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help!
Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
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well it seems to be that ur bi. its ok. or maybe u ere just confused or somthing.
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you ar bi. it's where you like both sexs
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dont worry about it! you a teenager, its only natural for you to experiment with you sexuality! so just go with it and see how you feel as things progress!
hope i helped!
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hi hunni,
there is nothing wrong with this it is just experementing and there is nothing wrong with liking the same sex at all it is toatally normallty espesialy at yourage so just do things as they come and if you come to like girls it is ok
always
wiggs
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your probably bi curious
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well i think you might be bisexual which means you like both boys and girls. there is nothing wrong with this and you should follow your heart but also find out how your partner feels.
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y0ur bisexual...y0u lyk b0th quysz nd giirlsz...umm ya thatsz all there iisz t00 it...
h0pe thiisz help`sz =]
<3 qorjess mami
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Hey sweetie
This is an age where girls do that kinda stuff. Your body wants to know wihch path you are taking!! It is perfectly normalyou mite bebi but not a leazbo!
<3 ya!
Andi!! ^.^
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Your bisexual...you like both girls and guys
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Your bisexual. there is nothing wrong with that as long as you feel fine with it.
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Its called bisexual.
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that just means ur bisexual nothing wrong im bisexual also
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ur bi if you like guys in girls that means ur bi nothing to be ashamed of alot of guys like bi girls dont try to hide who you are just go with it might turn out good 4 you who knows? good luck and hope i helped!
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whoa. um i guess u should try to be your own person and do what feels best. i just have no idea what to say i am younger than u and wouldnt kno how it feels.im so sorry <3
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Hey if you liked it admit it and say you liked it you can like both girls and guys you can be a lesbian but if it felt good doing it with a girl what's wrong with that. If you feel your a lesbian there's nothing wrong with that.
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it only means you are bi, theres totally nothing wrong with that...you just are attracted to the same sex. its fine dont worry about it!
hope i helped
<3
-Amber Nicole-
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no yhur not les calm down! yhu may be bi or yhu ar jes experimenting. if yhu perfer gurlz to guiiz than well talk nd figure sumfin out (:
<3 madinaa
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I doubt you are a lesbian. You would have been actively attracted to girls as opposed to just hey that was fun. I am guessing you are heteroflexible.
I believe The L Word said it best, "Sexuality is fluid. Just go with the flow."
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This is kinda hard because you say you like guys but your also saying that hooking up with girls doesn't sound bad either. Well you might be bi or you might be straight. If you are bi then you would feel attracted to both sexes, so are you attracted to girl, or just think its fun to kiss and stuff. Because that will decide it right there. But from the sounds of it I think your bisexual. But don't be ashamed, a lot of people are, and you can still hook up with guys. hope i helped!
-----Tara <3
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no hunny you are not a lesbian. you are probably bi or just curious. dont worry. i hope i helped :]
michele <3
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No you're not lesbian ; you're probaby bi though. If you don't know what that is.. that's whenever people like the both sex. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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You're prolly bisexual. But alot of gurls are so0o0o0o0o its no biggie.
Keep it real,
Jenni
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if it felt good then your new status is bisexual. live wit it a few days and see how it turned out.dont worry bout how other people feel bout it either because its good to be different.
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Noo you are'nt lesbian. You are Bi and that is when you like both sex. Its not a really bad thing so dont worry about it. [[ ♥♥ ]]
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sorry for the bad newz but, you are a LESBO!!!!!!!!!!! don't take it too hard. -carter-
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Well,it sounds to me that you're bisexual...which isn't that bad.I don't really have anymore things to say...
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You're bisexual,which obviously means that you're into both genders.There's nothing wrong with that though so don't worry about it.
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you could be bi-sexual. yeah ii`d say you were of you liked being w// your friend buht you still like boiisz.
so hope ii helped.
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A lot, and I mean a LOT, of my female friends and acquaintances from highschool went through things like this. Most of them considered becoming just lesbian, most considered becoming bi. Most stayed straight, and the ones that didn't all went bi. This is a normal type of self-identity questioning.
The thing is, if you have sex, unless you aren't wanting to have sex or just really not in the mood (whether because of mood or un-attracted to the person), it WILL feel good. So don't make a determination upon how things feel, make a determination based upon what you want. Now, if all you want is sexual enjoyment, bi is what's for you - it basically doubles the number of people available to you.
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in that case you might be bisexual.. it means you like both guys and girls.. you are not a lesbian because you like guys too.. if it felt right then you are prob. bi.. don't force youself to just like guys because it isn't going to help so ask yourself... am i attracted to girls? and if your answer is yes then you are.. but if it's not then you are straight.. but either way your not a lesbian.. hope i helped and if you need anything further let me know
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hay maybe i can help!mom know if ur a lesbian or not!so do that and tell me if u liked my advice. IM SERFERGURRL123 AND IM HERE TO HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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no, it doesn't mean you're a lesbian. i mean it COULD mean you're bi, since you said you like guys and all. but a LOT of teenage girls do stuff with their friends that happen to be girls, a lot of people i know have done it. it doesn't mean they're lesbian. it might just be that you were curious, ya know? because once in a while i'm sure everyone gets a lil curious about something or the other. you could have just been really horny lol. but since you said you've never done it before, it could've just been spur of the moment. but there's nothing wrong with it at all! good luck!
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If you like both guys and girls then you are probably bisexual. If you only really did that with that one girl you might just being experimenting with your sexuality. If you are attracted to both then you might be bisexual. Its not a bad thing, it might just be the way you are. Don't stress too much about it. If you get really worried there are a lot of support groups for gay, lebian and bisexual teens. Hope I helped and I hope you figure it all out!
~rainbow
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Luckily this isn't not one of those situations where there is no such thing as maybe. You probably aren't lesbian if you really know that you like guys. But you aren't straight if you really know you like girls. So its the obvious answer: you are bisexual, liking both girl and guys. That's true unless you are lying to yourself somehow.
I hope I helped!
~passionate
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Well...maybe you were just experimenting. You should talk to you friend about it and find i guy you really like, then if that guy makes you feel the same way as the girl did..maybe your bi. and if he makes you feel better then your straight.
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okay i dont think your lesbain but mabey bi if you do like guys & girls but also you might jsut be expermenting and it might just where off hope i helped ♥
x0_court
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okay i dont think your lesbain but mabey bi if you do like guys & girls but also you might jsut be expermenting and it might just where off hope i helped ♥
x0_court
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well its kinda weird and not that normal but i guess what you did made you feel good and everyone likes different things. i think you talk to your friend about it and ask her how she felt about it then decide if you really do you like girls more then boys and if you do then your a lesbian =] and its normal. alot of people are lesbians and well u can be bi. or maybe it was just one time thing. you shoudl really just talk to her and then also you can get with a boy again and she if he makes you feel as good as she did .. that should give you ur answer..
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