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Never satisfied
'Ello. I'm 13/m and I won't take any of that 13-year-olds-don't-know-how-to-love crap. So this is an easy 1 for all of you closed-minded people and jack@$$es who give idiot advice.
Eeneehoo, so there's this girl, and I love her a ton. I know it's not a crush, I can just feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. And it's the happiest feeling in the world. But it seems that I can never be happy!
Before I realized my feelings for her, and I just thought of her as one o' my best friends, I was perfectly content. Then it was bugging me that I couldn't bring myself to tell her how I felt. After I told her that I loved her, she told me that she just likes me as a friend, so then I was really depressed. Then after a while I started to dream about her every night, and one night I dreamt that I had asked her out, and considering I've never asked anyone out before, that was a frickin awesome dream. So I decided to ask her out in real life. I was faced wtih rejection---worst feeling in the world. Then a little bit later I found out that she already had an ex and a first kiss, and I felt jealousy. I'm just never satisfied. Especially not now. Now I'm looking back on everything. I know it's love... I don't give a damn about hot, or cute, or sexy. I know it's love. And I now know that love hurts. Is there any way to overcome this pain and misery, and just be satisfied? I've forgotten how I previously lived my life... I need to relearn how I processed! Please help! I'm so completely distraught!
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Hey man first you have to relax. You're probably stressed and might find that difficult to do, but you need to. So you felt and love and got rejected. Is that the end of the world? Of course not! Chin up man. First I have to give you props on asking her out [I've been there before and know its not easy]. Secondly, you should move past it and look on the bright side. Say for example she did go out with you, but then after awhile things didn't go well and you broke up and one of you didn't want to talk to the other or something like that. How would you feel that you put a great friendship on the line and lost it all?
I find you would be happier if you remained good friends with her rather than lost her for a relationship. Relax and get it off your mind. How? Video games always picked me up. Go hang out with your guy friends and play football or do something. Try not to put too much thought into all of it. Also, are you going to let that stop you from having a good time or feeling yourself again? Have fun! You are just starting to live your life. So push it aside and if you really want to you can still wait for it to come around. It's part of life and I know where you are comming from. Don't let this experience ever stop you from getting back up and going at it again. Hope that helped and good luck.
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I have felt all that u have felt and i am also 13...
what i have done though is just be their really good friend. always be there for her to have a shoulder to cry on. respect her. Or anything like that. she will soon realize you are the one for her and that you care about her soo much.
as for being satisfied...i dont think its really possible to ever really be satisfied...if you dont want to wait for her then just start "liking" someone else...it feels good to move on (while truely you will still always love her)
Also if i were you i wouldnt try to rush things or ask her out...or anything like that girls dont really like that...as far as i know
but i am really sorry it is truely a horrible feeling...i wish you the best of luck!
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