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Q: ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?
Heh...ive read about guys doing this in magazines..and although its a cute idea, many guys have done it before. Not usually with a glass rose..its usually done with a silk rose or a plastic one.
But, i am sure shed still appreciate it, because you love her and you are showing her in a creative way.

Q: is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like???
duuuh. They are competition.

Q: hey guys.. well pretty soon my friend is having a keg party(drinking) and inviting everyone because her moms going to be out of town that night.. and i want to go but im scared that the cops will come and we all will get busted.. shes done a lot before and never gotten caught by her mom or anything but since its this big of a party im not sure if i should go or not it would be a ton of fun but i dont want to get totally screwed.. so let me know what i should do, thanks...
Usually cops wont nail every single kid at the party. If they come they will usually just tell you to break it up and go home..and then they will talk to the house owner.
Or if the cops come just hide..haha.

Q: Ok~~ im 13 years old and im a girl lol~~well anyways have a boyfriend~ we've been going out for almost a month now~~ but he's a year younger than me and next year ill be in high school and he will be in middle school still~~ and i dont know wut to do because now football is almost over and that is the only time i see him~~ plus i sorta like another guy~ but i still love him help me i dont know wut to do~ please-- Jada
Relationships never last when you are that young. You still have quite awhile till you go to highschool so dont worry about it. You will probably be broken up with him by then anyway.

Q: So is it true what they say, that once you are friends with a girl you are trapped in the friend zone forever, and it will never grow into something more? or is it just a myth?
Thats not true.

After being best friends with a guy for 4 years we realized that we liked each other a lot and we dated for about a year. We are broken up now, but still really good friends still.

Some of the best relationships are friendships first.

Q: okay well i have this problem that when im going out with someone and they compliment me..but i dont know what to say back like one time this guy i was going out with goes your so beautiful and i go thank you..like wtf was i thinking? i dont really wanna say thank you..so what are some ideas of what i could say to something like that instead of thank you? oh im a 15/f
If you get a compliment like that from your boyfriend its ok to say thank you. If you dont want to say that though just say.."Aw you are so sweet.." and give him a kiss on the cheek or something. Or you can give him the same compliment back..haha.

Q: okay, 2 questions...
1. I straiten my hair , and i wanna look good and everything, but it seems like my hair is thinning day by day, what should i do??

2. Okay all the girls in my school wear Abercombie..and if i don't wear it i feel like a dork.....so if i were to go shopping there, how much would a whole outfit cost....jw...




PLEASE HELP!



Your hair probably isnt thinning..so i wouldnt worry about that.

And the whole abercrombie thing...
Id feel more like a dork trying to wear the same clothes everyone else is.
I am assuming that you are in middle school because thats the only time people really obsess about looking the same as each other but trust me, spending a couple hundred dollars on an outfit just to match your friends is not worth it.

Q: My hair is curly. Not like loose curls but like really curly. Anyways my sister has the same type of hair but a little bit curlier. She dyed her hair and also straightens it like on every saturdays(cuz she parties and stuff) and she sometimes straighten it on weekdays. Since she dyed her hair, her hair looks really...cripsy. But i don't know.

I want to dye my hair but i don't even straighten it! Should it be okay? Because my sister says that i shouldn't because it would add alot of damage. But i really want to. And i don't think that`ll it be TOTALLY crispy like my sisters because she straightens it more than i do. And i hardley ever straighten. Like..HARDLY!! Do you think it would be a good idea for me to dye my hair? And what would be some good products for my hair not to end up like my sisters even if i don't straighten it?

PLEASE HELP ME!!! IF YOU ARE TOTALLY CONFUSED THEN PLEASE READ IT AGAIN!!! I HAVE UNTIL THE WEEKEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EASY 5's!!

i ♥ you !!
I get my hair dyed every 5 weeks, and i straighten and back comb/rat it everday, and its perfectly fine.

I suggest getting your hair dyed by a professional. Box dyes are horrible on your hair. Use a deep conditioner after it gets dyed, and if you straighten it use a thermal setting spray or something that will keep the heat from damaging it.

