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what do i get my boyfriend for christmas?? we've been together for about a year, and i want to get him something nice not just a shirt or something like that.
a little about him: he's a total goof.. likes hunting, racing, comedy.. he's really sweet but not super sappy... he is not a prep.. just a normal, average guy
anyone have any CREATIVE ideas? please help!!

Well you can just sit around with him next to the fireplace and just hang out with eachother and have a nice dinner...and maybe make a CD of like all his favorite song and write a little about what maybe some of the songs remind you of him and maybe even write a song for him or just a poem or even just a list of things that you love about him and what makes him special just to read to him..

hope I helped...need anymore ideas just drop one in my inbox.. : )

xoleahh

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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

I think and it sounds to me like he really does have feelings for you....maybe he just is scared or embaressed or doesnt know what to say to you after what happend that night. It might of felt a little awkward to him(because you two were broken up) even though he may have liked it.Just lay back a little but not completely.... and give him his space so he can figure things out...but also try and talk to him and be like..we have to talk about what happend that night....I hope everything works out!!!...if you have any more questions just drop another one in my inbox!!


xoxox leah

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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready

Think about it....do you really want to kiss her?...do you think she is ready to kiss you?....do you picture it this way?...anymre questions just ask and drop one in my inbox...


xoxox leah

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mmk so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now and just recently he told me he loved me and i had just gotten over my ex (which he doesn't know) and i didn't say it back because in my opinion its a bit too soon to be loving someone else. but i feel bad b/c i didn't say it. what should i do? i really like this guy but i'm not sure that i love him. help!

Tell him that...he might of felt a little awkward that he said it and you didnt you didn't say it back...but just tell him that you feel and you really like him and just want to get to know him more before you tell him that you love him...and honestly if he really loves you he will stick around and wait till you are ready and not just be like its over...hope i helped..anymore questions just ask..

xoxo leah

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Well i have been having dreams about sex with guys my age. I am 13f. And all of a sudden i am having urgest to do it.
Is that normal
Ill' rate high!

YA its completely normal its just your hormones...and as you get older you'll feel more urges to do sexual things with guys...anymore questions just drop one in my inbox


xox leah

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(14/f)Kind of embarassing.. But i have a huge problem with my breasts.. My Right one is roughly a B38 but my left one is well a mere B i would say. I know this is likely when your growing up but do you think theyll be that much of a difference when i get older or do you think theyll even out? Idk its been like this for awhile now.. my mom && stuff know.. Should i just have it checked out from my doctor just incase?

Its perfectly normal...mine were like that too but then the eventually evend out...but if you are really worried about it or still wondering why...go see a doctor...


xoxo leah

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well me and my boyfriend broke up 4 or 5 days ago, and I talked to him today and I mentioned that I am talking to a x bf of mine,and he didnt sound very happy, I asked him if he was ok he said yea....but he didnt sound like he wanted me to date another guy, when he broke up with me he told me from his heart that I was the hardest girl to break up with cause he really cared for me, and he barely has emotional feelings for girls but he was CRYING on the phone when he told me that he just wanted to be close friends.... can ya please give me some advice on if he still cares for me...

I DEFINATLY think he still cares about you...and that is probably why it was hard for him to break up with you and it is hard for him to think of you with another guy. The reason he broke up with you is because maybe he just needs time apart or doesnt see you as being his girlfrined anymore...but he definatly still cares about you!! Anymore questions just drop one in my inbox....good luck


xoxo leah

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ok so me and this guy have liked eachother for a while no, we hung out every weekend during the summer, and during the first couple weeks at school, and he would always give me hugs, but then we started to become a little distant, and then today, he said " i dont like you anymore", but in kind of a funni way i guess..i think..but he is a joker type person, and then right after he saud that he gave me a hug...i dont know if he ment it..or what....im confused

I dont think he ment it.....a lot of my friends do the same thing we always fool around with eachother and were always like i hate you but we never meen it and we laugh about it.....i dont think that he really meant it..

xoxo leah

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i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
please help

STOP....plz stop....why are you cutting yourself??And why do you want to stop cutting if you love everything about it?.....is it because you know that you hurting yourself and you shouldn't be?? Whats making you do this?Are you trying to prove something to yourself...Tell your parents and get helpppp!!! Plz stop...it wont help you!!

xoxo leah

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wow ok I just got side sweep bangs and they are aweful... the lady that cut them must have been drunk or something!! Does anyone know how I could fix them?... I don't really want to wait until they grow out

I am not exactly shore how to fix them myself....but go to another salon and see what they can do about it

xo leah

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(FOR THE LADIES)
What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world?

