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how do u grow a rose?
1.make sure the baobabs dont destroy your planet.
2.find a rose
3.care about it, give it everything you have, water it, shelter it from the cold winds, make sure the caterpillars don't hurt the rose
4.and, most impotantly, listen to her because she is your rose.
and read the most wonderful book in the world "the little prince"
What are some good german rock/pop music?
I only know one its Rammstein. they are really good.
Hey! I saw you added me. Did I answer a question of yours?
no not really. just like your name. its cool
sometimes, even if i'm having a good day and everything, i just feel depressed. i feel like no one likes me. then i think that i should get really skinny (why? i have no idea!) i just think... tomorrow i'm going to wake up at 5, run, exercise, and shower... (and stuff like that) and so i'd get really skinny... (weird, i know) and other times i *think* about sutting my wrists, i never have and i'm scared... so do i have a case of depression???
ah, you're just confused. talk to your friends, spend more time with them, i think good friends are best therapy
What can I do to make me think about food less?
drink. a lot. of. alcohol.
I meet this kid last summer he was having a terrible night as he walked home. and i ws walking my dog and i said something about my dog to him and made him laugh. ever since that day i thought about this kid. well last monday i was up a community center and i meet him there ago not reconizen him and he brought up what happen i was like that was you well we hang out every day i found out he is a senior and im a freshman i no i "dont know what love is yet" but i really like him alot we have so much in common help me!! i rate high
oh i really think age means nothing more than the number of years we've spent in this world.
so good luck!
If God gives humanity purpose and meaning, what gives God purpose and meaning?
Is God meaningless and purposeless?! If so, wouldn't that mean that humans are just meaningless and purposeless, and that their "meaning" and "purpose" given by God is purely arbitrary?
god is whatever we believe him to be. he is different for everyone.
we are humans and we are what we choose to do. if our choices make us purpouseless and meaningless, then we are all of those things.
so its whatever you make of it yourself. i wouldnt ask god or anyone olse to give MY life purpose and meaning.
my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne
i used to have 2 turtles. they definetly dont smell and i loved them. you cant really play with them but they're great.
dont get a dog they smell. you'll stop noticing after a while but the smell will always be there...
Alright, I'm making a new xanga layout and I want to decide which quote I should make it of. I'll give some backround on me- I've never had a bf so if any of these quotes are too "you break my heartish" tell me NO! And I dont want to sound to pathetic and emo(tional) because thats not me! But something not HAPPY! Here's the ones I have to choose from:
Why can't anyone love a breath taker, a smile faker?
Do you ever wake up to realize your life is meaningless? Does it give you strength or lead you to your grave at a young age?
It seems that when I ran away from my past all my dignity, my faith, my pride got left back.
I think it’s time that I realize self pity’s meaningless.
Now I realize I‘d give anything I have to walk a day in those old shoes
Wondering what my first smoke would be like, my first f***, my next f*** up. Or the next band that would change my life.
From confidence to self doubt in 60 seconds.
Trying to win approval from people that I don’t know.
Not admitting I’m fake.
ALRIGHT! Thanks for all the help...I know this was probably a pain to read!
i love the "why cant anyone love...?"
its brill!!!
Im starting a diet today. Your traditional no soda, all water, fruits &&veggies kinda thing. Im planning on becoming a vegetarian also..I alrady know the excersizes im gonna do, so dont think that im not stupid enough to juss search this, but what are some good MEALS, like for dinner i could eat? My mom is always making something with MEAT in it. She says shell make me something else if i give her an idea..so any ideas?
*will rate*
you can make this yourself, its really easy, i invented the recipe myself!
You'll need: pasta
eggs
tomatos
1.Cook pasta.
2.Put an egg(or 2 or more, depends what you want)
into a mixing bowl.
3.Chop a tomato(or 2 etc) into little pieces.
4.Add tomato/s to the egg/s. Mix well.
5.Heat some oil in a frying pan and put the
pasta into it.
6.Add the egg+tomato to the pasta. Stir until all
the egg is cooked.
