel horrible. Once my friend found my journal filled with poems and she was just like, "Hmm. Do these all mean something to you?" and she just gave the idea of my poems were crap, which I know they aren't. I guess what I am asking is what should I say to my friends to make them understand how important these are to me? (link)
I know expressing your poetry to your friends will be hard an easy way to do it is write a poem that you think they would be interested in think about a topic that your friends would probabley feel the same way about then write about it tell them and if it's good they'll be into it do that a few times then tell them a poem thats about you they probabley would be cool with it because they would have already appreciated your writing abilities if their not well some things are better left to yourself


Today I did crunches and it really hurt my neck. I think that is a sign that I did it wrong...or is that normal? I've recently started working out, like really recently (this was only my 7th time) and I was wondering is it because I'm getting used to it now, is it because I'm doing it wrong or something? I did 70, btw. (link)
An easy way to not hurt your neck is to put your hands behind your head the trick is dont lift your self up with your arms because thats not doing anything for your abs if your neck still hurts after using that technique you should see a doctor


Okay i asked something like this last night but i need to add to it and i think it'll help you guys to answer it. So i was at an orchestral rehearsal and there's the girl. ( i'm 15/f bi and i'm not sure how old she its). But she's gorgeous but i can't get up the nerve to go say hi. All i can do is stare. I still couldn't focus tonight, it even got worse. Knowing my luck, she isn't bi and probably doesnt even know i exist. What should i do?!?! I feel like i should just get over her. Should i?!?! I'll rate!!!!! (link)
I dont know if you should get over her or not but here's a way to not be as nervous around someone that your attracted to. nobody's perfect look at one of her flaws and focus on it. it will make you more comfortable around her if she doesn't have one make up one for example think to yourself her nose is to big. it doesn't even matter if it's perfect. if you say it to yourself long enough you'll believe it it's kind of like if a guy looks into a mirror and says to himself he's perfect even if he's below average sooner or later he will have the same amout of confidence of a guy that actually is that should make it easier to talk to her or anyone else you attracted to




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