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there is this guy. lets call him herman. well, me and herman went out for a year and i loved him deeply the whole time. he was my first and only love that ive ever really had. anyways, we broke up last year in the worst possible way. we dont talk or anything and i see him a lot in the halls between classes. he is the only person i think about even if i am going out with some other guy. i mean, he is the only reason i live. sometimes i wish that we had never met because i hurt so much. yeah well, i havent got over him and im pretty sure that im not gonna get over him for a long while. he used to be my best friend. my first real kiss. anyways, i dream about him every night. and i mean EVERY night. but i dont know why. i wish there was a way to stop. why? why do i dream about him? do you think these dreams are telling the future? are we getting back together sometime soon? (i wish) if anyone has any advice, i would surely appreciate it. thanks in advance. i will rate high. =[
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i've had the same problem...im still in love with my ex that broke up with me 2 years ago! me and him are still friends and everything but for a while we didn't talk at all...this guy was my first kiss too well actually he was my first reall b/f...but anyway talk to him let him know how you feel..dont let him know right away..make shure y'all are okay and everything then write him a note or somethin about how you feel make shure he knows exactly how you feel without letting him know that you dream about him evry night(that myte creep him out just a lil...but i find it sweet cuz i know how you feel) hope it goes well
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hey im livin the same heart ache as you.. only me it was total using... i cant get ova the guy that i neva got and he just used me and im pretty sure i neva will get ova him i think bout my guy every night too its terrible! and yes once i had a boyfriend and i saw him pass i like dumped my ex like that night i just couldnt! then we hooked up again and hes like a jerk so he wont unblock me from msn and shit but my advice is talk to him email him and if he wont talk donot stalk him but be l ike remember that one love we had and try to make him remmeber how much he loved u and maybe at the end he will love u again and everythin will be good and if doesnt work and hes jerk then ignore him but afta tryin to talk to him get a message in his head that he might think bout dont think he will be li ke i love you too in a day it will take a while but you can do it! just be patient and not too harsh
bye lov vic
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Hi there,
When you split up with someone that you still have feelings for it's tempting to let them make all the rules in order to keep them in your life. The problem is, if there's no hope of reconciliation, you're just prolonging the agony - and it will take even longer for your broken heart to mend.
This is so difficult, but until you accept that the relationship is over you'll probably keep reading 'secret' messages into everything connected with your ex. It's particularly hard to believe you really have been dumped if you're still seeing each other. The best way to get over a relationship is to sever all connection - even if just for a while. Of course this is very difficult if you're in the same job or at uni together - but the less contact you have the better.
If your ex has said something like: "Of course we must stay friends", be wary. Do you need this person as a friend? Well, perhaps it would be good long-term, but right now you want them as a lover - and being treated simply as a friend will prolong the agony of coming to terms with the split. The truth is that it will probably help your ex's guilt about dumping you, but you're the one who needs help right now, not your previous partner. The best thing to do is to keep your distance for a few months - and after that time, decide whether or not friendship is possible or even desirable.
Goodluck
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