7.Enjoy!
i moved from my city(we'll call it A),to a town(call it B) and im really sad.I moved to B in the middle of august last year.Well,last year in B i had a lot of friends.This year,everyone HATES me for some reason.I've NEVER liked B.It was gay..and i know i changed from when i lived in A,and that makes me really sad.I want to move back to A soo bad,because i had all my friends that actually liked me there.But the more i live in B,the farther apart i feel i am getting from my A friends.I also have this..weird jealousy of my friends in A because i live in B.I've been crying my eyes out,and im not eating well,thinking of how bad my life is in B and how good it was in A.Im a big mess,and the truth is i dont want any friends in B.Im stressed and i dont know what to do.If the prices go down in A,we'll move back {{Maybe}}.And i'll be so happy. I just want to move back to A and forget i even moved to B.Here,i feel like i will get no where in my life,no dreams,just..an avrage person.I really want to move back,where my dreams are.But how can i cope with this siuation for the time being that i live in B?
try to find something you like about B. anything at all. a nice street that reminds you of a movie/book/something. try to figure out what is it about B that you hate the most: people or the town itself.
get talking to someone who moved to B recently, there's a good chance they feel the same. or simply get to know someone shy/quiet/lonely, they are probably looking for friends too.
good luck!
me and my friends have this bad habit where we talk bad behind EVERYONES back...i mean EVERYBODY... including ourselves... i hate wen people talk about me when im not around...
idk how to stop me and my friends from doing this
every time you start talking bad about someone try to change the subject.
and with your friends, tell them you no longer feel good talking behind people's backs. if they're good friends, they would listen to what you have to say.
Okay my question is long. This is something I am so confused on. Some people say demons do not exsist, but how can they not? We have reports of actual exorcisms and demon possession. Some people have their doubts and still say it's some sort of mental illness and an exocism drives thaty out of them. I believe demons are real, and if I believe demonic possession is real could a possession happen to myself? Now, I am trying to be rational in all and I know there hasn't been a possession/exorcism reported since the late 1940s. But the cases I have read throughly, they sound like real demonic possession and not just a mental illness. In the cases there was supernatural things going on such as levatation, sexual obsenities, foreign languages going on, self-mutilation, vomitting, moving of furniture, etc etc...now how can that be catagorized as a mental illness? But initially some people still believe it is. As for myself, Im really intrested in this sort of thing, I am also wondering if learning too much and sort of becomming obsessed with this sort of thing could open me up to possession? Sometime possession can occur differently for other people, people say the devil is always with you, and filling your mind with thoughts you can't control. Lately I have been having many of those thoughts, evil thoughts. Contemplating suicide, self-mutilation, alot of anger, could I be getting into this too far or could it be something else like depression etc, I know none of you can give me a straight answer but I would like input on what your beliefs are about this whole thing, it's very very hard to understand and complicated.
well...personally i woldnt get too involved with this stuff...i'd say reading about it is pretty safe, you know, but going to places and doing things is not. definetly not.
i hope your evil thoughts are something like depression because it can be treated while if it has something to do with your interest in demons...then i see trouble...
i think all the things you wrote about do exist. and to those people who dont i'd give a quote from the movie constantine "you dont believe in the devil but the devil believes in you"
these were just my (confused) thoughts, hope they helped
hey! ok to start off, im 14/f. ok im bi, and no its not just a stage im going through. anyway, theres this girl (a.b.) thats gay, and i have basketball with her (it's a class for us).. and shes really nice to me.. me and her are good friends.. but we just met this year.. and one day at softball practice (i play softball also) she was there with her friend (c.h.) whos on the team also and i was about to hit but i was talkin to them first and the people playing in the field hollered next batter get up there.. well c.h. was like dont holler at her shes my friend and a.b. was like yeah shes my friend too.. well today we had a softball game and she was there.. well she was staring at me like the whole game.. when i was warming up she was staring at me.. when i was playing in the field she was staring at me.. when i was sitting in the dugout she was staring at me.. now i dont want to get my hopes up or anything, but do you guys think she likes me? give me your honest opinion, i will rate.
totally yea!
silly you, of course she likes you!
good luck
there is this boy matt... and i hate him... and he hates me... he is so incredibly mean and i am incredibly mean to him... but heres the thing... i am in love with his best friend... and like i want to get on matts good side... because first of all i want to get closer to matt and second of all... i think we are like into the same things and could be good friends. dont worry... i dont want to use matt to get to his friend
mmm...
what do YOU hate him for?
and what does HE hate you for?
think about these...if there's no good reason for ye both to hate each other, try talking to him about one of the things you said you both are into.
maybe tell him you think it was kind of childish to be so mean to each other...
hope i helped!
always sleepy