Member Since: November 8, 2004
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Last Update: May 21, 2006
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i have a really hard time meeting people. and when i do meet someone, i don't leave a good impression. they either forget who i am or they don't like me. is there any way to make better first impressions? (link)
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if i were you i would smile a lot smiling makes a big impact on people..if its known by them or not. They will remember u as the happy smiley fun to be around person... thats what i do...it seems to work. plus u might even convince yourself you're happier! :-D soo smile!
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ok this is REALLY about my friend..not me :)! anyway my friend Mag...is goin out wit this kid Andy..nd I'm friends with him too. Well they started going out when they didn't really know eachother like they werent friends or nething...now my friend is really confused because he's kinda boring..like he's really quiet...but sumtimes he can be funny...they don't really look lik a couple either..lik you kno how you can just tell when people are goin out..well you really cant with them... it's hard to expalin but anyway...my friend wants to know what she sould do..i'll pretty much rate 5's for naybody that gives a decent answer! thx! (link)
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hes probably just shy...i say try to talk to him then wait a while and if it doesnt really get any better then break up with him and just be friends...lesson learned you should get to know the person first.
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ok....heres the deal. I started my period about hmmm....the beginning of the summer! ok im 13 just to let you no. welli use pads and i hate them so much!! i want to start useing tampons but i dont no if i should because i have only had my periiod for about 4 or 5 months! im goin 2 start soon and its my first time in school! what should i do! what is the age to start usig tampons and should i use them now??????? i want to wear skirts and things and not worry about my pad! please write bak asap! thnx yall
oxo alex oxo (link)
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try o.b's i heard they are better for younger girls...
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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there
its not like i want to i do but its like this urge that wont go away its all i cant think about. and watching my niece doesnt help it makes me want 1 of my own more.
i know i am emotional stable and if i did get pregnant my family would help me support this child but i know its not how i was raised and there arent alot of teen pregnancies in my more upscale neighborhood but i feel like i cant live without having a child
i also do babysit and work with children (link)
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Just think about how life would be like for your baby if u had a baby now. You wouldnt be able to have a dad that will always be there for both of you guys.your wouldnt have a steady job. I i were u i would wait...for your sake your babies sake and everyone elses sake. To satisfy your urge...or whatever you call it...keep on spending time around your niece and keep babysitting and stuff. Your sound very fortunate with a supportive family...good luck...i wouldnt have one yet though...wait
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'Ello. I'm 13/m and I won't take any of that 13-year-olds-don't-know-how-to-love crap. So this is an easy 1 for all of you closed-minded people and jack@$$es who give idiot advice.
Eeneehoo, so there's this girl, and I love her a ton. I know it's not a crush, I can just feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. And it's the happiest feeling in the world. But it seems that I can never be happy!
Before I realized my feelings for her, and I just thought of her as one o' my best friends, I was perfectly content. Then it was bugging me that I couldn't bring myself to tell her how I felt. After I told her that I loved her, she told me that she just likes me as a friend, so then I was really depressed. Then after a while I started to dream about her every night, and one night I dreamt that I had asked her out, and considering I've never asked anyone out before, that was a frickin awesome dream. So I decided to ask her out in real life. I was faced wtih rejection---worst feeling in the world. Then a little bit later I found out that she already had an ex and a first kiss, and I felt jealousy. I'm just never satisfied. Especially not now. Now I'm looking back on everything. I know it's love... I don't give a damn about hot, or cute, or sexy. I know it's love. And I now know that love hurts. Is there any way to overcome this pain and misery, and just be satisfied? I've forgotten how I previously lived my life... I need to relearn how I processed! Please help! I'm so completely distraught! (link)
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I have felt all that u have felt and i am also 13...
what i have done though is just be their really good friend. always be there for her to have a shoulder to cry on. respect her. Or anything like that. she will soon realize you are the one for her and that you care about her soo much.
as for being satisfied...i dont think its really possible to ever really be satisfied...if you dont want to wait for her then just start "liking" someone else...it feels good to move on (while truely you will still always love her)
Also if i were you i wouldnt try to rush things or ask her out...or anything like that girls dont really like that...as far as i know
but i am really sorry it is truely a horrible feeling...i wish you the best of luck!
