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i'm a girl, 17, live in ireland. i'm in college. i LOVE movies and daydreaming. i believe that one of the best things one can do is give advice when asked...ONLY when asked...

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there is a boy i have seen around on many occasions and he always stares at me when i do see him. i find him very attractive but was always too shy to talk to him. anyway, some extremely bizarre coincidences led me to see him on a street somewhere. he was looking at me with a smile so i approached him.

the conversation was very awkard because i was like "i see you around" and he was like "really, where do you see me?" "what shows?" but not in a very interested way. it was like he was stoned or something. it was almost like he was taunting me. then i went ahead and asked what school he went to, the conversation died, and he looked away. so i started to walk away. when i did that he had this slight worried look in his eyes, and he quickly asked me where i went to school. then we chuckled and i left.

what.. was he just nervous? he's a type of guy who never has to work for girls' affection, so could this be why he was seemingly cold? i was really nervous so i didn't say as much as i should have, but what do his actions say?

hmmm...yeah, i'd say he was either stoned (i dont really think so...) or even more shy than you.
i'd say he likes you a lot so he gets really nervous around you too!

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Okay i asked something like this last night but i need to add to it and i think it'll help you guys to answer it. So i was at an orchestral rehearsal and there's the girl. ( i'm 15/f bi and i'm not sure how old she its). But she's gorgeous but i can't get up the nerve to go say hi. All i can do is stare. I still couldn't focus tonight, it even got worse. Knowing my luck, she isn't bi and probably doesnt even know i exist. What should i do?!?! I feel like i should just get over her. Should i?!?! I'll rate!!!!!

well, probably she's straight but if you dont want to keep staring at her forever, better get talking to her. you'll find out then...if she's bi, if you really like her and if she's worth it...

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