Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 2:06 am
can anyone think of any reason why a bf wouldnt be happy for his gf if she found a job that she really liked?
I'll right anyone who answers with a 5. Thanks!
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday December 24 2005, 11:27 am: Maybe he doesnt want to loose her because she might start working a lot or find someone at the job !!
MummuM answered Friday December 23 2005, 1:47 pm: There's a lot of things that could be going through your boyfriends head;
He could be scared that you are going to get too many hours, and pretty soon you guys won't be able to see eachother as much as you're used to.
He could think while you're at work, you could find someone else that you'll start liking and you'll forget about him.
If you really like this job and you're really into it, he could think you'll just forget about him since you like the job so much.
All these reasons and more could lead up to your boyfriend thinking this job isn't right for you. Just ask him about it. I'm sure he'll explain his views on this and why he might feel down about it. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
ask-kiely22 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 9:22 pm: well...obviously he cares about you enought that he would want you to spend more time w/ him instead of your new job. If it were me i would call him and explain to him that i care about him and will still make time for him...but i just need some time for my space. I presume he is really excited for you inside...he just wants to make it more complicated. Thanks!
kiely [ ask-kiely22's advice column | Ask ask-kiely22 A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:28 pm: he might be scared that she will work alot and not spend time with him 0R he might be jelous that she has a better job than him '`♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
babyface answered Thursday December 22 2005, 5:38 pm: maybe he doesn't like the job that she likes!
charmed3fanatic answered Thursday December 22 2005, 2:28 pm: i would have to say... he shoudl be happy but he prolly isn't happy because he thinks that you might work too much and take time out of his time with you =/ ... hope that's what you were looking for =] anything else just let me know [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
heya answered Thursday December 22 2005, 11:38 am: He's jealous because youre paying more attention to the job (which you really like) and youre not paying attention to him nemore. Need nemore advice? just ask! [ heya's advice column | Ask heya A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday December 22 2005, 10:31 am: Yes. He probablly think she might meet another guy at work or that she won't spend much time with him. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
bNicolex3 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 10:29 am: Its possible that hes scared that your gonna meet a new guy at your work or that you will be too busy for him. reasure him that your with him for a reason and for him not to worry.
ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:44 am: He might not be happy if you might have to travel alot or not be around alot.. If she is going to be overly busy and have no time for him.. those are the only reasons i could think of.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
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