Okay i asked something like this last night but i need to add to it and i think it'll help you guys to answer it. So i was at an orchestral rehearsal and there's the girl. ( i'm 15/f bi and i'm not sure how old she its). But she's gorgeous but i can't get up the nerve to go say hi. All i can do is stare. I still couldn't focus tonight, it even got worse. Knowing my luck, she isn't bi and probably doesnt even know i exist. What should i do?!?! I feel like i should just get over her. Should i?!?! I'll rate!!!!!
shrink2be answered Monday October 3 2005, 6:24 pm: well, before you try to get over her, see if you've got a shot with her first. just start hanging out with her first, and get to know her preferences.
then just ask her, if you don't, there is always that chance that she was the one and you let her slip away. [ shrink2be's advice column | Ask shrink2be A Question ]
Tony answered Monday October 3 2005, 3:34 pm: I dont know if you should get over her or not but here's a way to not be as nervous around someone that your attracted to. nobody's perfect look at one of her flaws and focus on it. it will make you more comfortable around her if she doesn't have one make up one for example think to yourself her nose is to big. it doesn't even matter if it's perfect. if you say it to yourself long enough you'll believe it it's kind of like if a guy looks into a mirror and says to himself he's perfect even if he's below average sooner or later he will have the same amout of confidence of a guy that actually is that should make it easier to talk to her or anyone else you attracted to [ Tony's advice column | Ask Tony A Question ]
jillthethrill answered Monday October 3 2005, 2:13 pm: hmm well think you should go up to her start being friends you know see how shes like and maybe if she is bi maybe you can see if she likes you if not i guess you wont regret not asking her but you can always keep her as a friend
well hope i helped hope everything goes well
good luck [ jillthethrill's advice column | Ask jillthethrill A Question ]
SunnyCreature answered Monday October 3 2005, 6:17 am: well, probably she's straight but if you dont want to keep staring at her forever, better get talking to her. you'll find out then...if she's bi, if you really like her and if she's worth it... [ SunnyCreature's advice column | Ask SunnyCreature A Question ]
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