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ok...i am a guy 14 and i like this girl,shes 14 too.So how i make sure she likes me?I tried asking her out she said no srr im too busy this week...how i know she could like me?or to make her like me? (link)
flurt dur


well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way (link)
i think that you might wanna call her and tell that your gunna go out with him bcuz you feel really close to him and hopefully she understands. And if she doesnt then dont go out with him.. i guess.
Arielle - Hope i helped!!


What are the bases?
i knoe base 1 is making out whats theres? (link)
3 is to have sex


We've been together with my bf for 1 yr and 1 month and recently we had a fight(a big fight) two days ago.And in the next day, he wont call me,text me or even visit me at my house...i miss him so much because everyday he wud visit me in my house...and that night i texted him that are we still together? and he doesnt text back...today i texted him that im home now, will u visit me and he didn't...i really really miss him...i cry a lot bcoz i totally miss him...what should i do?forget him?or should i stay in this realtionship?

i will rate 5...promiz

jean (link)
well i would say to call him and tell him how you cry and how you really miss him.and that you want to make up.i hope this works for you i wich you the best of luck in your relashonship!


its finally hit me that i need to get in shape im not like super huge butim not skinny either husky i guess if thats even a word so whats a good way to start out to lose weight and gain muscles cant really go to a track to run cuz i have school and tons of homework so please wutever advice u can give me will help i rate thanks! (link)
well i know how you fel i fel the same.Well be for you go to bed do 50 sit ups and 20 puch ups and on weekends or if you have any spare time go running around somewhere in your school trace or something.it works so stay on trace and dont give up cuz that always gets the best of me.


ok i want to lose a couple pounds by labor day weekend... what would be the best way ? i have a lot of weights but it doesnt seem to help.. HELP! (link)
well if you want to have a small work out then do 50 sit ups and 15 puch ups a night.Then if that dosent work out or you just want more work out then run a half hour to an hour a day.Hope i helped


i just found sumthang on my boyfriends zanguh that was telling a gurl he knew that he loved her more that anything or anyone!!! im feeling really stupied for going out with him rite now and i dont no what to do and im not shure but it kinda sounds like hes cheating on me but im not shure so plz gimme advice i need it really badly!!!

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DONNO (link)
well talk to him face to face and ask him if he is cheating on you.If he says no then ask about the massage on his zanguh and if he has a good reason then trust him.But if he admets that hes cheating on you then brack up with him.


i have been cutting since 5th grade, im going into 9th now. I don't want to stop because i love the way it feels, and its the only thing that helps me to forget the things i dont want to have to remember anymore. Ive tried stopping before but i physically can not do it. Im so attached to it. But, i cant get caught anymore, and i hate the scars i have all over my body. can anyone help me..? (link)
well this is serious, u need to seek help NOW!or else some day you might really heart ur self.You should really take my advice please do it for me you and all the peopel that care about you.


Our school has banned Abercrombie from our school. They say that the shirts are too sexual and distract the "learning environment." Today a friend of mine was wearing and Abercrombie shirt that said "Will work forehand jobs" and was given a saturday detention and they made him take it off. The same thing happened to a guy wearing a shirt that had a video game controler and said "wanna play?" Yes I get that those shirts can get you in trouble but what's wronge with regular Abercrombie shirts that don't have anything to do with sex? And not to mention pants. Well, us students want to get them to let us wear Abercrombie to school again becasue not ALL their shirts are like that. WE have no idea wear to start. Any ideas? (link)
well u should go talk to the princable if wereing regular abercrombie shirts that just say abercrombie on it is ok becuz that is expensive stuff!


I'm 15 and one of my inner labias is about three times the size of the other. However, this wasn't always so. It started about 2 years ago when I started masturbating with the showerhead. (Could this be the cause of it?) Anyway, I figured it was just swollen, and the swelling would go down. However, as time went on, it only got worse. It's now a more purple-ish, darker color, and bigger. Anyways, point being, instead of it getting better like I assumed it would, it only got worse. And it's now two years later, and I haven't told anyone about it. I would really like to, but I am too embarrassed. Also, I'm afraid if my parents take me to a gynocologist or anything of that sort, they will find out I'm not a virgin anymore, WHICH CAN NOT HAPPEN. I've been a huge emotional wreck ever since, and I really need to find out more about this. Any advice, information, help, or ideas would be SO greatly appreciated. I rate 5's for any attempt. Thank you.
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try not to freak out its prob. nothing to serious but u shuld go see a doctor just in case


Hey!
Does anyone know any really really romantic books for teens about like teen romances? & I mean like really romantic ones. But not sadd.
thanks! (link)
theres this really good one called the dateing game it really good so you might want to look for it.


I really wanna scrunch my hair

i have thin straight hair

Is there any possible way i can scrunch it

If So HOW?? and What can i use??

Thanks♥ (link)
well you can eather,take moose or gel and scrunch your hair from the bottem up, or you can brade ur hair then get it wet and then blow dry it.Belive me it wokes!:),


i want to be an exchange student in england (i live in the u.s.)
is there a exchange thing online that you dont have to pay to go there with there program?
i just want to go a semester.
or is there a place that is cheapest?
I'll rate high! (link)
well im not sure but you might what to go web searching and find one.
~arielle


hi, what do most girl/women use during their period to sleep? pad or tampon? (link)
well you might have a leek with a pad and so it gets on your bed.so try wereing a tampon,and if you dont like it then swich,arielle!


ive been wanting a cell phone for so long. and dont think i havent tried getting one. ive had the money and saved it, i even offered to pay for one. i wrote a whole 1 page essay on why i wanted one, how i used it, and if i did something wrong they could take it away. im on computer like 24'7 so i told them it would occupy my time and i wouldnt be on as much. but NOTHING has worked.
is there anything else left to try!?
~hopeless (link)
yea i todely understand!I dont have a celly eather and WOW did you try hard.Im suprised that you dont have one.But the thing you can do is go up to them and ask them very sirously "why cant I get a cell phone" and then have them talk to u like your an adult and if they have a good reson then be reasonable with them ans say, well when can i get one.i hoped i helped ,arielle :)!!!



I just started Junior High, (Catholic school) and I know everyone. But the thing is, I can't stand all the homework they give us. Today was my second day, and they gave us homework in at least half of our subjects. It took me 3 hrs just to do it! And between cheerleading for 2 hrs after school, and the homework. i just can't take it! And I try to stay focused, because my main goal is the honor roll this year-but in most of my classes, i have to sit next or across from all the girls I HATE. They are such bitches. What should I do? Any tips? If anyone wants to screw around with their answer, it will be an automatic 1. (link)
yea thats good ur making friends and i hope u make many more.Good luck at school!


sorry it's a little long well one of my close friends asked me out and he's kinda known as a cheater and I'm thinking of telling him yes but I've been hearing all these rumors that he kissed his ex and that he was trying to hook up with some other girl and it just makes me wonder about him.I asked him if it was true and he said no that he puts it on everything he has and he swore to god. my friend asked him too and he told her the same thing I really like him but I think I might get hurt if I say yes I will rate a 5.please help (link)
well I think that you should ask your self "do i trust him " if not say no and that hes good for being ur friend but if yea then i guss u trust him so that you would go out with him


i hope this helps!
,arielle :)


Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!! (link)
well thats pretty hard.I would say to call him up and tell him how much your friendship means to you and that you'd rather be a really good friend of his then his gf because you dont like argue with him.And if ur very truthful and say what you fell, then im sher he will be just fine with being friends.Dont worry :) you'll be fine to!




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