My name is Savannah. I have 3 brothers and 3 sisters and I live in North Carolina. I love ice skating, basketball, soccer, and softball. I like to hang out with my friends and go shopping...who doesn't! I love giving advice to people and all my friends like to do it so ask me anything and you'll be sure to get an answer
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Member Since: October 2, 2005
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Last Update: November 6, 2005
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Hey.. I'm a sophomore in high school, I go to an all girls school in Missouri. I came to high school without any friends from grammar school really.. I had no close friends of which I hung out with. I came into high school and met a ton of people.. but all of freshman year I never went out on a friday night. Now, I just started sophomore year and I'm making a real effort to talk to people and try to make friends but it's not working. I'm in honors classes and it just seems like a lot of the girls in the class are not like me at all. I try to be social and make friends but no one seems to wanna hang out wiht me. I'm also just a totally different person at school than the person I am at home. I am really funny and loud at home and at school I'm quite. I'm shy sometimes too. I think people get the wrong impression of me. I just really want this to work. The girls in my honors classes like where their skirts up really high and are really egotistical and weird..I guess you could say, and the other girls drink, and I don't drink (alcohol). I feel in the middle.Theirs a sophomore dance in february and I want a group of friends by than so that I can meet some guys through them to go to the dance with. I AM SOO STRESSING OUT ABOUT THIS DANCE!!! WHAT AM I GONNA DO?!?!?!?!?! It's really depressing and upsetting. I know that most of you will probably say that I should get to know people, and introduce myself, and I am. I am in class with basically the same girls I was freshman year. If no one could give me advice, and encouraging story would be good. Is there any of you that were in my situation and found a group of friends? please help! (link)
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I had the exact same problem as you. The friends that I did have in middle school turned out to not be the best kind of people to be friends with. I was the "quiet, weird girl" at school but once I got home I was talkative, funny, and a very loud person at home. When I started my freshman year, I found a group of people who were just like me and now I have a huge group of friends. I suggest that you find something you really like around the school like a club where you can meet people like you that share your interests. Try to talk to people and show them the not so quiet side of you.
Also, don't be pressured to do what the other girls in your classes are doing just to fit in with them. If you do, you'll probably end up like me doing the wrong things just to fit in. Soon you will find a group of friends and I'm sure you'll find a guy for the dance so try not to be so stressed over it. High school is a lot of fun after all. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out ok. If you need anything else, feel free to send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible.
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One of my best friends thinks she fat when she's really not and she says she on a diet. When I asked her though if she was on a starvation diet, she said "Next subject please." That tells me she needs help. I don't know what I should do though. I'm really worried about her. Should I tell someone even though she made me promise not to?
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Love, Brittany (link)
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You should definitely tell someone even if she gets mad at you. Its better to tell someone if you really care about her because thats what a friend should do for another friend. After you tell someone, you should talk to her about it. Tell her your worried about her and that it scares you the way she's acting. You really do need to tell someone because anorexia and bulimia are very serious problems that shouldn't go unnoticed. Hope I helped and if you need anything else feel free to send me a message.
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Look, im in 8th grade and I'm a girl. I'm 13 years old. There's this boy I really like, and I don't know if he likes me... We were really good friends since 3rd grade, and in 4th grade we were going out. In 5th grade we were just friends. In 6th grade we weren't. Then in 7th grade we were friends. Now in 8th grade he's my friend again and he smiles at me a lot. We just got partnered for an interview project and he looked really happy about it. I hope he likes me because I think im in love. I really like this guy and I hope he likes me. Please give me advice on how to confront him and talk to him and maybe tell your opinion on if he likes me or not. Also, should I tell him I like him? I don't know what to do. Please help me. (link)
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I had that same situation when I was in eighth grade last year. My advice is to tell him how you feel because if you don't nothing is ever going to change and your going to feel horrible about it if you don't tell him. If you never tell him and he does like you he might realize that maybe you don't like him so he'll move on and you don't want that to happen.
I suggest that (if he has Instant messanger) you should IM him and tell him how you feel although telling him in person is sometimes a better way. It really depends on what kind of person you are. If your a shy person and you don't like coming out in the open about something I would send him an IM instead but its your choice. I hope everything works out for you and if you need anything else feel free to send me a message.
