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I REALLY HATE MY LIFE
i moved from my city(we'll call it A),to a town(call it B) and im really sad.I moved to B in the middle of august last year.Well,last year in B i had a lot of friends.This year,everyone HATES me for some reason.I've NEVER liked B.It was gay..and i know i changed from when i lived in A,and that makes me really sad.I want to move back to A soo bad,because i had all my friends that actually liked me there.But the more i live in B,the farther apart i feel i am getting from my A friends.I also have this..weird jealousy of my friends in A because i live in B.I've been crying my eyes out,and im not eating well,thinking of how bad my life is in B and how good it was in A.Im a big mess,and the truth is i dont want any friends in B.Im stressed and i dont know what to do.If the prices go down in A,we'll move back {{Maybe}}.And i'll be so happy. I just want to move back to A and forget i even moved to B.Here,i feel like i will get no where in my life,no dreams,just..an avrage person.I really want to move back,where my dreams are.But how can i cope with this siuation for the time being that i live in B?
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make pretend B is A and try to use ur imagination
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try to find something you like about B. anything at all. a nice street that reminds you of a movie/book/something. try to figure out what is it about B that you hate the most: people or the town itself.
get talking to someone who moved to B recently, there's a good chance they feel the same. or simply get to know someone shy/quiet/lonely, they are probably looking for friends too.
good luck!
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well just think about what you have to look forward to someday in A! I mean enjoy this place now because if you really set your mind on it, someday youll move back! It helps with friends so really try to make good friends! maybe your not going for the right people, get involved in things and try to make friends there....itll make life a lot easier!
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn
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I think that the reason people at B don't want to be your friend is because you are still stuck in A! You think about your friends, your house, your dreams, and your life in A, without realizing that there's all that stuff in B too. I know what it is like to want something that you can't have-you feel helpless and horrible. But, you need to let go. Don't try to make friends with all of the people who remind you of A. Don't be the same person! Become more generous, funny, crazy, chocoholic, anything! You're in a new place, so start your new life. Pick something to do (like a sport or an after-school activity) that you never would have done in A. It can be so stressful to start over, but maybe it was just what you needed. Try as hard as you can to be friendly. Branch out to people who you wouldn't normally hang out with. Save your depression for the night, and during the day have as much fun as humanly possible! Flirt and hang out and never forget to laugh. Keep in touch with all of your friends from A. If you're still seriously missing A, have a serious talk with your parents. They need to understand what a big toll this is taking on your life. Good luck!
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ok lets see this is the same thing that happened to me i lived in city a for 12 years and then out of the blue my parents say we r moving to city b and i just hated my parents for doing this to me and its been 16 months since we have moved and all my friends say i need to move back but my parents keep saying no and they hardly let me go see them and at nights i cry my eyes out but i stil have many good frieds in city b but i still would like to move back to city a so bad but u just have to stick with it and everntually the right thing will happen
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you juss need to stick with it. i mean, maybe your life in A was way better but you can try to make your life in B like that too. always remember that you only need one true friend & you'll be juss fine. it's strange that your friends don't like you this year, but if you juss try becoming friends with a few people you like, things should work out better for you.
-hope that helped!♥
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