We've been together with my bf for 1 yr and 1 month and recently we had a fight(a big fight) two days ago.And in the next day, he wont call me,text me or even visit me at my house...i miss him so much because everyday he wud visit me in my house...and that night i texted him that are we still together? and he doesnt text back...today i texted him that im home now, will u visit me and he didn't...i really really miss him...i cry a lot bcoz i totally miss him...what should i do?forget him?or should i stay in this realtionship?
MiZzY answered Sunday August 28 2005, 1:45 pm: hey..
I'm sure that everything will work out!
But it will only work if you just leave him alone for a while..
He just needs time and his own space..
Because you are the one who is always texting him, he expects you to do all the running around.
You need to stop doing that, and let him do it to you.. once you do that I think that he'll get the message, and if he doesnt seem to be bothered with you then it's time to move on!! [ MiZzY's advice column | Ask MiZzY A Question ]
tootsierollsweet999 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 6:15 am: ok what u should do is go to him and if one of his friends answers saying that hes not home say "i havent seen him for eva ither you let me in or ill beet you up i eatting myself up inside what eva the fight was about i love him and i wanna see him im crying !!!!!!!if hes there tell him i miss him and i want to talk things out if not please tell him im there for him i want to be there for him for eva please just tell him that i just want to see him "that should realla touch someones heart
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danabriana answered Friday August 26 2005, 6:45 pm: woah jean is a cool name. liek jean shorts. or jean pants. or jean skirts. of jean jacket. what if you name was denim. then it could be liek denim skirt. or denim shorts. or denim pants. oh yea your question just go to his house with a mask on and be liek " yo brother you need to chill are you wit me or not" are say it with like ghetto aditude. its more convincing. [ danabriana's advice column | Ask danabriana A Question ]
THOSEGirls answered Friday August 26 2005, 1:32 pm: You can't stay in a relationship that you're not having at this point. Don't waste your time on this guy if he can't be bothered to respond to you, much less work things out. Cut your losses and be rid of him. There are other fish in the sea. [ THOSEGirls's advice column | Ask THOSEGirls A Question ]
icey0990 answered Friday August 26 2005, 12:14 pm: 1 yr and 1 month is too long to just end the relationship. give him time to cool off..and when he repsonds again..talk things out with him and then do the whole kiss and make up thing :)
give him one more day or 2 ..then try calling him and talking. inbox me back with any more questions
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday August 26 2005, 12:09 pm: You need to call him.. a year a while and you been with your boyfriend the same amount of time as me bein with mine so if this happened to me id know how you'd feel.. try and call him or even go visit him yourself.. that way you know whats going on.. ♥ Dez let me know how things are hun.. [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
SuperBlondiex3 answered Friday August 26 2005, 9:51 am: If he geitng upset about one fight and you guys have together for a year and 1 month, he to worth it . Every couple has fights but he shouldn't get so mad over one fight. soo if he asking this was u dont need him becuase if he was smart he would text you back so you guys can talk about what happen, it's his flaut he not talking and wont listen not yours ,, so if he goign to act this way u dont need him
Razhie answered Friday August 26 2005, 8:55 am: Stop texting him. Never wait by the phone for a guy, especailly one you just had a fight with. Pull up your socks and go visit him.
It's very childish for him to just ignore you and leave you in the lurch. Confront him and figure out what is going on. If he continues to be such a jerk, not explaining anything or willing to discuss it with you, dump him, be nice and clear about it too. Maybe someday he'll learn avoiding people is no way to deal with your problems. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
CaliforniaGrl4 answered Friday August 26 2005, 8:48 am: If he is going to treat you like that then maybe he doesnt feel the same way as he used too, or maybe he is trying to get over you.. I think you should go over and talk to him and stop waiting. Tell him how you feel and try and work things out. Hope I help :-) [ CaliforniaGrl4's advice column | Ask CaliforniaGrl4 A Question ]
xWhiteTigerx answered Friday August 26 2005, 8:10 am: well .... if he really loved you he would not treat you like this my advice is move on and find a lad who deserves you because it seems to me he does not deserve you good luck xxx xWhiteTigerx [ xWhiteTigerx's advice column | Ask xWhiteTigerx A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Friday August 26 2005, 7:50 am: You should go visit him, and stop waiting for him to reply. You need to take charge of this situation, and go to his house and tell him how you feel.Dont be scared, because he still is your boyfriend, and you should be able to discuss things with him. Good Luck!!!
~Brina [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
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