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My name is Kaitlyn, I'm 15 years old. If you need any help with anything I'm your girl!I live in a small town in Mississippi.I'm definetly a beach bum.The beach is where I spend most of my time at with my friends.If you need anything I'm here for ya!
E-mail: kaitlynann1719@hotmail.com
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I was just wondering if anyone had any cute ideas for a hairstyle for a Christmas dance? Pictures would be helpful.

And if you need to know brown hair, down to about mid back?, angled a very small amount in the front.

Thanks! (link)
in long curls...or go get it done and have them put it up..and put some of it down..and have bangs to the side then curl the part thats up

kaitlyn


if i could ask my boyfriend ANYTHING what should i ask him? (link)
if he loves you

-kT


hey one of my best friends recently told me that he liked me and i like him too and we always tell each other evrything and we always stay up talking so anyways he told me he liked me and i like him too! but he is my best friends boyfriend and he told me before he told me he liked me that he was gonna breakup with her and now he's telling me he wants to go out with me and so do i but i mean if we go out my best friend will hate me! what should i do?? (link)
i was in the exact situation you are one time...me and my b/f had just broken up and my bestfriend made her move...we didnt talk for 6 months finally we started emailing eachother and i wrote her a poem about how we shouldnt let guys come between us...best friends last forever but boyfriends come and go

-kT


i am 14/f and i dont have a thong. am i the only one? how can i get some w/o getting embarrsed. how do i know my size?thnx 4 help! (link)
no you're not the only one! i didn't get my frist till i was 14...one day me and a few of my friends went to a store and we decided to get our first matching thongs..so grab a couple of your friends and shop for em! you won't feel embarressed with your friends by your side!

-kT


there is this guy. lets call him herman. well, me and herman went out for a year and i loved him deeply the whole time. he was my first and only love that ive ever really had. anyways, we broke up last year in the worst possible way. we dont talk or anything and i see him a lot in the halls between classes. he is the only person i think about even if i am going out with some other guy. i mean, he is the only reason i live. sometimes i wish that we had never met because i hurt so much. yeah well, i havent got over him and im pretty sure that im not gonna get over him for a long while. he used to be my best friend. my first real kiss. anyways, i dream about him every night. and i mean EVERY night. but i dont know why. i wish there was a way to stop. why? why do i dream about him? do you think these dreams are telling the future? are we getting back together sometime soon? (i wish) if anyone has any advice, i would surely appreciate it. thanks in advance. i will rate high. =[ (link)
i've had the same problem...im still in love with my ex that broke up with me 2 years ago! me and him are still friends and everything but for a while we didn't talk at all...this guy was my first kiss too well actually he was my first reall b/f...but anyway talk to him let him know how you feel..dont let him know right away..make shure y'all are okay and everything then write him a note or somethin about how you feel make shure he knows exactly how you feel without letting him know that you dream about him evry night(that myte creep him out just a lil...but i find it sweet cuz i know how you feel) hope it goes well

