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sorry it's a little long well one of my close friends asked me out and he's kinda known as a cheater and I'm thinking of telling him yes but I've been hearing all these rumors that he kissed his ex and that he was trying to hook up with some other girl and it just makes me wonder about him.I asked him if it was true and he said no that he puts it on everything he has and he swore to god. my friend asked him too and he told her the same thing I really like him but I think I might get hurt if I say yes I will rate a 5.please help
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well I think that you should ask your self "do i trust him " if not say no and that hes good for being ur friend but if yea then i guss u trust him so that you would go out with him
i hope this helps!
,arielle :)
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well if your hearing so much bad stuff about him, doesnt matter if hes your friend, hes just not dating material. dont risk yourself getting hurt just because you like this guy...you can def find a guy you like more than him who is worth being with( :
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those are rumors...You really don't know if they are true...Go out with him and if he cheats on you then brake up with him...Plus if he swore to god and he lied hill be going to hell...lol
Hope i helped
*Kristen
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Look what I think you should do is find out the truth before putting anyone in judgement. I mean he is your close friend. If he does cheat on you than he isn't the right person you shouldn't even be hanging around with. Before you say yes or no you need to find out the truth.
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Rumors are tough things to go by. You can't always believe everything you hear, but if you are hearing it from more than a few people..chances are it might be true. A lot of guys are very well known for being cheaters or players. I don't trust very many guys at all. If he seems like he has been mature in the passed, then he might not be lying about the things he swears are true to you. Just watch and pay close attention to the way he acts around you, and other girls. If he treats you better, or does more for you he probably likes you a lot. If he flirts with other girls, especially when you are around, he probably isn't worth it. If you haven't been his friend for a long time..I would suggest getting to know him as a friend first, then if he seems like a good guy, and treats you the way you want to be treated..think about giving him a chance. Don't rush into anything, and be sure this is what you want. Don't feel pressured into giving him an answer rite away, but don't make him wait forever. If you tell him that you aren't sure, and he just gets a different g/f..forget about it. The rumors are most likely more than true then!
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Hun, rumors aren't always true. Most of them are a bunch of lies. I wouldn't depend on your answer from the rumors that are going around. Don't listen to them, ignore them. I don't think he's lying. I mean he swore on you and his relationship and on god. Just take the chance. You'll never know until you guys are actually together. Go for it. Don't give up on something like this, it could turn into something real special. Even if you do get hurt, "what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger". You're going to have a lot of heartbreaks over the years, but you need them to learn and move on in love. Not all guys are going to break your heart. Don't be scared to get into a relationship just because you don't want to get hurt. Get into a relationship to have fun and enjoy your time with this person.
♥ Krissy
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You've only got your own gut to follow on this one, if you don't think you can trust him, then don't date him. Maybe just be his friend for a while, see how he bahaves first hand.
If you do decide to go out with him, watch out for yourself. Trust has to be earned. Listen to what he actually says and does, and not what you want him too.
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Like you said, you've been hearing these rumors, so it doesn't necessarily mean that it's true. If he is your close friend you should take his word. I think you should say yes. If you don't you might regret it and just take this chance. I mean you really like him and just trust him. Hope everything works out!
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hey hun listen there are so much rumors going around everybody everyday people just like to talk about other people to screw things up
never listen to rumors because most of the time they are a load of crap
if you like the guy then go out with him and get to know him better get to know what kind of person he is
you could get hurt in a relationship if they are a cheater or if they are not
hope this helps if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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hey umm i think you should say yes and just take his word on it that he hasnt cheated or done anything. and if u say no you might think back and be like i wish i would of went of with him. but if u do go out with him and break up your friendship might not be as close. so i hope i helped ~DONNA~!
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