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Hello. My dad is planning on buying me a cell phone, because since I started school i have gotten As and kept up with them. Im most likeley getting a prepaid but, problem is, i have no idea what kind of phone i should get. Any reccomendations? Also could you give me some idea of how you get ringtones like downloading them and whatnot? Thanks will rate and send f/b =D (link)
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it'd probably better to get a cell phone that most of your friends have...because a bunch of plans have where you can call other phones. with the same company ( like verizon, and, cingular)for free. also slide phones..are pretty cool looking..but it depends on your style!
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I honestly don't know what's wrong with me, and why guys won't ask me out. According to everyone I know, I'm "really really pretty", and I tend to have a lot in common with guys (I like video games, and boy-ish books).
=/ everyone I like ends up liking/dating someone I know, or a friend of mine.
I'm just confused now. I have absolutely no confidence in this matter now. (link)
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its probably because they see u as one of their really good friends...and wouldnt want to ruin your friendship etc. i am exactly the same way. dont worry some great guy will realize u soon! keep being yourself. and nothing is wrong with you, its the guys problem!!
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i need a new screen name for AIM and i cant think of any..so would you plz help? My Name is Ashley. My middle name is nicole, i like to play softball, my favorite color is pink, im sorta a girlie girl! thanks ill rate high for good answers (link)
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a fun way to make up a screenname is to use your favorite animal for example a kittie and then your favorite color, name what you like to do etc. and think of a random word and put them all together... for example sillypinkkittie ..i hope i helped i have never really been the best at making stuff up lol
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I am not fat. But I want to get slimmer. its okay if you get mad and tell me not to worry about my weight but i've tried and it wont work. what do i do to get a slimmer stomach. please dont give some website to look at b/c i hate researching on the web. just tell me what to do... PLEASE! thanks in advance... :D i rate high if you are good! (link)
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If i were you i would get involved in sports..like tennis soccer, etc. also itd be a good idea to instead of eating something like chips..replace it with salad..without alot of dressing...they are really good! (haha) also do alot of sit ups and crunches. i hope i helped! goodluck!
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in ancient greek stories, the people sacrifised(sp) things to the gods. how did they do that?
thanks! (link)
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they kill them....they kill enemies or somepeople accually volunteer to be sacraficed (killed) for the gods.
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ok so i have kissed a boy before but i have never made out with one. i know this might sound stupid but where do you put your hands and know when to stop.
i'm kind of scared incase he thinks i'm rubbish
i'll rate 5's
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dont worry you'll be fine it all comes naturally. you dont sound stupid alot of people wonder this... if he likes u he woundnt care.
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=( This has been really bugging me; I really like this guy. I've only known him for 2 weeks, and talked to him a few times, but I can't stop thinking about him. He's such a great guy, and I'm happy for any girl who gets him. But I can't get him off my head.
What's wrong with me? :(
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Nothings wrong with u it happens to a bunch of other people...it probably isnt love...but it could be. just start to talk to him more and become better friends.
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Is it wrong for me to be a little jealous/upset that my boyfriend just left my house to go out hang out with his "Best Friend" [which I've never heard of] who happens to be a girl? (link)
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its extremely normal! i think everyone at least felt like this once...maybe u could talk to him to make sure there isnt anything going on between them...but dont worry! it will all turn out fine. good luck!
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My brother weighs 170-180 pounds and is about 5' 10"-5' 11" One catch. He is about the skinniest guy I know. He has like a six pack, no lies. But everywhere I look he's overweight, like am-i-fat.com and whatever. He lifts like 120 pounds, no jokes, goes to the Health Club everyday, lifts on the Boflex... so is the scale simply not considering muscle weight, or does he need help?