-kT


13/m I experienced love this summer and I hate it! No, it wasn't infatuation! I know infatuation, this is true love! Maybe I should start from the beginning:
It all started in science class. Or teacher was getting pissed so he decided to assign our seats boy/girl/boy/girl. Of course, I was paired up with the hyperactive freak, because that's just my luck. Immediately, I think to myself, "It's going to be a loooong year."
But she wasn't so bad after all. Time passed, we became friends. The teacher let us change seats, but the people in the front had to sit in the back and vice versa, and it still had to be boy/girl. For simplicity, we just sat next to each other all 3 times that happened.
Everyone made fun of me for it. I'm a geek and proud, and so obviously none of my friends had girlfriends yet either. Actually, only the jocks that girlfriends, and that was because of popularity and "Is she hot?". My parents and sisters were always having fun teasing me. One opf my best friends just liked embarassing me just for being friends with a girl: "Hey, (her name), you know what? You look like (my name)'s girlfriend!" Immediately, we both denied that and walked away. He just grinned. Immature!
As time passed, I learned to love her without knowing it. I didn't know what was happening---I was hoping really hard that I would be placed in a group with her, I was really depressed whenever she had to go... and over the summer I ultimately realized what life was like without her, and I realized that I needed her and that I loved her. So I told her how I felt.
She had recently gone through a painful breakup (I was jealous, she had already gotten a first kiss) with someone who had been one of her best friends, and didn't want to repeat that. Also, she got into a big fight with the popular kids and jocks and they'll do anything to get revenge on her or anyone close to her. And... she's still not quite sure how she feels about me. She said she was thinking about me when she was on vacation for 2 weeks... that's a good sign...
Asking her out really didn't work to well... and now not only have I been tormented by jealousy, rejection, love, and sadness, everything has started to remind me of her. It's been like that for weeks. The carnival? I took her there once. Billy Joel? His "The Longest Time" perfectly describes how I feel. Homestarrunner.com or even Monty Python? They remind me of her. I can't go through life just remembering her everything I do...
Last night I was at a friend's Bar Mitzvah party and I only knew two people there: my sister and the guy who was having the Bar Mitzvah with his brother. The guys who were having the Bar Mitzvah were surrounded by girls during the dances... from The Twist to One-Two Step, there were two girls for every guy, except for me. I wound up dragging my sister onto the dance floor for one of the slow dances... I was thinking the whole time, "Why can't this be the one I'm in love with? Why am I stuck slowdancing with my sister and doing that old making-out-with-yourself routine?" And furthermore, at one point the DJ had us play Musical Guys, where the guys were the chairs and to settle a tie on a guy, the first one to kiss the guy on the cheek gets to stay in. Two people sat on my leg. One of them just voluntarily got out because she didn't want to kiss me. Neither of them did. I can't blame them. But then I'm looking around the room, and some guys are literally smothered! Am I just doomed to be a hopeless single freak? Help me... please! (link)
you sound like a great guy i don't know why anyone wouldn't want you! i know i would..hah..but anyway this girl sounds like a wonderful person but give it time your only 13 and no your not gonna be a single freek i didn't have my frist kiss until 6th grade which was wierd to everyone else cuz they'd already had theirs...just wait for the girl she'll come to her senses

-kT

p.s. the musical guys thing sounds funn..i gotta do that sumtyme


hey I'm 14, short and skinny for my hieght. I wanna know how to get a six pack or something along those lines. Any tips/steps? Has it worked for you/ someone you know? Also should my eating habits change? (link)
my friend does 100 crunches every night and she has a 6 pack she still eats the same

-kT


I think I am heading 2 anorexia. I don't eat normal at school. I skip meals from 8 hours a day and I feel real week. And when I think about eating I get sick to my stomiac. I am only 13 but I am really upsessed with my weight. I only eat about 3-4 things a day. I need help. Thanks and No smartasses Please. (link)
i was obsessed with my weight for a while too..then i realized that i like myself the way i am..you should appreciate the way you are or you'll never get thru this..heres a tip if you eat about 8 small meals a day it helps you stay skinny..if you eat three huge meals it makes you full and you put on weight

-kT


okay im 13 f and im on vacation i leave tomorrow to NY my home. i like this guy and we have been passing notes secretely and other than that my parents dont know and hes 17. i really like him cause we both like the same things but were so shy round eachother that yesterday he came to but sumtin and we were both uncomfortable.i gunna give hima not today before i leave so he can contact me and stuff but how can i know if he likes me if hes so shy round me. he knows i like him but idk how to approach him....help! please quik. thanx (link)
is a guys shy around you it's a definite clue that he likes you...write in the note for him to call you.y'all start talkin about relationships ask him if he likes anyone if he says he does then who and just take it from there!

