Ok..well the other day my best friend came over. We were in my room listening to music. I dontreally remember what happened much but we basically ended up kissing and doing other sexual things. Were both girls. I really like guys..but what I did felt good. I've never liked girls..but after what I did with my best friend, I just dont know. Were both 14. HELP!! am i lesbian? I like guys..but hooking up with girls doesnt sound bad either..
Hey sweetie
This is an age where girls do that kinda stuff. Your body wants to know wihch path you are taking!! It is perfectly normalyou mite bebi but not a leazbo!
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If someone could please help me on this subject I would really apreciate it. I'm scared and I just need someone to give me some advice. Write back quicly I don't what else to do and thank you. Well I'm not sure where to start but here it goes. I have a boyfriend hes 15 and I'm 13. We love each other a lot. We've been togther for over 9 months. He always tells me how lucky he is to have me , how he can't sleep always thinking of me, hes even cried right in front of me because well I said something and it mad him cry, we can talk about anything, and he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. To everyone else in the world we probally seem like the greatest couple and we are. I'm completley in love with him. Do u think hes in love with me? Just wondering. But anyways he has a promblem. I love him and it scares me. I just want some advice. I want to help himb but I could never go to an adult for help because that would break his turst and I could never do that. My boyfriend cuts himself well he has about 3 times. The first time because his Father wouldn't let him call me and he said he couldn't take it. The second time he couldn't get me out of his head. The thrid well i'm pretty sure it was the same as the second reason. This scares me a lot and I feel resonsible. I would never break up with him because of this but i feel like this is my fault. He tells me its not and he recently promised that he will stop for me because he knows it scares me. I want to help but I don't know how. I love oh my gosh i love him more then anything. I'm so confussed and I need serious advice. He also just two nights ago admitied to takeing phills. I started to cry. What should I do? How can I help him without breaking his trust? Please give me some anwsers I don't know who else to turn to . Thanks you more then you'll ever know. Please help!
Omg~
I am soo sorry! Try talking to your friends or even your school consuler, You never know! if you need more advice plzz be free to ask!
~*Andi~*
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Okay well I used to have this really good friend, and he was really nice to me until one day I decided to call him and this is what I said,
me:hey!
him:hey.
me:whats up?
him:nothing really you?
me:nothing...
him:okay..
Me:So are you still going out with lauren or whatever her name is?
Him:yea
Me:cool...
him:Why r you acting like such a bitch?
me:What? im not?
him:yeah you kind of are
me:um...no not really
him:ok whatever.
---hangs up---
Then after that day he totally ignored me! He doesn't really go to school cuz he's home schooled so I never see him, but we used to be bestfriends...well to me he was. I was able tell him anything, and now he's being so rude to me. Oh, that's not all that happened. About 2 weeks ago I finally IMed him and was like..
Me:why do u hate me so much?
Him:cause...i do
Me:um ok? well, I didn't do anything to you.
Him:okay...
Then after he ignored me again!
I finally IMed one of my friends and told her wut was going on, and she IMed him and asked him why hes ignoreing me and all that stuff, and after he apologized. Now he's being mean to me again! Just now I IMed him and said hey! And he's like why are you talking to me? and i'm like why not? and he never responded. What the hell's going on, why does he hate me? I did nothing to him so what's he getting all mad about!?! Help I rate high.
{Oh, and yes I tried talking to him so don't say, "try talking to him" cause it doesn't work...just so yall know.}
I am soooo sorry! He his being really weird! Well talk to his girlfriend if u know her which u probaly do! lol! but if that doesn't work try to see if he is doing difernt things then what he normally does!
More questions please be free to ask!
*~Andi~*
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How do I get over a boy that I really like? I really need help on this one does anyone know any thing i can do?
Hey Girl!
Just don't think of him or whenever your around him just say he is just a friend! Or Just ignore him! hoped i help anymore questions fell free to ask!
Andi~
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Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you.
Maybe you need to spend time with them!And maybe you will feel more comforteable about you talking to your friends about it! i hoped i helped!!
~ Andi
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hey... u answered a question frum me... about my friend and the guy... i no this sounds dumb... but she did whut i asked her 2 do... try and hook me ^ w/ him.... i no it was a weird way 2 do that... but it was her way... and i don't want 2 tell the guy it was a lie... cuz its not.... im f. and 12.... the guy talked 2 me again tho...
well okay this is a big porblem just tell him!!! he might like u and if he does u knoe go out!! lol i hope every thing works out 4 u!!
love
andi :)
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hey... im really scared rite now... i have this friend, and she said she would hook me up with someone, but she did what i asked her to do, but now im not sur if thats what i wanted. Its not her fault, but she told the guy i liked that i liked him... he didn't talk to me after that, and didn't tell my friend if he liked me or not :'( ... I'm really embaressed, because hes really popular, whut do i do?
well ur friend should be sooooooo ashamed for what she did!! grr that makes me soo mad!! u don't need to be her fren! come on what friend would do that! and the guy just tell him it was a lie. dont' worry this has happend to me. i know it hurts really bad can u belive ur friend?? well hope i helped!!!
love
andi :) ( put a smile on!! lol)
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if you liked some1 and they told u they liked you and you new they did, and they told you they were ganna ask you out but now they act like there not goin 2????????? wut should i do 4get about them tell them i still like them flirt more????????
