Member Since: August 4, 2005 Answers: 31 Last Update: November 17, 2005 Visitors: 2336
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ok so what can i do to impress the guy i like? i dont mean like shallow way i mean to get his attention get him to notice me bc im kinda standard boring normal looking you know? just wanna get his attention you know what i mean? thanks! (link)
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erm... talk to him? isn't it obvious, be fun to be araund, be a center of convo... or something... Be yourself. If he makes fun of you it's good, he's messing with u lol.
Like i do something stupid, and I get made fun of... or just come up to him and say it will sure get his attention "I dont' like you, you get on my nerves"
erm..... dun do that... that's what i do
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I'm a decent singer, but there's this big problem I have. From the E in the middle of the staff on up, it's REALLY hard for me to sing ending consanants. I'm singing a song called "I Wish It So" and it's got this high G and the phrase is "in the shape of love or life" and I'm having difficulty singing "shape." I can sing the note very easily, but not with an ending consonant. Can anyone help me? (link)
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Okey you have 2 choises (talking form personal expierience)
1. Everynight sing for about 20 mintues diffrent songs that are really high. If it's difficult to sing becouse it's high sing it anywya. And to like for 10 mintues that exercise to streatch your voice. Just go as high as uyo can, and then when u hit the high not go a whole step down, then half step up and up again and up again, if it's hard go half a step down and try to sing higher... It'll streatch ur voice in short amount of time. Oh yeah try not to sing low nots for a while.
2. Change the note to soemthing lower... talk to a teacher abotu the change.
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mmk so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now and just recently he told me he loved me and i had just gotten over my ex (which he doesn't know) and i didn't say it back because in my opinion its a bit too soon to be loving someone else. but i feel bad b/c i didn't say it. what should i do? i really like this guy but i'm not sure that i love him. help! (link)
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Well jsut tell him how you feel about him, like "You're so spiecial to me." "I care so much for you." "You are my sunshine" corny stuff like that... stuff that you are sure you're feeling toward him, till you're sure that you love him back. ^^
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ok, i am an 18 year old female and my boyfreind is 22 years old. we live a ways apart (him new york me ohio) because i was forced to move. well, we have been living apart for about a month and a half and we can't take it anymore. but we can't decide wether we should have me move up there with him or have him move down here with me. at first we had sorta planned me going and living with him. but then my mom found out that she might have a tumor on her ovaries, tubes, or liver. She doesnt want me to leave because she needs me and my brother will too. (in situations where there is trouble, my brother looks up to me, if im doing ok he will be fine and he knows that). So my mom asked me to ask him to move here so that we coudl both support her and each other. (my mom likes him) but then i owuld be asking him to uproot his life. from the place he lived for 20 years. from his family and his freinds and everything he knows. so i asked him if he would be WILLING to do so. He told me "Whatever i have to do to be with you". But now i feel like i am being selfish in asking him to do that. did i do the right thing in asking him to move here? please help i will rate all good answers as 5's. any smartass comments dont get rated! (link)
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I think it's important that you get to spend time with your mother and support her, becosue she might be gone tommorow. It kind of makes me sad, becosue you can lose her. So if I were you I'd spend those days with your mother till you'll know for sure she's well. It would be wrong of you to go up to him.... becouse well there's your mother and your family which needs you. And if he loves you alot he'll come down, and wont' even regret it. He'll be happy just to see you, so dont' worry.... And you should talk to him for comfort, it always helps.
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ive been on 3 dates with this boy tom. and we are supposed to go to some concert a week from tomorrow. after our first datee i was like ok i kinda like him but i wouldnt kno yet because i dont know him well. we went out 2 other timesss and i still wasnt suree. so todayyyyy i was tallking to him online and at the same time he sent me a message on myspace saying " hey i really like you and i wanna be with you, do you want to?" and i didnt say anything because i dont think i really like him and if i do i wanna go on a few more dates and see.. so i talked to him online and i was like im goin out talk to you tonight.. he signs on and in his profile is " i love u lindsey 9/10/05" and i never sed i wanted to and didnt even give him the sign i wanted to. and his myspace says " in a relationship" i dont know what to do.. tahts kinda creeeppyy.. i cant tell him on the phone so i didnt anser yett!.. wut should i tell him online or wen i text him.. i dont think its bad im tellin him that way because he told me the same way basically
thanksss (link)
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I don't think it matters what way you experess it, as long as the message gets to him the way you want it. You shoudl talk to him, over the phone, or on aim. On aim you feel more comfortable. So whichever you feel comfortable with. If he likes you I bet he can wait a few dates. Take it slowly, don't rush (unless you suddenly fall really really in love with him :P)
Just tell him, you would like to go out with him a few more times, and then you'll give him the answer.