Signed,
Concerned for my Brother (link)
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muscle weighs a whole lot more then skin and fat and other stuff..those websites are just going on your weight they wouldnt know that your brother has alot of muscle or its all fat...if he works out and looks good...and eats well the thats probably whats up. hope i helped!
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Ok me (14/f) and my bestfriend (15/m) are going out... weve been for 1 month but i just dont feel like its working out... we argue A LOT now over stupid stuff like hanging out or whos house too go over (stupid stuff), but before we went out we were cool and got along.. Never fought... i thought about it last night and i decided i dont want too go out with him anymore but the thing is, he was talkig to his best guy friend one day and his friend asked what would happen if we broke up... He was like id be pissed off and wouldnt talk to her... My bf doesnt even know i know this but that hurt me :(.. So now im scared too break it off because it could ruin the great friendship we had... HELP!!!! (link)
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Maybe you could talk to him one on one and ask hims whats wrong and talk to him about the problems your having in your relationship... sometimes talking makes more of a difference then people would think! good luck! hope i helped
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last year. i had like a big group of friends. and now this year. it feels likes they dont think about me as much. like im just sorta there then like theyre best friend or just friend. my best guys friends are all of a sudden BEST friends with my BEST girlfriends and its like okayy what about me. every1 has a bst friend now and its like i dont. i dont want to be the center of theyre world but i mean i dont want to be invisable either (link)
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I also feel the same way. But my friend is trying to be more popular and hang out with "popular" people and she is ditching me. if i were you i would find more friends...or talk to your best friends about it. Maybe they dont realize they are doing it. but good luck with it it seems like alot of people have this problem in middle school i guess you find out who your real friends are that are always there for u. i hope i helped!
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alright well heres my deal, i'm 14/f and my best friend well i LOVE her brother i went out with him secretley but then she found outt and she was pissed..so then we had to break up bcus his parents were always yellin @ him and she wuld always cry about it i dnt see wat the big deal was but anyways we got back together and we got sexually active, agen she found outt and we had to break it off except this time it was BIGG. I still love him and he still lvoes me we arent reallyy dating but together my mom says i can do better but i def. think hes it. wat shuld i do? end the relationship or just go for it and forget about his sister. (link)
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If i were you i would try to talk to your best friend first and tell her what you really think and ask why it means so much to her and her family.(but of course try to ask at the right time like when she is really happy) if that still doesnt work then i would say you should choose who you care about most. i hope i helped :-D
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well i'm gonna try out for this olymic soccer and i'm just afraid i wont make it cuz i'm gonna be one of teh younger ones trying out and i made it to the district soccer (the best of teh north shore) and when i dont make something i tend to get really sad and think i suck so i dno to try out or not help plz????!!! (link)
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i would try out if i were you. If you dont try out then you will always wonder what would of happened if you tried out. Plus if you dont make it...since u are one of the youngest you'll have a couple more years to try out and get better! and probably make it! Good Luck!
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there is this one guy that i really like.i know that i love him too.when i am in love i can't sleep or eat and i can't even breathe right when i see him or think about him. i have know idea what to do. until my one friend had a little chat with him.. he said at first that he would never go out with me. but then later he said i am confused and i need to get my priorities straight. so is it best just to be his friend right now.. or should i try to get him ?
signed
crazy in love but very confused (link)
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I think you should wait. If he goes out with other people then just show him your always there for him through all his girlfriends you'll always be his great friend and always there for him. And hopefully he will notice you as a great girl friend!
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How do you get pictures on myspace? (link)
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on myspace when you click to go to the homepage there is a button that says "upload/change photos" click it then there is a browse buttom hit it then find the photo u want to put into myspace after that upload it if it says its too big then resize the picture then try again.
also another way to get photos on myspace u can use www.photobucket.com opload the picture and copy the code in the second box and paste it in the about me section of myspace.
sorry if its confusing i hope i helped!
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