Q: Okay, my friend from another town has a guy friend. And she showed him my picture before and he thinks im hot and wants me to hook up with him. Id make out with someone because Im not prude. But he wants me to give him a blowjob - In the movie theatre! And my friend doesnt think its a big deal. What should I do? Would it be wrong to just make out with him or is that bad? Hes really cute from his pic...My freiend has given him a bj once but ive never done it. 14/f
Id just stick to making out..

Q: right, well my hair is naturally curly. but i straighten it every day. when i leave the house its like perfectly straight but like 2 hours later, its not. its so annoying!!! my friends recommended hairspray, but ive used some hairspraying products before, and they arent good. but they didnt cost alot. sorry 'bout how long this is but ya know. so does anyone have any tips/products that might work? TY x0x
I have naturally curly hair too, and after id straighten it itd always still get wavy, but i found the secret of keeping it straight.
It probably wont work for you though depending on how you like to style your hair.
I love having big hair..so i back comb it alllll..then i smooth it out on the top..and hair spray it till it doesnt move...and it stays perfect all day long.

Q: i've been with this girl for 2 months and at first everything was fine but when it started to get to the 2nd month we quit spending time together and everything we quit going places together and quit having sex and all kinds of stuff and i want to know what to do
talk to her about it.

Q: my bf and I never have things to talk about. What can we talk about?
sex

Q: Do pink and black go good together?
very good.

Q: How can you usually tell if your in love?
Theres no signs..
Everyone defines love in different ways.
If you are actually in love, you will know.

Q: does dark red hair (burgundy) drain out ice blue eyes?
red brings out blue.

Q: I'm having a Halloween/ Birthday party today and I rented Amutiville Horror and Texas Chainsaw Massaccre. I was wondering are they really scary, like should I be watching the,? (i'm 13)
Amittyville is ok.
I dont suggest texas chainsaw massacre. Its not really appropriate for 13 year olds. Its not scary or anything, just gross and disturbing.

Any of those pg-13 scary movies would be perfect for your party.

Q: Beast.
Any tips for scoring on a chick that's way obsessed with her ex boyfriend?
Nope, no tips.

I mean you could always try the classic getting her drunk thing...but i am sure that wont work.

You could always kill the ex-boyfriend..

Q: i want my make up to look nice and probessional,not slopy and over-done. Let me tell some of my features.

I have : Brown Brig eyes,with long eyelashes(no need for mascara),Brown Layred (shortest layer...a little long there the top of my ear) hair that goes down to a little shorter to the middle of my back. Fair-Olive skin that is Normal/Oily.Black bushy eyebrows (getting them shapend on saturday!)Dark Circles under my eyes..(how do i get rid of them?)Um...im only 13 so you cant tell i have high cheekbones yet,but im going to be 14 soon.And pink,normal lips.

Soo,what im asking is what make up exactly should i use for the movie-star touch,what brands,what is a good facial cleaners that tightens pores**and prevents and fights blemishes,and what would be the perfect style for my hair?! tomarrow is a big day,and i really need a good impression on some people!!
Ok as for skin care, clinique makes some good pore tightening stuff..but at your age you shouldnt worry about that. Mary Kay has some good skin products as well.
At 13, good makeup would be a light color of eyeshadow all over your lid, a little darker color for your crease, a little eyeliner, and some mascara. Use a concealer to cover the dark cirlcles under your eyes, and any blemishes, then use foundation (only if you need it) and powder. Then brighten it all up with a little blush and lip gloss.


Q: Ok when I drink sometimes I can drink a lot and be normal but other times I can drink very little and get wasted. Why does this happen?
That happens to me sometimes too. If you dont eat anything all day...or take any kind of pills that thin your blood you will get drunk without having to drink much.
It also depends on what you are drinking and how fast you drink it.

Q: hi my name is jake, i'm 16 sophmore in high school. over the years i watch my friends go through relationships and stuff, n i never had one. n its not bc i'm antisocial or anything; i think i'm pretty popular, lots of friends and stuff. just thinks never seem to happen or get to the point of relationships; is this weird? should i try to put more an effort to startin a relationship? or should i just kinda be passive about it like i've been. i do want to find someone, to have fun with.
I didnt have a boyfriend until i was nearly 17..so i dont really think that being 16 and not having had a relationship yet is a big deal.
I would just be more forward with girls you like..otherwise no one will know that you want a relationship with them.

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