And if I woudl be you, I'd tell him when he's doing something that creeped you out, only if it's hard to hurt his feelings.
Good luck. Hope you find a guy who deserves you.
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i like my ex-boyfriend again and we been hanging out alot and he likes me...and i dont know if i should be with him again or not because he messed up me and my best friends relationship..because he thought it would be cool 2 go out with her so he can be close 2 me but at the same time make me real mad...and i also have a boyfriend...and my boyfriend now got in a fight with my ex-boyfriend because my ex-boyfriend said he was going 2 hurt my boyfriend because he took me away from him...which is kinda true but at the same time my ex was messing with my best friend....im 16 and im a female (link)
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he doesn't sounds way too nice... I'd play it safe. Just talk to him, talkit out with him. See how he feels. Try to udnerstand why he does those things. HWat caused him to do them. If he really loves you, he'll change. But you gatta be absolutely sure, to come back to him. If I would be you I"ll just stay with my curent boyfriend.. if he's nice.
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I already asked a question on homecoming. But I still need to know more.
I am going to homecoming with my boyfriend of over a year and seven months. He is also my best friend. It is in less than two weeks.
What is a good dress length? Shoes? Purse? How much is appropirate(sp) to spend?
Where should I go to buy the dress for cheap?
Im not getting my nails or hair done, I'll have to do my own because I have work until 4pm on the day of the dance :( I know it stinks) What kinds of accories.
I don't want to be the focus because its at my boyfriends school with all his friends.
What are some things to do to get less nervous? How to make a good first impresstion?
Any tips would be really appreciated.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-Kelsey-
thank you soo much in advance! :) (link)
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Buy a dress that looks good on you. Buy it long... and black or red.. kinda sexy i guess... but whatever color suites you best. Buy a perse to your dress. Long dress.
To make yourself less nervous, picture your promp night. Go through it (in your head) and be confident that it all gonna be alright. Picture how perfect it all gonna be many and many times. See yourself beautiful, and nice. lol...
well
that's all...
if I'm nervous, I just do something. Sports are eccelent way of taking your mind of things
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I know for a fact that when it comes to math, I'm pretty slow. Today was the first day of school, and I have a math assignment but I'm very confused. It's a fraction paper. One side was really easy for me but this side I'm just not getting.
-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 =
I keep getting -2 1/4, but there's a list of answers (in a different order) at the side of the paper, and my friend told me the answer was 3 3/4.
Can someone help me with this problem? I don't seem to understand what I'm doing wrong.
My work is
-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 = -3/4 + -3/2 = -3/4 + -6/4 = -9/4 = -2 1/4 (link)
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when you add both negatives... it's just a regular addition, only u add negative sign at the end.
here's my work:
-1 1/4+ -2 1/2= (i do this in my head)
-1+-2=3 1/2=2/4+1/4= 3/4
-3+-3/4= -3 3/4
first you add the whole numbers. Then you add the fractional part. Less confusing...
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I'm a seventh grader and I was just wondering whether or not i should try out for the Baseball team or the Soccer team? I'm 4.7, 75 pounds, and i'm excellent as a goalie. But I love baseball just as much. What should I do??
I rate High!!
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Shoot for your dreams! If you dream big, you gonna be big!
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My Mom Has done drugs 4 a long time.........and now she is bak in my life and wants to see me i dont know what to to cause i am afraid as once i start trusting her again im afriad that she is just gunna leave.......what should I do??
