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ok so me and this guy have liked eachother for a while no, we hung out every weekend during the summer, and during the first couple weeks at school, and he would always give me hugs, but then we started to become a little distant, and then today, he said " i dont like you anymore", but in kind of a funni way i guess..i think..but he is a joker type person, and then right after he saud that he gave me a hug...i dont know if he ment it..or what....im confused
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I dont think he ment it.....a lot of my friends do the same thing we always fool around with eachother and were always like i hate you but we never meen it and we laugh about it.....i dont think that he really meant it..
xoxo leah
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I think it was just a joking type of a way. The hug was to show that it was a joke. He did not mean it. Besides, nobody would say something that mean.
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Sometimes people are jkers. The way i see it he was joking but still someone shouldnt say that. My friends say that all the time and then when they say they say i am jking or they give me a hug. They dont really mean it. I dnt think you have anything to worry about.
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Trust me.
He's just an asshole.
You don't want to be with him.
And never forget, 90% of guys are assholes.
And they will tell you ANYTHING to have sex with you.
And most guys only want sex.
If he doesn't talk to you and you all become distant just give up on him... Try to move on.
He's an asshole.
Trust me, I've been in that situation before.
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If he hugged you...he probably didnt mean it. If you're scared of becoming distant, initiate the fact that you guys need to make plans.
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It sounds like hes being honest with you. I hang around alot of guys, were friends. They are always giving me hugs. Theyre just being nice and friendly. Im sure he means what he says. If he still wants to give you hugs, let him. Just because guys give you hugs doesnt always mean they like you "that way"! Guys make great friends!!
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hi,
It's understandable to want to be with someone you care about. But try to give him space too. If you feel like you need him or miss him try to distract yourself- Go out with friends, pick up a hobby. Sometimes people try to fill their life with other people- but life is a balanced mix.
While giving him space make your own. Were always here.I understand what you're going through. In a relationship, girls and guys sometimes see things differently. For example when we girls have a problem we want to talk out and speak the problem, but when the boys have the problem sometimes they rather be left alone by themselves. The case you're going through is also similiar. When girls like us want to spend all the time we have with boys that we love and adored, these boys somehow just need some space.I know that most of the time it will make you feel
like he doesn't want to spend time with you, but that's just not the case. It's just before he met you he had a life with his friends, family, you know and he gave part of that up to be with you. All you have to do is give him some time of his own. It's not like you are the only one who's going through this. Alot of girls gone through the same problem and most of the time because they either want to spend their time with their boyfriends or they just so afriad that one minute without watching he will slip away. But im sure if you give him some space sometimes of his own. And next time when he said that always know that it isn't meant he doesn't want to spend some times with you. It just you know,boys are boys,just need to give him a little time off with his friends and when its time he'll
bounces back right at you.
Take care!
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he probably didnt mean it .. i mean guys are weird like that
& i dun understand why .. but if u hugged you he prolly didnt
mean it .. dont sweat it ! everything happens for a reason.
x ashley
hope i helped !
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