|
Okay, my friend from another town has a guy friend. And she showed him my picture before and he thinks im hot and wants me to hook up with him. Id make out with someone because Im not prude. But he wants me to give him a blowjob - In the movie theatre! And my friend doesnt think its a big deal. What should I do? Would it be wrong to just make out with him or is that bad? Hes really cute from his pic...My freiend has given him a bj once but ive never done it. 14/f
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Meet him. talk to him. get to know him. THEN decide if you want to make out with him. Its not about being a prude or not, its about making someone earn your affection and having respect for yourself to know that you don't have to just give of yourself, sexually or emotionally unless someone gives back.
Hook up if you feel like once you get to know him. As for giving a bj in a movie theater, or anywhere else in public for that matter... just a word of advice: Don't. Its cheap and you could get caught and would be humiliating. If you don't have a place to go where you have privacy, then just wait.. and really just wait until you get to know him. I know some people think that kind of stuff is nothing, and at a certain point, maybe thats true, but do you really feel that way?
]
b/j give you nad breath. seriously, my friends sister has to take breath pills b/c she does that crap. if you dont feel comfortable with it then you should seriously say no. if you dont want to turn him down then tell him you have other plans. i dont think its right for him to ask you something like that, it shows he does not care about you. so what if he thinks your hot? dont you want someone that likes you for YOU and not some "chickenhead"?
]
If to you, it is a big deal, then treat it like one. He is obviously not a gentleman. I understand you like him, but if he asks you to do something you don't want to, you are free to stand up for yourself and either deny him the request verbally or physically by walking out. For a boy to ask sexual favours of a female is quite egotistical and disguisting, especially after you know your friend has given him a blow job.
Do what you are comfortable with. Not what someone says or asks of you. Just make sure to always stand your ground. It will be a useful trait when you are older.
]
I dont think you should but making out is not good either. If you feel comfortable making out with no regrets then you go ahead and do it. i suggest not giving a guy a bj in a theatre or any public place.
]
Id just stick to making out..
]
I think it would be wrong to even "make-out" with this complete stranger, much less give him a bj! If you are going to the movies, watch the movie! The other movie goers don't want to see kids making out. It's rude!
Get to know someone before exchanging sexual favors. You will feel better about your self and the situation if there are feelings behind the action.
Besides that, this guy doesn't even care about you - as he has never met you. All he cares about is the free blowjob from a hot girl.
I hope you would respect yourself more than that.
]
I think if this guy is asking for sexual favors before he even knows you he is someone to avoid.
Young girls need to learn not to be so quick to mess around with guys. It is very scary that your friend seems to think this behavior is okay.
I'm sure she isn't alone.
Wait on that kind of thing until you get to know someone really well. He obviously just wants sex. Guys like that don't usually call back until they want more sex.
He doesn't care about spending time with you or getting to know you at all. He will hurt your feelings and not even care.
I think you probably have an idea that not going along with all of it is the right thing. Don't be pressured into doing something you know isn't right for you.
Before you do anything I have something I want to to read through. If you want to of course :)
Sex, Take Time To Make The Right Decision:
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|