Dont neccesaraly buy us gifts all the time...ya once and a while there nice and like special things...but if you keep giveng us them over and over and over it kind of gets annoying....but anyways take us special places....i personally love walking on the beach at night and dinners...just spending alone time with your man is always awsome....tell us you love us all the time and give us compliments =)

xo leah

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Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..

Your bisexual...you like both girls and guys

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ok well .. i had this friend we were close he was a boy and im a girl .. in school we would laugh and all share gum and were friends then one day like a whole group of us when to chill and me and him got in a huge fight and he just started hating me since then..the fight was so gay i dont even kno what we were really even fighting about! so i went with my group of friends and he went withh his and turned alot of people against me and they(about 3 of the kids) will talk about me when im not there but mostly my friends r there to back me up, but still i hate being anywhere were they r and thats really hard for me cause they r friends with my bestfriend and also wanna chill with her. i dont kno if i should go where they r like if we chill at a persons house when they r there. i kno ill have my group of friends .. but they r just so annyoing.. so what do you think..should i not go?

first and with your problem going oveWell I think you should try and go...but if you don't feel comfortable going or when you get there and you dont feel comfortable just leave or dont go at all...But personally first you should try and figure out your problem with your friend(the boy you got in a fight with) you never know if you try and talk to him maybe you'll start to become friends again and all of this will stop...But I say do that first and figure out if you want to chill with them or not...do what your comfortable doing and don't be pressured to go there because your friends want to be with you....because if the other people are that annnoying I can see why you wouldn't want to go.
Hope I helped...and if you need anything else more specific just leave another one in my inbox and I'll be glad to answer it...good luck!

xo leah

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i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.

have someone else for you ask him

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ok so theres this guy and he kinda sexual harasses me or w/e this is called. he grabbed my breasts and my butt like so many times nd he snaps my bra straps and all that kind of stuff! i don't kno who 2 tell and what 2 do? pleasee help me

he can get in a lot of trouble for that trust me....tell your parents, principal, or your guidence consulers they will get him in trouble and help you..good luck

xo leah

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um.. my boyfriend wants a lapdance from me.. im all for it but there's one problem.. i've never given one before so i dont really know how.. What do I do?

haha just have fun and stuff its really easy....just kinda go along with music and shake your ass on him and stuff

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i got a boyfriend and i think my best friend likes him cuz she gets mad when i talk about him. Should i talk to her about it or just let it go. Cuz my boyfriend hates her and she thinks that him and every boy likes her. Should i talk to her or what should i do?¿

talk to her and find out exactly why she is being like this...my guess is that she does like him and is jealous but she needs to learn that not every guy is going to like her

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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online??

Well im just going to tell you that your mother may not agree with it and my mother didnt either...i am saying this because i know...i met this guy online and we started talking and i started to really like him and now hes my boyfreind....i have never met him though and i wont for a while because as much as I love him I still dont feel safe or comfortable meeting him...so what i suggest you do is talk to this myspace guy over e-mail or aim and use the phone too...but dont plan on meeting him just yet....first you must really trust him completly but if you really want to meet him dont go alone..ok??...go with a group of friends or sumthing..
hope i helped and good luck!

xo leah

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When you dye your hair with kool aid, how long does the color stay in for??

and also...how do you do it?

thats wierd dont do it....just use a hair die that washes out in like 5 washes or sumthin...i kno theres a product out there like that cuz my friend did it..but dont use kool-aid...thats just wierd

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why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me??

idk y hes probably a jerk and is jealous of you and robby...if this is really bothering you talk to your ex

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