right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.
well since james would be easier i think you should go for him maybe hes just shy but if your start going out he will prob just come closer! my boyfriend was like that, shy and wen he got that i hated it wen he was shy coz it seemed like he didnt care bout me or didnt want to be with me, he was he started gettin really close to me and losening up and its going great now...!!!
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haha vic your right we should and im gonna call you viccy!!!! lol jk fine..vico but w/e anyways
Love Love Love,
Chelseyyy
how bout VIC! no viccy nor vico but VIC lol or victoria if you wanna sound polite lol
ok well
Love ya
vic
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To give a little background, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year I'm 16 and he's 17. He would always get things in the mail from the Army, Navy and the Marines. He would save them, show it to me and I'd rip it up and tell him he's not going. The thought of my boyfriend going away to war is something I just CAN'T handle.
I was in his room, cleaning it up while he was in the shower like I always do and I found a flyer that had the information about the Navy on it... I was getting ready to rip it up when I saw that he had signed up for it..
I always told him that I'd be heartbroken if he would sign up for anything that COULD get him killed.
I'm trying SO hard to understand... But I can't. I don't know why he would do this to me. He keeps saying it's for the best but I KNOW it's not the best for him. He always told me he'd never leave me, but by doing this I feel like he is. He always told me, "You don't know what I would give just to see your beautiful face every day and just to have you in my arms, even if it's for 5 minutes." He's told me he wants to be the father of my children, my husband, my one and only.. If he's at war, how is he going to do that??
I really want to convince him NOT to go, but that's just being selfish... But at the same time I want him here with ME. I don't want to live every day in fear that I'll get that knock on my door and having someone tell me that the love of my life was killed.
So my questions are... SHOULD I convince him not to go and explain to him why I don't want him to?
If not, how can I get over this? How can I deal with it every day knowing that my boyfriend is risking his life?
id be shocked to death if i were you! i say you tell him strongly what you feel and tell him what you would do if he died then listen to his point of view and have a conversation but DO NOT start yelling at him. do the best to keep things calm and perhaps be spending the night at his house that night or day... and tell him to think about it over night.... if he decides to go then what i would do is cry right infront of him... guys think its beautiful to see a tear coming down your cheek but they hate it to see you upset and together mixed will just make him want to never let you go! and it might change his mind!
although true its still his decision so you got to make yourself sound not very selfish! a lil will be ok but dont make him mad! try to understand or atleast fake the understanding but then try to make him understand how you feel!
hun right now dont think about it! it will be alright!
hope everything works out for you!
write back!
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Ok before this question i've asked another on similar but this question is like the sequeal to it. So the qustion before this was I still like my exboyfriend who now lives in L.A. and i'm practicly inlove with him but i'm only 13 so I finally took the peoples advice who answered this and got his number from his friend that I know. So know I really want to call him but i'm nervouse because after I broke up with him for a really stupid reason we havn't talked for like a year but I know he still remembers me because his friend told me that he would always talk good about me. So what i'm asking is should I call him and say that his friend wanted me to call you and tell you that he can't call you because he got grounded would that be good so then we can just lead on from there or what because I refuse and really don't want to say that I just called him just because I want a good exuse( i'm a shy person somtimes) Thanx will rate for helpfull answers( will rate high!)
ok hun hes gone wat do you have to lose i swear just call him say that you sorta were wondering how its going and then lead on from then.. if hes talkin good bout you then he just is waitin for you to give him a call! trust me hes prob shy too hun just go for it! ull miss out on nothing!!!
ok well hope you call him!
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hey im 13/f.
i really really liek really liek this kid hes 15.
so, i ONLY see him on fridays. and its civil air ptrol aux. of the united states air force. so its hard to try to compliment him on his clothes and stuff. its also hard to flirt casu e its only one day. please help with any tips you ahve.
what should i do?
ps-i have his cell number but never call casue i dont want to be liek the annoying little 13 year old. and i talk to him on aim someitmes.
please help?
ok talk to him even more on aim and truthfully like make him flirt with you bad.... and find out if he thinsk ur hot and would HOOK UP no datin just hook up like dont ask him but like make him get the point and then if he does then call him and ask him if you guys wanna hang out or something... if its hard to talk to him other times then just see if he would get into you or is into you and if hes not then try to get him into you!
