ok yall i need some help.ok the thing is that i like this guy but he is in the 6th grade and im in the 8th.he is as tall as me not imature so--- sweet cute and possibly likes me to.i think he does cause he always flirts with me but no one else.i dont no if i should or not. i think he is 12 or 11 and im 13.which isnt that bad .but the thing is if we do become bf and gf i dont want ppl thinkin i was just desprate or any thing like that.cause im not i just dont have alot of self confidence with askin guys.so idk wat i should do.plz help i rate high.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday October 23 2005, 3:35 pm: I think you should totally go out with him. I mean it's great that you've found someone you like that likes you and you two are compatible and such. I mean you shouldn't NOT take the chance. You could be missing out on one of the greatest things in your life, and all because your worried about what people think? People at my school do it sometimes, and nobody cares at all. To me it doesn't come of as being desperate. It comes off to me as," they really like eachother he just so happens to be a year or two younger" because I mean, it's only one or two years. So totally go and ask him out =) I hope I helped!
HUGSxN0TxDRUGS answered Sunday October 23 2005, 12:46 pm: I think you should go for it and ask him out. I mean, it isnt a huge age difference, and its great that he's totally your type. As far as the peer pressure goes, dont listen to them! They're just trash, and jealous that you found someone that's totally compatible for you. If you have real friends, they won't care, and they'll be happy for you. If you need any other help, feel free to come for me. Goodluck with him!! :) I hope I helped.
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winter12 answered Friday October 21 2005, 10:18 pm: i'm gonna tell you the truth don't do it to yourself don't short yourself for some young child girl there gonna really think your lil girl with a lilboy please he might seem older but he still have that child mind. [ winter12's advice column | Ask winter12 A Question ]
ankeagle14 answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:33 pm: well first of all if people dont like it...they dont like it. o well, tough for them. i mean, i know how it feels to be judged by who your friends are or who you date, but just egnore it, it will die down soon enough. so just ask him out, see what he says, if its a no, try to move on, cause he probably isnt right for you anyway. hope i helped...ANK [ ankeagle14's advice column | Ask ankeagle14 A Question ]
SweetxxIntoxication answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:32 pm: imo, i dont think age matters at all, as long as the feeling is there. get a friend to talk to him to see if hes single and likes you, like..wants to be your bf. if yes, chances are he wont turn you down if you ask him, and if he does he is one messed up kid. =P
or you could ask him if he wanted to hang out sometime and get to know him a little better, and after getting to know him better, just say "hey (name), i think i like you..and i think i want to be more than friends" or something along that line
Advicelady6798 answered Friday October 21 2005, 6:09 pm: No one can think your desperate b/c lots of people date younger guys. I know tons of people who are doing that. I think you should at least give it a try. I am sure that he likes you if he is flirting with you like that. If you dont try and hook up with him now then you will regret it. You willwonder what would have happened if you would have done it. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
K2204 answered Friday October 21 2005, 5:58 pm: it doesnt matter. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and we have been together almost 2years.
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