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why do people in there teens who arent even married yet want to have sex, like when your older and you want to get married it wont come in handy to tell him/her that your not a virgin so my questions are
1) why do people in there teens have sex
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn
3) (no affence) but if your engaged or w/e wouldn't that just disguss the guy/girl that your not a virgin
so i dont get it
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society, media. its "cool" you see it eveywhere, music, movies, tv, comercials, even people in public ingaging is PDA. I am remaning a virgin until marrage. so is my boyfriend.
Its mainly because its whats cool to do, and its whats in now
-Kellzie <3
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I cant say why girls like to have sex but for guys it's easy to say i just like having an orgasm but i think it's deeper than that it's about that girl giving herself to you in the most deepest way that she can it's about her trusting you and knowing that out of all the guys she could have she chose to give herself to you
I think guys like looking at porn because their is no risk theirs many things that can go wrong when your having sex with a girl she may not be ready, you orgasm before she does just to name a few think about from a guys point of view whats harder just looking at something and pleasing yourself or going through the whole process
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1)Teens have sex because its something that society has approved as OK for everyone. It also has to do a lot with emotions and hormones. There is nothing wrong with having sex, as long as you are emotionally mature enough for it, you know the risks, and you are doing it with someone you trust and care about.
2)Guys look at porn because they are horny..dont be fooled..girls look at it too. Its nudity, and sex..people like it.
3)Why would not being a virgin disgust the person you are engaged to? If they love you they arent going to care if you have had sex or not. Its personal choice.
You seem like you are young, and chances are by the time you are older you will understand more.
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♥ People in their teens have sex because they might love there partner, their curious about what its like, they are being pressured by their friends.
♥ Guys watch porn bc they get off by it
♥No it doesnt disguss them..alot of people have sex with more then one person in their life and some decided only to have sex with one person...hope I helped.
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1. Teenagers are flooded with hormones that are new to them, and this incudes a drive towards sexual behaviour. Because this drive becomes stronger in the teen years, and teens experience so many new emotions, many feel they are ready to handle having sex....or feel as if they are expected to start having sex.
2. Girls AND guys enjoy porn - to each their own. Some people will look at it daily, some will look at it with a partner, and some won't look at all. Everyone's different.
3. Virginity is a personal choice. You have no way of controlling the behaviour of someone you have not met yet - your perfect person might have already lost their virginity. Would that make you unable to be with them?
It's great if you feel you want to remain a virgin until marriage, but it's also unrealistic to hold everyone else to your personal set of standards.
Again - to each their own!
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1) sometimes its a way of exaping your life, I know that might be hard to understand, but in a way it can, sometimes if you love someone, you'll do it, or sometimes people want to be cool or there just both turned on, theres many reasons
2) cos it turns us on, even girls will, people just like to be turned on, its hard to explain
3) sometimes it might, but not to everyone, & most people loose there virginity before there married, so I guess it would really depend, I don't think it would matter to me
I don't think its bad that teens are having sex, we do what we want, & I don't think pre-marrital sex is bad, infact 67% of people loose there virginity in high school, I don't see it as a bad thing, & apperntly nither do they, & its our lifes to throw away or do what ever with, it'll be our mistake if its a mistake
sorry if I was rude, but I was just trying to explain the way & I probolly many others see these things, I hope I helped
-Cameron
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1.) Peer pressure, actual desire to, believing they're in love, or the misguided hope that it will make their boyfriend/girlfriend stay with them forever.
2.) I'm a girl, and I like looking at porn too. It's sexy, it's fun, and it's not meant to have any really deep meaning.
3.) The vast majority of teenagers nowadays are not virgins, and it doesn't change who they are. My boyfriend's been with five people before me, and I still love him just as much as I would if he was a virgin before me. If he asked me to marry him tomorrow, I'd say yes - because he's absolutely wonderful, and his previous sex life doesn't matter to me in the big scheme of things.
There's some people that believe in saving themselves for marriage, but it's not held widely any longer & it's up to YOU to make that choice for yourself, nobody can make it for you.
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1) why do people in there teens have sex: cause we have plenty of hormones running around that make us want other people.
2) why do GUYS like looking at porn: lol cause some are perverted and love to just get aroused.
and im probably too young to answer the next question
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1. Teens have sex because they "think" there ready and they want it really bad. Or they just want to be cool.
2. Guys look at porn and stuff because guys think with there penis's and guys just don't mature faster than girls do.. They just like it cuz it gets them horny and crap.
3. It depends on the person. If they want to have sex when they get married then it might disguss them but if they aren't a virgin and the other person doesn't care then i guess not.
People are different.
I hope i help..
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1. They have recently learned of sex and the nature, and want to experiment. They also want to rebel, like all teens do, so they do it by rebelling against their parents as such. Also, the hormones are much higher during adolescence, meaning people want sex more. Lastly, teens think that they get into really deep relationships, and want to affirm their love for each other in some meaningful way as an adult would.
2. Testosterone makes them want to.
3. Yes. But, teens don't think of that.
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I agree. I may be a guy, but I'm not one of those idiots who lacks self-respect and loses virginity at age 9! I think people have premarital sex because it makes the feel good, or it makes them *cough* "cool", according to them. The porn is for those idiots who have sex so much that they've earned a bad reputation, and the closest they can get is porn. Engaged, if they can make it that far, I don't think it would disgust them, but it would sort of lower their standards of them. Hope I made it clearer!
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1) Hormones. We have rampant hormones, and we are physically adults (almost) and get horny.
2) Because guys are more visally stimulated, as opposed to girls (who DO enjoy porn sometime too) who are more emotionally stimulated.
3) disguss? do you mean disgust? in wich case, no, it shouldn't as long as you have a clean bill of health (get your blood checked for stds!)
discuss? yes. communication (espically about sexuall history) is important for a healty relationship.
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Very good Questions my friend.
1) teen tend to participate in premarital Sex because they are trying find love they so desperately trying to find love, something they crave but don't get at home. Think about who tend to be the once to do that sort of thing tend to have parents who don't really care about their children.
2) same as answer, they think that Porn will show them how to get love, but like all Drugs, Porn gives nothing but misery and despair in the long run.
3) absolutely; it great you share the same opinion as so many others I have met recently
Well I hope this helps; let me know if it does
Best of Luck
~Teen Guru~
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1. Because those two consenting individuals who care about eachother feel mature enough to handle it. At least, that'd be a good reason why. If a couple feels ready, and they trust eachother with...eachother, then there's not really a problem with it. Unless they're doing it just to do it with any old person. These people are the idiots, and will eventually pay for what they're doing in some form or another. Like herpes. Or maybe something less harsh like a "hoebag" label.
2. In short: guys look at porn because it's AWESOME.
Okay, that may not be the best way to put it, but every guy enjoys pornographic material from time to time. It's as natural as bowel movements.
Well. Almost. As natural as attraction, I suppose, since that's really what it is.
3. I think it's selfish to expect someone to "save themselves" for you, especially when there are 6 billion other people on the Earth. Everyone understands that it's unbelievably rare to become engaged to the first person you've ever had feelings for. I don't think that not being a virgin would disgust them at all. Sex is natural. Sex is not bad. Sex is kind of important to the human race in the long run. I know some people say it is actually a relief that they aren't, they don't like the pressure of being a very first.
I hope I've provided some sort of insight.
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