Signed:Hurt --Inside (link)
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Do what is best for you. If you feel like your mom going to pull you back, and not forwarp, then jsut be polite to her, but don't give her your trust. If you feel like she can give you something that can move you foward in life, then you should see her more often. It's your choise. If you are really afraid to get hurt again, then try to face your fears. Only this time without giving much care to them. If your mom abondoned you once, she might do it again. I would talk to her, and try to help ehr. But I would not trust her, nomatter what. I'd be sacred to trust her. Just talk to her sometimes. Don't let her feel abononed either.
Sigh* it all depeneds on you. Whatever you feel like will help you get further in life....
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I'm 13/f, I really like this guy, and I'm in the 7th grade. He's really cute and he's really fun to talk to and he's really nice and I could make a whole list of great things about him, but that would take a long time and wouldn't make much of a difference anyhow. We used to be good friends, but over the summer he went away and I didn't get to stay in touch with him. Now, he's still nice and we still IM and talk sometimes and all, but he just doesn't seem interested and has sort of backed down. He talks and flirts with other girls, and I know that that's not something to be really mad about, but I just can't help but be really pissed off whenever he's having fun with another girl, or talking and walking alone with another girl. And I'm too embarassed to talk to him as much, and he's in only 1 of my classes (Grrr). What can I do to build back friendship again, how can I approach him without blushing, how can I get him to notice me more? I know this is really long, and I'm only 13, and this seems like a dumb question compared to what's happening to people dying in New Orleans and people trying to live in leaky football stadiums in New Orleans but I really need help!!! (link)
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Well, about ur problem with a guy. I gonna give u an example of my friend. There was that guy names prince charming. (yeah he's really hot). And there was one phyco girl, who was a princess. And two of them, used to talk to each other alot. They would call each o ther on cellphoens. She was the second person prince charming talked to on phone. He talked the most to his best buddy. Prince and Princess were very diffrent, and started out as complete strangers.
Hmm... Okey
pretty useless story. But it shows that you need to COMUNICATE with him. Well, can you keep the conversation going between you two for 2 hours? If so call him, on his cell. Be yourself, and you both gonna have fun talkign to each other. Or... if you can't keep the convo going, then aproach him in the hallways, or when you see him. Just try to get to know the part part of him, that was hidden from you. Ask him about his life. And most importantly feel comfortable. Once you get to know the human side of him you will. And dont' mind him flirting with every girl he sees. IT's only natural for guys...
Have fun. sigh* hope this helps.
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Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!! (link)
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I'm sorry to hear this. Try talking it out with your bo friend. ANd hope things gonna work. Maybe you should tell him, that u want the friendship, and that now it's ruined. Sometiems you can lose really good friend, becosue you start going out. And remember all relationships accept marriage gonna come to an end sonner or later.
So try to talk it out with him, and I dont' think you should be going out. Just tlak it out, try to understand him, and he'll in turn understand you. If he won't listen to your part... he's not exactly even a good friend.
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how old do kittens have to be to get fixed?
if i dont get my kitten fixed will she go through heat or will anything happen besides she can get pregnant?
what are some signs of heat?
will rate 5's for good answers! (link)
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well if it's a girl... u'll see....
sigh
it's better for her to get fixed, cuz my cat gets all pathetic and stuff... yesh.... u'll see, well it's a torture for the cat i believe
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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless (link)
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It might seem like a big deal right now, but it won't when u'll be 18. You'll look at it and laugh. Okey this is not the advice.
I don't know hwy your mom, won't let you get a thong. And if you're going it for boys, then... dont' waste ur time. Boys in highschool are still so immature.
Well it's underwear, do what you wish. But if you'll get bad concience, becouse you're doing it behind your mom's back, it's not worth it either.
Hope this helps... it's really up to you.
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everyone i know is straight, but i'm bi. i find it really hard to establish normal friendships w/ other girls because they think i'm "trying to hit on them". however, i never have been and i never will be the kind of girl who's only good friends are guys. what can i do to befriend other girls, w/out them thinking i wanna like do them or something?? thanks in advance!!!
SIGNED,
A CIRCLE IN A WORLD OF SQUARES (link)
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be your luaghing easy going self. If someone doesn't likes you for who you are, then they're not exactly good friends.
Just be yourself, friendly and smiley. Make people feel comfortable around you. And don't tell people stright of that you're bi.