?...help...?
well they r probaly no ofense having second thoughts. and they r thinking bout it. it is not u it is them!! plus if they said they were going to ask u out they should!!! hope i helped!!!
~xoxo me~
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my friend spreaded a rumor that i liked this boy but its soooooo not true! and then i told her hoo i liked and she like screamed the name out loud and ive known her since like 2nd grade and now she barley even talks 2 me wat can i do
what ur friend did was soooo rude!!!!! and u don't desrve a friend like that!!!! okay and if i didn't help talk to me on aim!!! lol
xoxo andi
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ok people at my school make fun of me and call me fat cuz im a size 3 n not a 1 like them. this makes me upset cuz i dont think im fat n people liek make me cry cuz their so mean to me. what shud i do?
don't belive them they are just being stupid!!! be happy wiht who u r and live a little!!! kk?
love
andi :)
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see my friend likes the same boy i like i want 2 tell her 2 back off but that wood b mean she like flirts w/ him pinches and pokes him and he doesn't like it i tell her 2 stop but she keeps doin it but wen i do it like i don't pinch him or anythin he makes me laugh how do i tell my friend he doesn't like her and i don't like it wen she flirts w/ him it makes me soooooooo jealous
well first how do u know he likes u?
and that is okay that another friend likes the same guy does it matter??
come on i have problem like that 2!!
soo go with the flow!!! have a little fun!!
andi :)
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my 2 best friends r going out and im sooooo happy for them ( a guy and and girl) and then my friends r going out and they're like really good friends of mine they r a boy and girl 2 my really good friend that is a girl i like her bf but i also like this other boy 2 and i don't know wat 2 do i feel like no 1 guys like me
plz help
~ unloved~
well go w/ ur heart and ur feelings!! trust me i know!! lol!! sodo what ur heart desire's!! and go w/ the flow!! hope i helped!!
andi :)
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Hey Andi-
What do you think guys want more in a girl? A big chest or a big butt? I NEED to know!!
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well i really don't knowbut some like both and some like the butt and some like the big chest!!!
andi :)
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Hey Andi!
I think your a really good advice columnist which is why i came to you! well, see, i have this friend, right, who is kinda over-weight, its almost unhealthy. i keep talkin to her about it that she should diet and sruff, but she just doesnt listen and keeps eating anything that comes her way! Please help! Im really scared 4 my friend
Jenna S.
i am sooo sorry for ur friend!! well see bascilly uneed to tell her she needs to wacth her weight and thatshe can die over being unhealthy!! and that is not soo good!! i feel soo bad and i am like soo sorry for ur friend and i hope u do the right thing and tell ur friend sheneeds to stop eating so much!!!
love
andi :)
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see i used to hang out my bff alot but i hang out w/ my one of my best friend now and we really tight and my bff keeps bugging me and i don't want 2 hurt her feeling or nething wat shood i do
well see that friend is probaly jelou of u hanging out w/ the other friend!! and she feels left out and she probaly doesn't think u like her as much or somthin!! and think about it ur bff has a new friend and she kicks u to the curve it hurts!! i know all about it!!
andi:)
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Hey, I like this guy and hes really awesome, but he used 2 like me, but I didn't like him. Now I REALLY like him, and I don't no what 2 do. I sort of try 2 talk to him, but I don't think he likes me, what do i do???
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well see i have had this happen to me before!! lol well if he doesn't like u maybe it wasn't meant to be but if u talk to him and like really flirt then maybe just maybe he will go outw/ u!!!
love
andi:)
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I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say.
if ur friends didn'thang out w/ u then they r not real friends. u need ot start somthin w/ someone!! plzz rate me!!!!
love,
andi :)
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see my friend likes thi boy and i like him 2 but he doesn't like her he likes me and now him and me r going out wat should i tell my friend
well this friend might know u r going out and this friend might be in a little pain but just tell ur friend that u know thta u liked him and i hope it is okay if i go out w/ him!!
kk?
love,
andi :)
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i like 2 boys they r both on the football team for east cobb ya but one is hot and the other 1 is like cute the cute 1 is my friend and the hot i don't really know but i wana know him but im to nervous which 1 help?
wwell which 1 do u like better? And like u should get to know him before anything to and this friend mighthave feelings for u to!! so go with ur heart and the answer will become true!!
love,
andi:)
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hey my name is Jazzy and i am having problems with what i am. like gay or straight, u know? well, im trying to be as straight as i can be, but a lot of the guys kinda ignore me! like thats so rude. should i be myself and not have any friends or try to fit in and have lots of friends? this is a tough question, but you can do it!
Love,
Jazzy!
well u should really try so hard to fit in!! hey u know some 1 is out there for u!! just like there is some 1 out there for me!!! and u should be stragiht trust guyzz r werid bout stuff like that!! i know i am a tom-boy as u would say and i have a lot of guy friends.
p.s. if it doesn't help than write again!!
love
andi :)
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