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i need help.
last year. i had like a big group of friends. and now this year. it feels likes they dont think about me as much. like im just sorta there then like theyre best friend or just friend. my best guys friends are all of a sudden BEST friends with my BEST girlfriends and its like okayy what about me. every1 has a bst friend now and its like i dont. i dont want to be the center of theyre world but i mean i dont want to be invisable either
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I also feel the same way. But my friend is trying to be more popular and hang out with "popular" people and she is ditching me. if i were you i would find more friends...or talk to your best friends about it. Maybe they dont realize they are doing it. but good luck with it it seems like alot of people have this problem in middle school i guess you find out who your real friends are that are always there for u. i hope i helped!
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The same thing happened to me in 7th grade. You just have to forget about them, because they're not being your friends. I know exactly how that feels. I had these 4 friends back then; 2 of them were best friends and the other 2 were best friends, and they were all friends, and I was just a 5th wheel. Just make new friends, or start talking to the ones you don't normally talk to. That's what I did, and now I have lots of friends. Good luck, hope I helped! ♥ Erin
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I felt exactly the same way, and this seems like a question that I can see myself asking. Basically, I felt like a third wheel with my friends, like they didn't need me with them to have fun, and that they'd rather not be with me. Instead of getting upset, I went around and made some new friends that i have a lot of fun with and that treat me really like a best friend! I still have my old friends, and now that I don't try to hang out with them 24/7, they are more willing to hang out with me.
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I went through the same thing a while ago.. Branch out and make some new friends. Join a club or sport where you can meet new people. Or call up someone that you know, but haven't hung out with before, to do something. You could always call one of the people in your group and invite them to a movie or something. Who says your friends can't have more than one best friend?
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ive had some similar problems before. i find that sometimes I have to be the one to take the first step and call my friends or make the plans or invite them over or whatever. if they still dont pay attention to you then they aren't worth your time anyways. it may be scary at first, but it's really fun to make new friends too! :)
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