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Don't know what to say!!!!!!!!!!!
Ok before this question i've asked another on similar but this question is like the sequeal to it. So the qustion before this was I still like my exboyfriend who now lives in L.A. and i'm practicly inlove with him but i'm only 13 so I finally took the peoples advice who answered this and got his number from his friend that I know. So know I really want to call him but i'm nervouse because after I broke up with him for a really stupid reason we havn't talked for like a year but I know he still remembers me because his friend told me that he would always talk good about me. So what i'm asking is should I call him and say that his friend wanted me to call you and tell you that he can't call you because he got grounded would that be good so then we can just lead on from there or what because I refuse and really don't want to say that I just called him just because I want a good exuse( i'm a shy person somtimes) Thanx will rate for helpfull answers( will rate high!)
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ok hun hes gone wat do you have to lose i swear just call him say that you sorta were wondering how its going and then lead on from then.. if hes talkin good bout you then he just is waitin for you to give him a call! trust me hes prob shy too hun just go for it! ull miss out on nothing!!!
ok well hope you call him!
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I know what it is like to be shy but you cant be afraid. I think that you should call him. Maybe you should say who you are and then say that you wanted to call just to see how you have been. Or if he has an email or a screen nae you wouldnt have to be nervous. It is much easier to talk to someone on the internet than it is on th ephone especially if you havent seen them in awile. I had this b/f we gone out for a year then he switched schools and i guess we just broke up. I finally switched to his school b/c i didnt like mine and i didnt know how to talk to him. I really liked him. So i got my courage and just said hi and asked how you have been. But if you prefer to lie then you could use what you got. The thing about his friend being grounded.
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Long distance relationships don't work out.
Maybe if you were a little older.
But at 13 it wouldn't work out.
Even though I'm sure you'd love to be with him forever, it most likely wont work.
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Dont make up excuses why you are calling him. Just tell him the truth and say that youve been thinking about him lately and wanna know how hes doing. Things will go from there.
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Well it would help if I knew where you lived in relation to him. If you live very far away, then don't bother calling him. Long distance relationship suck and never work out.
If you want to talk to him, just do it. Just be like, oh, hi, long time no see. Just talk about random stuff. It will probably be awkward at first, but it'll flow.
Hope I helped!!
!~*becca*~!
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Just call him, it doesn't matter why. If he asks, say you were just calling to see how he was doing. Don't stress so much about the reason, it doesn't actually matter that much!
♥ Melissa
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Don't worry too much about reasons for calling him because when it comes down to it all, you'll find that reasons really don't matter much at all. The only thing that really matters is that you called and that's really a reason itself. If you want to give a reason, make it a casual reason. Like, " I just wanted to call and see what was up with you." Or," it was just a long time and no see." Just keep it casual and keep it cool. You're focusing way too much upon the reason when you're not focusing upon the actual conversation and that is a heck of a lot more important than a reason for calling him.
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If LA is far away from you, you should just give up on trying to have a relationship with him. Maybe a friendship, but long-distance relationships almost never work.
And, as the other person said, you're thirteen. Chances are you just have a crush. You'll meet plenty of other guys that live near you in the future. =)
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Well, the thing is that you're thirteen. I seriously doubt you love him, I'm sorry to say. You are still young, obsessing over a guy who lives far away isn't worth it at your age. It wouldn't be bad to maybe bring back a friendship, but to do anything else would be akward for him.
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