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mmk so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now and just recently he told me he loved me and i had just gotten over my ex (which he doesn't know) and i didn't say it back because in my opinion its a bit too soon to be loving someone else. but i feel bad b/c i didn't say it. what should i do? i really like this guy but i'm not sure that i love him. help!
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Tell him that...he might of felt a little awkward that he said it and you didnt you didn't say it back...but just tell him that you feel and you really like him and just want to get to know him more before you tell him that you love him...and honestly if he really loves you he will stick around and wait till you are ready and not just be like its over...hope i helped..anymore questions just ask..
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I think you did the right thing. You shouldn't say "I love you" until you really feel that way. The best thing to do is explain to him your not ready to say something like that until you really feel comfortable about it. I think that love is a word that takes time to develop for at elast most people. If you dont think you love him just eyt then you shouldnt say it.
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Then don't tell him that you love him until you mean it. Don't let him believe something that isn't true, because the first time that you say it, MEANING it- it will be amazing for him. :D For both of you.
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You should never say anything to a guy you're not comfortable with, just like you should never do anything with a guy if you're not comfortable with it. I'm a guy so I know that a lot of guys use the phrase "I love you" to get some. I'm not saying he's like that, cuz there are a lot of genuine guys out there too! But be careful, don't let him coerce you into anything you're not emotionally of physically ready for. Just keep your head and don't get caught up in the moment. I'm sure you'll do fine. Let me know if you have any other questions. :)
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I think you are right, it is too soon to be saying i love you. Tell him how you feel, that you really care about him and really like him, but think its too soon to say that. He should respect what you think...if not, then...he might not be worth the trouble, no offense.
Hope I helped!
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Well jsut tell him how you feel about him, like "You're so spiecial to me." "I care so much for you." "You are my sunshine" corny stuff like that... stuff that you are sure you're feeling toward him, till you're sure that you love him back. ^^
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You did the right thing. I think saying "I love you" after just a month is a bit much. Next time tell him how much you DO care about him but you don't want to say "I love you" just yet without being sure. My boyfriend and I didn't tell eachother "I love you" until six months into our relationship.
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