My friends was bi... and i got crush on her >.< eek. But she was cool, and funny, and just nice to be around. She had lots of friends. (oh yeah... and she was going out with that girl)
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Well Lately people have been spreading rumours about me that I am easy and a slut and stuff. And then one of my really good friends called me easy and a slut and it really hurt meh! And I really hate rumours like this! it hurts meh really badly. And also lately my parents have been yelling at me about stupid phone bills! And my dad pushed my sister about it and it really scared meh! I used to be abused when I was little but my family got help and its ok now but when he pushed her it just brought back all the bad memorys! Also for about two yeaars up until around march I was suicidal but then I got the cops called on meh and they came to my house and it was really scary so I stopped cause I didnt want that to happen again! Also I was anerexic and balimic on and off for about 2 years also. Lately alot of things have been happening that have made me want to result back to cutting but I don`t want to and I find myself going into the bathroom alot staring at blades just thinking about it and wanting to but then I come in my room and stay here. Also Sense the rumours I have been feeling useless and like I`ll never find a guy that will treat meh good and Ive just felt like I wont ever be special to anyone and its been getting me really depressed. Wanting to work out heavely to make myself look prettyer. I dont know what to do! I Want to know ways to look prettyer and maybe get guys to like meh and I need advice on my cutting and all the other stuff I wrote about! please help
14/f
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love maddie (link)
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Well, rumours are rumours, don't let the words hurt you. And about bad memories, ever tried to write them down? When I write every thought that I have, it makes me calm. Just write every eavening, what you wanna tell you parents, your friends, how you feel, and everything that you're conserned about in the world. It also will help you with depression.
About looking prettier, I'm sure you're bueatiful as God made you. Just try to stay healthy, watch your wieght, watch over your skin, and heart. There is someone spiecial for everyone out there, you jsut have to find them. Just live, and try new things, trevel, and see the world, meet new people. Not everybody gonna backstab you.
Don't worry about guys. At this age, they are still soooo imature. lol ;)
And don't put too much trust into guys in high school, cuz some can lie to you, and be obsessed with sex.
And look forward to your futre, becouse a miracle may come, and your life will be changed forever.
I really hope this helps. :)
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im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid (link)
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I had the same problem. But it's easily overcome, when your last presentation was a total failer, and you're fighting to survive. So just consentrate on your grade, and forget about all those poeple. Just think, gatta make eye contact with the teacher, gatta get a good grade, gatta speak slowly, at reasonable pace, gatta not make too make pauses.... and so on
Or....
Meet new people, like joining a club or sport. People who have same intrest as you do. That should boost your confidence levle. Oh yeah, practice alot. PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE.......
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I'm korean and im going to High School next year. Well im kinda a slut so I was wondering if people will make fun of me ..and what do i need to know for becomeing a freshman (link)
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first of all... be smart... don't be obsessed with guys, cuz they're obsessed with sex...
okey just do your own thing, have fun relax. Be nice to people, joke aorund, and everyone will like you.
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I feel really left out of everyhting lately. I feel like noone likes me. Any advice?
~Lonely Girl~ (link)
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jsut relax. You remind me of someone I know. His girlfriend broke up with him, and he was really depressed. And he calls that one girl (who likes him) and tells her, how much nobody likes him, and all that other stuff.
Well, try joining a sport, or somesort of club.
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I am 13/f and my parents won't let me remove the hair on my legs. I do anyway but only with a temporary razor that doesn't belong to me. I know why I can't remove hair from my legs, but I want to anyway. My parents are also overprotective and won't let me go to the store with my friends and know parents. If my friends parents see me buying a hair-removing device they will forbid me and tel my parents. If I buy a hair-removing device and my parents catch me they will kick me out of the house (I should know). How do I get a hair-removing device without my parents knowing? Please don't say buy it from a friend or walk to the store! (link)
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how much I wish I didn't start shaving *big sigh
consider urself lucky....
what a fucked up brat DANE, if i would be you, i'd listen to my parents. U wanna remove hair from you rlegs? well ever tried tape? you tape tape to your legs, and then like 6 hours later, pull it. There your problem solved?
and tell your parents to fuck off, and that you got it going on. Go make out int he streets. sex is fun. Yeah, don't believe me try it. U totally gonna love it, I do. Ditch your friends, and go fuck around, u little bitch
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