everyone i know is straight, but i'm bi. i find it really hard to establish normal friendships w/ other girls because they think i'm "trying to hit on them". however, i never have been and i never will be the kind of girl who's only good friends are guys. what can i do to befriend other girls, w/out them thinking i wanna like do them or something?? thanks in advance!!!
Blair answered Monday August 8 2005, 12:23 am: I think the best way would be to explain it in a way they can understand. Say: You have guys that are friends right? Are you attracted to all of them? Surely the answer will be no, then explain that just because you have an interest in girls doesn't mean your attracted to every one of them. [ Blair's advice column | Ask Blair A Question ]
shining_star answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:23 pm: be your luaghing easy going self. If someone doesn't likes you for who you are, then they're not exactly good friends.
Just be yourself, friendly and smiley. Make people feel comfortable around you. And don't tell people stright of that you're bi.
My friends was bi... and i got crush on her >.< eek. But she was cool, and funny, and just nice to be around. She had lots of friends. (oh yeah... and she was going out with that girl) [ shining_star's advice column | Ask shining_star A Question ]
DancinCutie08 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 4:59 pm: i think the easiest thing to do is make friends with someone then once they are real confortable with you tell them you are bi but dont have feelings for them and besides girls are evil and you should want to be friends with them anyways [ DancinCutie08's advice column | Ask DancinCutie08 A Question ]
SuThRnCoWgIrL0678 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 3:52 pm: just explain to them,what you explained to me.Its not your fault your bi,God wanted you that way,& if your friends dont except that,then they arent your good friends.Find people that except you for the way you are.Hope this helped,feel free to IM me @ arianaaaaa <33 xoxo [ SuThRnCoWgIrL0678's advice column | Ask SuThRnCoWgIrL0678 A Question ]
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