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Member Since: July 29, 2005
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Last Update: August 26, 2005
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Hey, I was just wondering what you guys thought about a freshman in highschool dating a senior because i've really started to like this guy and he likes me too. Is it too big of an age difference? Will people start spredding rumors about me "giving" him something for him to b going out with me? (link)
if you two really like each other i think you should go out with him.. yea people will say stuff but if you act like you dont care and you shouldnt then they will eventualy shut up.. but if you really like each other dont let it stand in the way! hope i helped :-)


Ok, yesterday, I was really stressing out. I had a ton of homework, I discovered one of my friends are a cutter, and I have like 3 major tests that I bombed. I spent an hour crying in the principles office.once i got home, I got really short on breath. My chest constricted. I got really nausious and i couldn't breath. i got really dizzy and i passed out. I have no clue what happened. Can anybody help me?? Is it serious?! does it like actually have a name, or is it just me short circiting.
ppplllzzz help.
i give 5s for reasonable answers!!

signed,
anxious and twitchy (link)
Just seems like you had a panic attack and after that kind of day im not surprised that happened. But you may want to let your parents kno and see what they think to and go to the doctors and check jst in case. But try to take things slowly and calm down and things should get better. hope i helpe :-)


We've been together with my bf for 1 yr and 1 month and recently we had a fight(a big fight) two days ago.And in the next day, he wont call me,text me or even visit me at my house...i miss him so much because everyday he wud visit me in my house...and that night i texted him that are we still together? and he doesnt text back...today i texted him that im home now, will u visit me and he didn't...i really really miss him...i cry a lot bcoz i totally miss him...what should i do?forget him?or should i stay in this realtionship?

i will rate 5...promiz

jean (link)
If he is going to treat you like that then maybe he doesnt feel the same way as he used too, or maybe he is trying to get over you.. I think you should go over and talk to him and stop waiting. Tell him how you feel and try and work things out. Hope I help :-)


hi well first of all i know some of you might think why in the world do you want to be a prep? and all that stuff but i dont care what you think if you are just going to like criticize me ok.

and people who are willing to help, how do i be like a prep?

i mean i know i kinda like talk like a prep and all that but i am Asian and stuff and i am not rich at all so i cant really go shopping at Holiaster and American Eagle outfitters and all that and this one person thought i looked like a devil worshiper. like what the heck! i am so not a devil worshiper... i mean i heard of someone telling me that i talk like a prep and everything but how do i really really look prep?

i really really need to be a prep...

its a survival of high school...and trust me, you dont know my school

i rate high for people who tries to help and if you mock me i report you and get you banned

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Okay, To be a prep isn't exactly just wearing A.E or hollister pants. You can find pants at JC pennys,mervyns,kohls,target,old navy and ter stores.The jeans there are "destroyed" like the jeans at A.E and hollister. JC pennys has faded and holes, and are under $20. Shirts dont have to be hollister or A.E ethier, there is shirts everywhere that are bright colors have like sparkles on them and shine. if u wear like black all the time thats not really preppy.So ya it isnt that expensive nad it can still look preppy. hop i helped :-)


13/f
Well i met my boyfriend on AIM. My best friend goes to a diff. school than me and she knew him... so we were both single, she tried to hook us up, at first when we talked i wasnt shy. then he said he loved me after i showed him a picture of me...his mom said we couldnt go out until she meets me which could be awhile. But its really weird now becuase i feel shy talking to him through e-mail or AIM, is that normal? (link)
Online relationships are always hard b.c u never see him and u might feel shy just because you havent seen him and he says he really likes you so yes its normal to feel nervous and shy around him. But i think that you shoudl meet up with him and hng out with him in person just to see if he is worth it all. hop i helped! :-)


Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!! (link)
Other people maybe getting boyfriends no matter how they look. For some guys its all about looks and what the girl will do with them, other guys dont care about that. They prolly look for personality, its doesnt matter if they are really ugly in your eyes in his eyes she might be the most beutiful person ever. And your right your time will come and untill then just dont let it bug you. hope i helped! :-)


im 13 and this boy who happens to be my neighbor is 15 and we really like eachother iman we sechother eveyr day we old hands and kiss and all that stuff and its only been for like 2 weeks or so but i really like him and i have for a while but my sister is also friends with him and well hes not a virgin but i am and my sister doesnt really want me goin out with him cause she doesnt want me to have sex when 13 and yea i a understand that but he knows i wont and well he even told my siser that he really doubts that me and him are going to hookup so i dont know if he really likes me or not so i was wondering if there was a way to make sure he really likes me (link)
If you really like him and you want to kno if he likes you, you should talk to him about it. Its great that he understands that you dont want to have sex and he isn't pushing you or anything. As long as you actually talk to him to se how he feels you will kno for sure. hope i helped :-)


I dont know why i feel so hurt by my boyfriend. I live in florida he lives in pensavainla we promised not to date anyone except each other this year until we see each other next summer. Every time i send him an email or write him a note and he doesnt respond my heart crumbles. its said that distance makes the heart grow fond but being away from him is killing me. I dont know what to do. I never felt like this before I love him soo much! Please Please help. Im tired of crying myself to sleep.
xoxoLexixoxo (link)
Dont give up yet, if he loves you the way you love him then he will write you back. Maybe try sending him another letter telling him exactly how you feel and saying that if he doesnt respond you are going to have to move on, if he doesnt answer you and write you back after a long time.. then you miht want ot think about moving on and seeing new people, give it time thought. Hope everything works out!

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I asked a question about wisdom teeth not too long ago. Thanks to those that answered (with helpful answers). The operation was today, and all went well (except for the pain i'm experiencing lol). I'm just wondering how long should I be biting on gauzes? Are there certain amount of hours after the extraction? Or it it until my lips don't feel numb anymore? Or what? Thanks a lot! (link)
If you just got the operation today, then it will most likely be bleeding on and off all day. You only need the gauze if it is bleeding, put the gauze in your mouth for about a half hour before checking. Take the gauze out and see if it is bleedin continuously if so put new gauze in untill the bleeding stops. If it isn't bleeding anymore then take the gause out. Hope I helped :-)It should stop bleeding hours after the operation.
Get better! :-D




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