ok well cya vic
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Okay.. Me an this girl have been friends since like the 6th grade and now we are freshman. Well at the beginning of the school year she got caught taking pills along with some other kids. Well every since then she has been hanging out with these other people that are wrong for her. So now she does crack, weed, sniffs muscle relaxers && drinks. I try an talk to her but all she does it cuss me out. She says this is the happiest shes been in awhile, and that she likes doing it. She says shes tired of me acting like a "perfect christian" thats it's p'ing her off. She also said that if i told anyone that she was gonna beat my butt. She parties every weekend and even on the weekdays. I don't know what to say to her anymore about it. I want to help her so much. But I dunno what to do. Please help me.
one day you should like have a drink with her dont do more then drink a glass or two maxi so your still all there and she will think your like "cooler" then i dno she will act more relaxed with you and maybe you can talk to her then. coz i know ppl addicted to light drugs liek weed crack and shit and trust me its fuckin hard to get out of it and i think that if you chill out with them they will be like wow shes cooler actually and then maybe you can calm her down or else if it doesnt work stay out of it i mean it is her life! but you should still try!
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Well...i want hot guys in our grade...what could you possibly do? haha....you know like one of those abercrombie models.....
PLEASE HELPPP!!!!
wish i could help but cannot sorry ahah
just print out lots of AF models and post them in your locker and tell guys that they have to start lookin like this ahah
xo vic
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no joke
-depressed girl
who are you?
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hi vic, this is rly hard for me to say, so im not gonna say my name. I envy you. You are so pretty and popular and everybody loves you. I want to be like you.. what can i do.. I dont know, im so lost...
- a depressed girl
wow is this a joke?
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I'm gonna try out for Cheerleading which is really out of character for me. Its like an image change thing but what kinds of things do i work on?
first of all work on flexcibility you need flexcibility for jumps, splits, tumbling, and bunch other
second strength if your short and thin you will probably end up flying in a stunt so u have to work on tightness if your taller but still skinny you will probably be a spot and if your tall and have more strength you will prob be a base but for all you got to work on arm and leg strength
also in a jump you have to work on kicks and other leg exercises to get your legs up high and get them down really fast! you need a lot of leg strength for a proper jump and flexicibilty
for moves you should search on a site for motions like high-V and how the spiral is facin out and dont have broken rists or thumbs hangin everywhere! you should really look on sites to see basic motions! BE TIGHT! its the most important tight and sharp motions
you also can work on smiling and dancing using cheer moves!
now when people say cheerleading isnt a sport its bullshit because you need alot of flexicibility and alot of strength you cannot look sloppy! that is the problem with our cheer squad some ppl look sloppy arent doing the right thing and dont do streches enuf and work strength! i and two other girls are the only one that can hit a jump on our squad and that is really bad coz we are more then 3 for sure and one thing ALWAYS LISTEN NEVER ARGUE YOU WILL NEVA LEARN IF YOU ARGUE WITH THE PEOPLE THAT KNOW BETTER THEN YOU !!!!! JUST LISTEN AND DO WHAT THEY TELL YOU TO DO!!!! coz this is another problem in our cheer squad the give ideas of stupid stuff and wen we tell them they are doing something wrong they are like no we arent! and its like yes you are we know better then you! so yehhh
you will prob be great!!! dont forget to SMILE!
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hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette
i had exactly the same thing well not exactly at all but close me and this guy hooked up and i liked him and we did lots of stuff and it was too much for me but i still did it coz i liked him but me it was worce for him we were neva friends just nothing i say u tell him that friends with benefit doesnt push that far... and that if he wants more then he would have to go out with you becoz the guy i had didnt care who the girl was but hes different your guy prob is like carin in some hiding way because i mean a kiss on the cheek thats cute! Also its for his friends seriously he would go out with you if his friends werent there just or change like a prep or jock or tell him that if its only coz of his friends then you cant do this because you will get hurt if you keep going on liking him i got really hurt trust me and it took me 6 month to get over him and i was hurt i even cried once!
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ok. im a girl and im 15. i need serious help! im goin 2 the the guy i like's house and he wants to have sex with me, but i never had it before, i dunno what to do, and i wat to tell him.
please help
!!!
okay if you are ready then dont worry bout it just have fun and use protections.... if your not ready for this and you do like the guy tell him and if he likes you back he will wait if he just wants you for sex then pointless forget about him... might be hard but if that is all he wants slap him and go away from his place....
well
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Hey Viccy!*!* I jsut saw this advice thing, its pretty darn cool vic hah we need to "hang out" at the movies again haha luv ya
CheLsey
(the love of ur life)haha jk
one thing dont call me VICCY im vico ok haha id rather be vico ahha
yep thats my advice thing...
and yes indeed its pretty darn cool
and we should so do movies and invite all those guys yep! thats right! or if they cant come we should go to the "movies" like you know movies... ahah
LoVe Ya HuN
Vic
(your only and eva love u had) ahhah jk
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ok so i like this dude n he likes my bff n she knows i like him n she doesnt like him only as a friend... he knows i like him n so he's avoiding me... he stopped textin me n stopped givin me huggs after school... vic, wat shud i do?
