I dont know why i feel so hurt by my boyfriend. I live in florida he lives in pensavainla we promised not to date anyone except each other this year until we see each other next summer. Every time i send him an email or write him a note and he doesnt respond my heart crumbles. its said that distance makes the heart grow fond but being away from him is killing me. I dont know what to do. I never felt like this before I love him soo much! Please Please help. Im tired of crying myself to sleep.
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elscorcho96 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 6:59 pm: I'm in an online relationship right now and I know how you feel. Since you're feeling really upset about it right now, I'd suggest writing him an email and arrange a time you can call him. If you don't feel comfortable talking to him, then try putting your feelings down to words. He might just be really busy. [ elscorcho96's advice column | Ask elscorcho96 A Question ]
Advicegal27 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 5:10 pm: hes not responding maybe bacause he broke the promise that you both made now he feels that he must not talk to you dont spend time worrying about him just find another man thats closer to you and will NOT break his promise!!! its not good to break your promise but if you think that something could've happened to him and you're concerned just give a few calls and if he leaves you without a trace then say "goodbye" to that fello!!! [ Advicegal27's advice column | Ask Advicegal27 A Question ]
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 5:00 pm: You guys just need to take a break. If you can be together when you can be physically together, then that would work. If you really love each other then you should give each other the chance to date other people.
<b>♥</b> Melissa [ xRoOxiSxBlOnDex's advice column | Ask xRoOxiSxBlOnDex A Question ]
CaliforniaGrl4 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:52 pm: Dont give up yet, if he loves you the way you love him then he will write you back. Maybe try sending him another letter telling him exactly how you feel and saying that if he doesnt respond you are going to have to move on, if he doesnt answer you and write you back after a long time.. then you miht want ot think about moving on and seeing new people, give it time thought. Hope everything works out!
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:05 pm: I think I know what you're feeling. And you need to ask him whats going on with no replies to your notes or e-mails that you care enough to send him. I'd start digging for the truth, because if you don't start now, it just makes things more unbearable, especially when you're crying for answers inside. But now its time to unleash your cries for answers to him. Tell him how crushed you're when hes not responding, and ask him if hes seeing anyone. Just ask him what you need to know, I want you to be able to know whats going on instead of crying all the time. If you need help with this, just inbox.
EvilOompa answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:02 pm: Did you try telling him that? If you talk to him and tell him that you really hate not getting answers back, mabe he'll try a little harder. If he loves you like you love him then he;ll do anything for you
Teza answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:59 pm: Give it some time. Maybe he has been pretty busy lately or something happened with him computer. Why dont you try calling him and see if he answers? Dont give up on him yet. Send him another e-mail telling him how you feel and everything and he will understand. Dont think of bad things. Just try to be happy. His computer probablly got messed up or something, but he will talk to you. Dont worry. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ncblondie answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:29 pm: Send him another email or note telling him how you feel when he doesn't respond. If he doesn't answer, then the best thing for you to do is to move on. I know it's hard right now, but you deserve someone that will take the time to respond to you, even if it's only a short note or email saying I'm thinking of you too. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
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