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friend trouble.
I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?
prettykitty77723
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It depends on if your friends are more important than your boyfriend. If your friends are more important than break up with him. But if he is, than stay with him. Everything happens for a reason ♥
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You can just talk to you friends and tell them that you really like this guy,and ask them why they hate him so much and then ask them nicely if they can just try and be nice to him.Just tell your friends that he treats you well, and they should understand that he makes you happy.If their your true friends they should understand.♥
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My friend went through this and she broke up with the guy.. in the end! and now she still really likes him but hes a real jerk to her.. I say dont listen to what your friends are saying..its not there life and tell your friends to shutup and its not there decision to make
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Talk to your friends and see exactly WHY they don't like them, if they're going to have an opinion of him, tell them to at least justify it! Say to them that he means a lot to you and that you want them to be happy for you...they're friends..they're meant to be!
x Steph x
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tell them you like him and they need to fuckin back off and lighten upp !!
♥ Samra
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Tell your friends the reasons why you like him. Explain to them that he treats you well, and they should understand that he makes you happy. They're your friends and they should understand.
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Tell your friend that its your choice who you go out with and why. NOT hers. If she doesn't care about your choices and respect them, she's not your friend.
Seriously.
Don't dump him for your ignorant friend.
KYlie
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uh say hell with your friend.. ((but still be her friend)) but just tell her how it is.. be like look i know you dont aprove of me and my boyfriend goin* out but who the hell asked for you opinion you need to grow up.. hes my troubles not yours so no need to worry you can handle him and she doesnt ... so what not.. just tell her that you still wanna* be her friend ((duh)) and be like its just that you need to stop threatening my boyfriend if ya* dont like him dont say shit to him ...
hope i helped
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find out wh yyour friends hate your guy so much! he cant be that bad!
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i think that if you like him a lot and hes really good for you then go with your gut. You should also sit down with your friend and talk to her about why she dislikes him so much and if they could maybe start getting along but dont let him go just because someone else doenst like him. Good Luck
PeAcE
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Well, he's your boyfriend, not hers. Does she even really know him? If not, get some friends together and go out to the mall or the movies and try to sort things out.
If your friends do know him, and still don't like him, maybe you just need to sit down and talk with them. Find out why they don't like him, and maybe ask to give him a chance. Good luck!
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If one of your friends threatned your boyfriend i think you should stop hanging out with them not your boyfriend idk y any friend would threaten there friends boyfriend but they don't sound like the kindof person you should be friends with
so keep the boyfriend lose the friend
hope i helped
Morbid
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I think that there not really friends to you. friends usually want the best for there friends which your friends arent doing. If you really want to stay with the guy i think you should you should go by what your friends say you should go by what you want.
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eh. this question hits too close to home. What i did was ask your friends what it is about him that they dont like and if its a pretty good reason then i would seriously think about it because your friends will be there when he isnt and most likely they are just looking out for your benefit. On the other hand if its not a good excuse then confront them and just be like. look i like him cant yall just be happy for me?
hope i helped <33
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You really either need to talk to your friends or just get over them. Ask your friends why they hate him so much and what he ever did to them. Ask them if they are your real friends or not because real friends wouldn't be like that they would treat him better than that. Its about you and him going out and being together. As long as your happy with this guy then you should stay with him dont break up just because of your friends. Your friends should let you be happy even if they aren't because its better to see someone happy then not being happy. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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Tell your friends to get over themselves! sheesh, are they really your friends if they treat someone you realy realy like that way? tell them that hes perfect to you and if they cant ecept that then its there problem!!
sorry if this sounded mean, i dident mean it to! hope this helps! -cjAdvice
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I'd SERIOUSLY talk to your friends. Why do they hate him so much? Did he ever do anything to them? Also, if they're your friends they should be happy with whom you date if it's making their friend happy, thats all that should matter. You don't have to break up with your boyfriend. You shouldn't have to just because your friends don't like him. Just seriously talk to them adn ask them why they hate him and everything. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Hey
Well i always said chicks before dicks (hehe)
but with all jokes aside, they are your friends and if they really hate this guy there must be a good reason otherwise i think your friends are jealous.
If they hate him and they give you no reason for hating him then i say they aren't good friends! Just follow your heart. And if you want to add more information so i could help you some more be sure to leave a comment in my inbox. Or just IM me on my sn
DiOr BARBIEE
♥ maria ♥
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You need to talk to her and tell her that if she is your true friend she would let you make your own decisions. You really like this guy, and she shouldn't be getting in the way because she hates him. She also needs to leave her rude attitude somewhere else and not threaten him because that's really mean. Just talk to her and tell her that you really like him and that she shouldn't be saying those things because you really like him. She should keep her comments to herself. If you talk to her nicely, she will understand.
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