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should she stay with him?
ok this is REALLY about my friend..not me :)! anyway my friend Mag...is goin out wit this kid Andy..nd I'm friends with him too. Well they started going out when they didn't really know eachother like they werent friends or nething...now my friend is really confused because he's kinda boring..like he's really quiet...but sumtimes he can be funny...they don't really look lik a couple either..lik you kno how you can just tell when people are goin out..well you really cant with them... it's hard to expalin but anyway...my friend wants to know what she sould do..i'll pretty much rate 5's for naybody that gives a decent answer! thx!
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There's only one answer for that kind of problem: If the chemistry isn't there, then it's not worth it. I mean, it's OK to like someone, but maybe they should just be friends. They're not comfortable enough for eachother, and from what i'm reading they're not that compatible at all. I don't think that they should stay together because frankly they aren't right for eachother. They should just stick friends and both of them will find the perfect match..someday. I hope I helped.
*X0O Nikki
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She needs to think about how bad does she like this young man of hers. Frist, everyone knows before you start a realationship with someone, you have to get to know them. Thats including questions like[What is your favorite restaurte? Do he like to hold hands when he's in a realationship? Or Do you like to talk alot, be intresting.] Stuff like that. I know it seems hard to ask silly questions but the silliest questions are the best ones.
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When you start a relationship with someone you don't know, its always going to be boring in the beginning. If your friend really likes this guy, then she needs to give it time, otherwise, she needs to move on until shes more patient with guys. The best way that she can move things up to a talkative level, is to just talk to him at school, after school, start a conversation. If shes afraid, then start being with her and call him with her so that you can get her started, you have to get some guts to call him, because he probably feels the same. Its not really about showing people that you are a couple, it just has to be about being comfortable, and making changes with this guy, and start talking more, she'll be more satisfied if she starts up conversations and gets o know him better. Sure, it may appear as a friendship, but as long as you're moving in further with conversations.
-TheTeenGirl
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hes probably just shy...i say try to talk to him then wait a while and if it doesnt really get any better then break up with him and just be friends...lesson learned you should get to know the person first.
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Well I think that they should breake up and find people they can really just open up to and one's that will really talk, act like a couple and that. I hope this helps you and her out!
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If you friend isnt happy with this guy then she shouldnt be going out with him. I am not sounding mean. Maybe she needs a guy who is a little more outgoing. Some people who are shy like Andy are hard to show how they are. He is probably afraid to be himself b/c he is afraid she wont like him.
He probably figuares if he is shy then she wont have anything bad to say about him. I think that if your friend isnt happy then should find someone who makes her happy.
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never rush into or outof anything. give it time. then see how things look. if things havent gotten much better, then maybe Mag should consider becoming friends with Andy first, or she should just be good friends with Andy. And possibly try dating another time. Or if things appear to be getting better, Mag and Andy could stay together, if they both want to or they can take a break or just become good friends!
Its great that you want to help your friend! thanks very sweet!
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I hope I helped-
*Kellzie<3
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