ok so there's this boy and i really really like him. we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i actually beleive him (i dont beleive people who hurt me very often) he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's gorgous but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. How can i get him to like me? and is he worth it? i get soo jealous when he's with other girls.
So you'd rather go out with him KNOWING you are going to get your heart broken, rather than find another guy who won't cheat on you? I know there are plenty of guys out there like that, but you would just prefer to date the same guy that has cheated on you in the past.
This is why guys can never understand women. This is the most confusing shit ever. What kind of backwards logic would allow you to say that dating him would be worth having your heart torn out of your chest and pissed on AGAIN? [ AGEHA's advice column | Ask AGEHA A Question ]
feversandmirrors answered Sunday October 2 2005, 11:40 pm: Try to get yourself to stop liking him, because he's not worth your time. At all. Just stop talking to him. Find yourself a new crush. Believe me, once you find some one else, this one isn't even going to matter. But definately don't give him the time of day. [ feversandmirrors's advice column | Ask feversandmirrors A Question ]
bEaChBuM1719 answered Sunday October 2 2005, 9:37 pm: in my opinion i wouldn't wait around for him.you may think you can change him, but trust me he won't.my ex was the SAME way! he cheated on me and now i'm over it. but if you really think you like him enough to try to make him change, hang out with him more,and if he starts goin for other girls you start goin for other guys.
ItzMzManda answered Sunday October 2 2005, 7:23 pm: He's so not worth it. You deserve better guys than this guy. He says he's not going to hurt you again, but you can't really trust him. Dont waste your time on him. People change and some dont and this guy is one that doesnt change. If he really likes you then he wouldn't be hittin on your friend. He's the type of guy that's into looks, I'm guessing. All girls get jealous when the guy she likes is with other girls thats gonna happen. Move on and let him get jealous of you because your with other guys and he messed up because he cheated on you before. Hope this helps!
-Manda [ ItzMzManda's advice column | Ask ItzMzManda A Question ]
XxSk8grl4evrX answered Sunday October 2 2005, 6:01 pm: In my opinion, this guy is a waste of your time. If he does things like that to you I don't think he's worth it but you know the guy better then I do so I think you should just do what you think is right. If he hits on your friends and cheats on you then he is going to hurt you again. Try not to get jealous when he's with other girls. Just try to think of how bad he hurt you and just be glad that he won't hurt you anymore. Honestly I have never been in a situation like that but I hope I helped and if you need anything else be sure to send me another question. Hope everything turns out good.
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