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Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!!
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explain that too him. but before you break it off talk to him about it like next time you have a stupid little fight just be like why are we fighting about this? it's stupid and we never did it before.
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If he is a mature, true friend he will understand how you feel, and be okay with what you want out of the relationship. I know exactly what you mean, b/c that usually happens with me and my b/fs (get along better before you go out.) That is probably b/c when people are "together" they become more possessive with one another, b/c they think they are "theirs" now and that they can control them. Just tell him how you feel, and if he is smart enough he will realize that you two DID get along better before you were going out, and that you didn't used to fight. You could also just tell him that you want to take a break from going out, which is more-or-less breaking up, but tell him you wouldn't mind trying it again later on down the road (if you would want to try again) to see if things work out then! He should understand, if not..there isn't much you can do. Follow your heart!
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well thats pretty hard.I would say to call him up and tell him how much your friendship means to you and that you'd rather be a really good friend of his then his gf because you dont like argue with him.And if ur very truthful and say what you fell, then im sher he will be just fine with being friends.Dont worry :) you'll be fine to!
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Hey this is really tough if i were in your situation I would talk to him about it and tell him that you 2 shouldnt get in little stupid fights. Also talk to him about working on your relationship why isnt it working is it because of the fightds because im sure you 2 can fix that.
I hope i helped
Love,
Lauren <33
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I'm sorry to hear this. Try talking it out with your bo friend. ANd hope things gonna work. Maybe you should tell him, that u want the friendship, and that now it's ruined. Sometiems you can lose really good friend, becosue you start going out. And remember all relationships accept marriage gonna come to an end sonner or later.
So try to talk it out with him, and I dont' think you should be going out. Just tlak it out, try to understand him, and he'll in turn understand you. If he won't listen to your part... he's not exactly even a good friend.
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ok well first of all answer this for me is he a true best friend if he doesnt understand you wanna break up with him?? And if you dont feel its working out I think you should sit him down and have a lil chat with him and tell him how you really feel about this! yeah.... i had the same problem with my bff but were not exactly going out yet long story.. and tell him you dont exactly wanna break up you just wanna have some space and time to urself so your not hurting his feeling and your not ruining your good friendship! i know exactly how you feel so dont feel rele bad ok?? i hope i helped you! :-) good luck!
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Talk to your boyfriend and try to work things out. Tell him that no matter what happens that you still want to be friends. Let him know you'll care about him and you want your relationship with him to last. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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Maybe you could talk to him one on one and ask hims whats wrong and talk to him about the problems your having in your relationship... sometimes talking makes more of a difference then people would think! good luck! hope i helped
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