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ive been on 3 dates with this boy tom. and we are supposed to go to some concert a week from tomorrow. after our first datee i was like ok i kinda like him but i wouldnt kno yet because i dont know him well. we went out 2 other timesss and i still wasnt suree. so todayyyyy i was tallking to him online and at the same time he sent me a message on myspace saying " hey i really like you and i wanna be with you, do you want to?" and i didnt say anything because i dont think i really like him and if i do i wanna go on a few more dates and see.. so i talked to him online and i was like im goin out talk to you tonight.. he signs on and in his profile is " i love u lindsey 9/10/05" and i never sed i wanted to and didnt even give him the sign i wanted to. and his myspace says " in a relationship" i dont know what to do.. tahts kinda creeeppyy.. i cant tell him on the phone so i didnt anser yett!.. wut should i tell him online or wen i text him.. i dont think its bad im tellin him that way because he told me the same way basically
thanksss <3
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I don't think it matters what way you experess it, as long as the message gets to him the way you want it. You shoudl talk to him, over the phone, or on aim. On aim you feel more comfortable. So whichever you feel comfortable with. If he likes you I bet he can wait a few dates. Take it slowly, don't rush (unless you suddenly fall really really in love with him :P)
Just tell him, you would like to go out with him a few more times, and then you'll give him the answer.
And if I woudl be you, I'd tell him when he's doing something that creeped you out, only if it's hard to hurt his feelings.
Good luck. Hope you find a guy who deserves you.
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What you should do, is sit him down, and just tell him straight out that your not sure if you want to be in a relationship with him right now. Tell him that, you would rather go on a few other dates, and get to know him some more before you make that kind of commitment. Hopefully he'll understand. Dont really bring up the myspace thing, cause then he'll think he's got no chance and will probably freak out. (lol) anyway. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask!! Or if my advice sucks, you can IM me at samarawntstoast. ^_^ I dont mind being yelled at! lol,
Hope I helped!
~Melissa~
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wow that is creepy
tell him straight up that you would like to get to know him better before you guys get into a serious relationship
tell him he is going way to fast and you still need time
if he respects you he will understand and if he likes you he will wait until you are ready
hope this helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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