~i wud leeve a name but u kno i dont ppl from school to kno
Ok well i think this dude got or schocked wen he found out you liked him n just considered you friends or he thought that he had no chance with ur bff so did not need you for help nymore truthfully you should forget bout him.. or say you dont like him anymore and then try to flirt or like get him into you
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why wasn't i in the list of possible people to like? jeez you suck at giving advice....
a pissed off male.
well tell me who u are and ill add you..... maybe i just forgot you and you will be the pefect man for audrey..... so just tell me your name
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i have this imaginairy friends that no one know's about cept for me. its embarrassing cuz im already 16 but i dont know wat do to cuz he wont talk to me anymore and i cant tell anyone bout it. he's been giving me the silent treatment for the past couple of days, i just cant loose him.
hunny im sorry but i never had an imaginary friend so i wouldnt know... but like if he doesnt talk to you then just leave it maybe its grown out of you...
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well i have a question for yaaaa, who should i like this year...i have no idea i'm getting so broed and i dno who i should like!!!! help meeeeee
-audreeeeeeeeeeyyyyy
yourrr BFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF for everrrrr!
ok well
christian no
dominic... eheh no i would let you if . yeh so no ahha
horton and edvard no way
olivier hes cool but no
james duiguid ok im not going that far.
uhh troy taken and no audrey no.
umm sam hes pretty cool and nice and kindda cute you should take sam.
because i mean is there anyone else i dno but i cant think off someone.
or you could for 10th but good luck i mean you could some guys think your hot in 10th but like you kno they are 10th
-vic
BBBFFFFFFF For life!
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i like the same guy my friend likes. i think he likes me too, and i really wanna go out with him. but i don't want to hurt my friend's feelings. what should i do?
ok truthfully if you really like him talk to your friend admit ur feelings say that deep inside she would do the same thing too and you'd like to go out with him if she doesnt understand then really ur friendship is a ovaguy broken friendship which sux no real friend in that... so just say that and she will be upset but will get ova it
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HEYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY mah BFFFFF fo lifeeee! hahah what's uppp??? i'm gonnna add you to my advice thing tooo so yeah...we need to hang out again this weekend!! anywaysss i gotta goooo!!
-audrey-
[(the shit)]
I SAY WE DO WE DO WE DO hang out this weekend! ok well im doing some mighty horrible hwk no one is askin me some quest sux im so adviceless right now! o well lol
BBBFFFFFF4EVA!
xox VIC
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there is this guy. lets call him herman. well, me and herman went out for a year and i loved him deeply the whole time. he was my first and only love that ive ever really had. anyways, we broke up last year in the worst possible way. we dont talk or anything and i see him a lot in the halls between classes. he is the only person i think about even if i am going out with some other guy. i mean, he is the only reason i live. sometimes i wish that we had never met because i hurt so much. yeah well, i havent got over him and im pretty sure that im not gonna get over him for a long while. he used to be my best friend. my first real kiss. anyways, i dream about him every night. and i mean EVERY night. but i dont know why. i wish there was a way to stop. why? why do i dream about him? do you think these dreams are telling the future? are we getting back together sometime soon? (i wish) if anyone has any advice, i would surely appreciate it. thanks in advance. i will rate high. =[
hey im livin the same heart ache as you.. only me it was total using... i cant get ova the guy that i neva got and he just used me and im pretty sure i neva will get ova him i think bout my guy every night too its terrible! and yes once i had a boyfriend and i saw him pass i like dumped my ex like that night i just couldnt! then we hooked up again and hes like a jerk so he wont unblock me from msn and shit but my advice is talk to him email him and if he wont talk donot stalk him but be l ike remember that one love we had and try to make him remmeber how much he loved u and maybe at the end he will love u again and everythin will be good and if doesnt work and hes jerk then ignore him but afta tryin to talk to him get a message in his head that he might think bout dont think he will be li ke i love you too in a day it will take a while but you can do it! just be patient and not too harsh
bye lov vic
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