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my sister is such a fucking bitch, shesthe same age as me and she always finds a way to critisize me. about everything. literally. after it haappened. it makes me want to strangle her to death. i picture myself tying her to a chair and beating the shit outta her. i cant live with her anymore. she calls me fat, ugly, gay(im not), she makes fun of me because i have ADD(which i dont) and because i got a D on my report card ONCE! in my 1st year of jr. high. i cant stand her, i can hardley live with her anymore. help. 13 f (link)
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First off, I have the EXACT same problem as you except I have a brother that is the same age as me. At first he was the screw up and I was the good one in the family but things changed around and he became a perfect guy that all my friends wanted which pissed me off. My advice is that you should try not to let her bother you even though I know it is hard BELIEVE ME! Once she realizes it doesn't bother you, she'll stop and she won't bother you anymore. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out good
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Okay, there's this guy Robert. Long story short, he's annoying. Well in math class he made me drop my stuff so I told him to pick it up and when he did he slammed it on my desk so I kinda smacked him in the side of the head and he smacked me back the same way. Now, I don't keep things from my boyfriend, so I told my boyfriend what he did. Now Justin (my boyfriend) wants to fight him for hitting me. I told Justin, "it's okay I hit him first," "it wasnt very hard anyways" whatever, but he doesn't care. Now Robert's pissing me off because he's up at the front of the room talking to my friend Bryce calling me a mother-f****** c***-sucking stupid lying ass b****. And when someone in class says "We don't screw everything in math" Robert goes "Christina screws everything." It's starting to piss me off and I don't know what I should do. I can't ignore it. Any help is greatly appreciated, thanks! (link)
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In my opinion, I think the guy is just doing it to bother you. Just ignore him and let him see he doesn't annoy you anymore even if it does. Soon he wil stop once he sees you don't care anymore. If that doesn't work I think you SHOULD let your boyfriend beat him up. Either way I hope things work out for you.
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ok i like this guy matt alot and he told my friend that he only wants to be friends for now and homecoming is in 2 weeks in spanish we were talking about it and he said to his friend that hes asking someone and he has a backup plan. i know im him backup plan bc im his "friend" i kno he thinks im pretty and we flirt alot so why doesnt he like me?? besides that i dont like being his backup plan i really want to go with him but not as a back up plan if he asks me i know it will only be b/c the person he wants to ask says no and i hate that but really want to go with him what should i do?!?!?!?! (link)
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I think you should talk to him about it. Tell him about how you heard the "backup plan" and that it makes you feel bad. Its always better to talk about a problem then to keep it to yourself. Tell him how you feel and see how it goes. Hope it all works out for you
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ok so there's this boy and i really really like him. we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i actually beleive him (i dont beleive people who hurt me very often) he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's gorgous but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. How can i get him to like me? and is he worth it? i get soo jealous when he's with other girls.
thanks so much. (link)
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In my opinion, this guy is a waste of your time. If he does things like that to you I don't think he's worth it but you know the guy better then I do so I think you should just do what you think is right. If he hits on your friends and cheats on you then he is going to hurt you again. Try not to get jealous when he's with other girls. Just try to think of how bad he hurt you and just be glad that he won't hurt you anymore. Honestly I have never been in a situation like that but I hope I helped and if you need anything else be sure to send me another question. Hope everything turns out good.
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ok so there is this guy and hes new to my school and i realy like him but so do all of the "preps\chealreders" to. But when i first saw him when i was in the wrong gym class for the hole period when this guy i hate so much ask him out for me and i think i totally blew it because i said eww no because i have never seen him before.His looker is 2 away from mine and i see him we talk and i smile at him and at choir i once saw him looking at me and it made therest of the day GREAT and my one friends asked him out for me 3 times with out me knowing and i just found out that he said no everytime and that realy pissed me off because my friend went behind my back and he difeitaly doesnt like me but i like him and cant stop thinking about him what can i do?? PLEASE HELP_ ME AMBER MARIE CARROLL (13-f) (link)
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I have had this situation SOOO many times and there is mainly only one answer to give. There was this guy that I had known my ENTIRE life and no matter how much I liked him he never liked me back and it killed me. He started coming to our school and all the cheerleaders started liking him. The only thing you can do is try to move on no matter how hard it may be. I think you should still talk to him and stay friends with him because he might change his mind later about liking you but for the moment you should try to move on. If you wait around for one guy too long, you may not notice when the perfect guy comes by and then it might be too late. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out good!
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