-kT


I had a girlfriend for 1 1/2 years. we got into it some night and I hit her. CAN SOME ONE PLEASE HELP ME GET HER BACK????!!! (link)
omgosh! you HIT her!? that is one thing that you just DONT do! well, if you wanna get her back tell her you couldnt control yourself cuz you were wasted and you didnt know what you were doing and that you would never hurt her on purpose...ask her if y'all can start over and promise her you'll never do it again

-kT


WHat is "friends with benifits?" (link)
it's like your still friends,but y'all can makeout and stuff and act like b/f & g/f but ur not


i need some help with something?
here it is.

its about a guy from my school i like him but, well see i met him on my bus and hes from el salvador and from then on he always says hi to me in the halls and he thinks im pretty and he always wants to talk to me after school cause he found out i liked him, but i get all scared and i just get butterflies in my stomach when he comes towards me and i tell him i dont like him but he knows im lying. well this week he came and grabbed me by the arm and telling me he wasnt gona let me go till i told him i liked him but i didnt and he finally let go well anyways he has been asking everyone to ask me if i like him and i do but see he has all these friends that are girls and most of them are his ex-girlfriend and this week he kept following me with one of them hugging her and so i left and he came by me again and i left and he kept doing it and to me i think he was kind of being a jerk and his ex's dont like me i can tell but the next day he asked someone to ask me if i like him cause he thinks im pretty so yea what do i do (link)
tell him how you feel.You'll feel a lot better once you tell him.so what if he friends don't like you. You and him are all that matter.

-kT


me and my bf just kissed yesterday..he did it so unexpected i got shocked..and im a little werided out cause i dont think i kissed right and he kissed weird...i love him so much nd it doesnt matter to me..but it just seems weird...i dont know what to do...and me and him want to kiss more (link)
you sound just like me when me and my ex kissed!it was wierd at first but then we wanted to do it more and more!i was shocked when he kissed me too..So just calm down.that proves that he really does love you and that he's just moving the relationship up a knotch.Trust me there's no way that you can kiss wrong unless you stuck ur toungue half way down his throat..ha..

-kT


ok so there's this boy and i really really like him. we had gone out a few times before but we broke up because he cheated on me, he told me he really liked me and wanted to go out with me again and promised he'd never do anything like that again and i actually beleive him (i dont beleive people who hurt me very often) he lives in a town close to mine but we only see eachother on friday nights and weekends. i went to a football game and he was hitting on one of my friends when i thought he really liked me, she's gorgous but i really want him to get to notice me again, i got mad at him and we were in kind of a fight but i couldnt stay mad at him and i kissed him at the end of the night and i think he may have started to like me again. How can i get him to like me? and is he worth it? i get soo jealous when he's with other girls.

thanks so much. (link)
in my opinion i wouldn't wait around for him.you may think you can change him, but trust me he won't.my ex was the SAME way! he cheated on me and now i'm over it. but if you really think you like him enough to try to make him change, hang out with him more,and if he starts goin for other girls you start goin for other guys.

-kT


okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!! (link)
Well, I've had the same delema.I had a boyfriend for almost a year and then he thought i was cheating on him so he broke it off. After that he turned into a TOTAL jerk.But, now we're friends...I guess.If he's had 2 g/f's since y'all broke up he's not worth waiting for.Wait for him to come crawling back to you,don't go to him. Act like it doesn't bother you,and it will TOTALLY bug him that you're not upset.

hope it helps,
kT


theres a song by missy elliot. im guessing its new. i dont know any lyrics but i know it has a weird beat with like screechy records. whats the song? i'll rate 5's. (link)
The songs called "Teary Eyed"...I like that song though

-kaitlyn


In the Cha Cha Slide by DJ Casper, what the heck is the Charlie Brown? Can you give me motions? That would be greatly appreciated. thanks a lot. (link)
The Charlie Brown is when you hop on one foot and then you lean back and hop on the other

Hope it helped,
Kaitlyn




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