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Ok before this question i've asked another on similar but this question is like the sequeal to it. So the qustion before this was I still like my exboyfriend who now lives in L.A. and i'm practicly inlove with him but i'm only 13 so I finally took the peoples advice who answered this and got his number from his friend that I know. So know I really want to call him but i'm nervouse because after I broke up with him for a really stupid reason we havn't talked for like a year but I know he still remembers me because his friend told me that he would always talk good about me. So what i'm asking is should I call him and say that his friend wanted me to call you and tell you that he can't call you because he got grounded would that be good so then we can just lead on from there or what because I refuse and really don't want to say that I just called him just because I want a good exuse( i'm a shy person somtimes) Thanx will rate for helpfull answers( will rate high!) (link)
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Long distance relationships don't work out.
Maybe if you were a little older.
But at 13 it wouldn't work out.
Even though I'm sure you'd love to be with him forever, it most likely wont work.
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Ok. 13/m. I don't know if this question goes under Families or Work/School Relationships. Sorry it's so long. I'm really worried for my sister (14/f). She just found her first date at school this year. They went to the movies and all. My sister was just sitting there waiting for him to do something. She had her arm on the armrest the whole time waiting for him to hold it or something. She bought Junior Mints "just in case"---didn't use a single one. She could've talked to me. I've been asking and answering Advicenator questions for months now. I pretty much know what's going to happen and the pains she's going to feel. But no. She doesn't like to tell me stuff. Instead, she tells our cousin, who has serious boy problems. Boys rule her life. Her Bat Mitzvah was ruined because her newest ex was there. She couldn't enjoy Avenue Q because one of her exes liked it. She has serious issues. I know that. My parents know that. My sister just doesn't seem to get it, so she talks to her for advice.
My cousin is saying things like "Well, if he doesn't want to hold your hand, he must not be right. Dump him." or "Try rushing him, that usually works for me." I eavesdrop on their conversations because I'm concerned. I want her to listen to me. I've gotten chances to talk to her which I of course took advantage of, but she refuses to understand. She doesn't believe that she'll face hate, jealousy, rejection, etc. I felt most of it first-hand, but as for the parts actually IN the dating, I couldn't get that far. She doesn't think I know enough. Just because I'm younger and haven't actually dated doesn't mean that I haven't felt jealousy and rejection, I haven't been extremely depressed, etc.
How can I get her to listen to me? Thanks.
By the way, don't say to write in a diary. I'm already doing that, but my parents confiscated it last night for writing after dark. (link)
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Chances are she's going to ignore you. Just let her face hate, jealousy, and rejection. Give her whatever advice you can and then let her experience it herself. Then maybe, if your lucky, she'll listen to you after that.
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Alright, Me and this guy were talking a lot and he told me he loved me and all that jazz. Then he started getting mad at me over stupid things and once I would explain myself he would be like alright. Then we got in this huge fight. And fought for a week. Then just yesterday he IMed me out of the blue. He said that he wanted to try the friends thing for now. I really like this kid, If I don't love him. I don't know what to do. He's always flirting with other girls and everything and I'm just like...wow. I really want to go out with him. But I know he would say no. I just wish he would like me.
I mean whenever he said he wanted to try the just friends thing for now part he sent me this poem/letter he wrote during the week we were mad at eachother and it made me cry. It basically said that he will always care about me and that sometimes he's stupid about things and wishes I would just over look them.
I really don't know what to do. I'm so confused. I just want him to like me..Wow...Please help me.
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Darling, you shouldn't have to go through that.
I know it's hard to get over somebody you really love or just really like. But if he says he loves you and plays mind games like that, you should just try to move on. I went through that for two years once, and it took me a year to move on again. It sucks to have your heart broken. It's hard to move on. But you'll be happier if you do. You can find somebody better. I know it's hard to believe, but trust me, it's possible.
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ok so me and this guy have liked eachother for a while no, we hung out every weekend during the summer, and during the first couple weeks at school, and he would always give me hugs, but then we started to become a little distant, and then today, he said " i dont like you anymore", but in kind of a funni way i guess..i think..but he is a joker type person, and then right after he saud that he gave me a hug...i dont know if he ment it..or what....im confused (link)
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Trust me.
He's just an asshole.
You don't want to be with him.
And never forget, 90% of guys are assholes.
And they will tell you ANYTHING to have sex with you.
And most guys only want sex.
If he doesn't talk to you and you all become distant just give up on him... Try to move on.
He's an asshole.
Trust me, I've been in that situation before.
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I have lived with my mom since i was born. I don't know my father because my mother and him broke up before i was born. It really bothers me and i have mood swings now. I will be happy but then someone will say something and i get really upset. I have talked to my mom about not knowing my father and how much i really want to meet him but all she says is "he is an asshole and you dont want to meet him" which always leaves my crying myself to sleep. What should i do because i really want to meet him? (link)
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1. Your going to have moodswings no matter what. It just happens.
2. You probably don't want to meet him. He's probably an asshole.
3. If you really want to meet him, look for him. All you need is a name and anything is possible.
4. If you find him don't be surprised if he's an asshole and doesn't want to see you. Chances are he'd try to meet you if he really cared that much.
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