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Okay well I used to have this really good friend, and he was really nice to me until one day I decided to call him and this is what I said,
me:hey!
him:hey.
me:whats up?
him:nothing really you?
me:nothing...
him:okay..
Me:So are you still going out with lauren or whatever her name is?
Him:yea
Me:cool...
him:Why r you acting like such a bitch?
me:What? im not?
him:yeah you kind of are
me:um...no not really
him:ok whatever.
---hangs up---
Then after that day he totally ignored me! He doesn't really go to school cuz he's home schooled so I never see him, but we used to be bestfriends...well to me he was. I was able tell him anything, and now he's being so rude to me. Oh, that's not all that happened. About 2 weeks ago I finally IMed him and was like..
Me:why do u hate me so much?
Him:cause...i do
Me:um ok? well, I didn't do anything to you.
Him:okay...
Then after he ignored me again!
I finally IMed one of my friends and told her wut was going on, and she IMed him and asked him why hes ignoreing me and all that stuff, and after he apologized. Now he's being mean to me again! Just now I IMed him and said hey! And he's like why are you talking to me? and i'm like why not? and he never responded. What the hell's going on, why does he hate me? I did nothing to him so what's he getting all mad about!?! Help I rate high.
{Oh, and yes I tried talking to him so don't say, "try talking to him" cause it doesn't work...just so yall know.}
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Sometimes u just need to give poeple there space i know it might b hard but u need to let him have his time alone and if that doesnt work hes just being mean and he might not have a reason
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In the conversation, that person didnt actually say anything or act like anything. You the one with the problems and need to be nicer to your friends. Your also having girl problems and i think you're a guy. Look into that.
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I am soooo sorry! He his being really weird! Well talk to his girlfriend if u know her which u probaly do! lol! but if that doesn't work try to see if he is doing difernt things then what he normally does!
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It might be his girlfriend, she might not like the idea of him talking to you and stuff. Ask his girlfriend.
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Maybe you don't need to talk to him,how about maybe yelling, just say "fine, unless you can give me proof that I'm a bitch, then you're wrong." Then walk away, or even call him up and then hang up afterwords. And if you don't want to do that, just quit talking to him, theres no other choice.
-TheTeenGirl
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hmmm well this sounds similer to what someone did to me. i was going out with this guy and we broke up but then started to talk again. then all of a sudden i IMed him and he was like why are you talking to me. i was kinda confused. i stoped talking to him for awhile but then one night i got on and he was on and i didn't talk to him but he IMed me and was like hey and acted like nothing was wrong. so i went along with it. about a month passed and he did it again. it was like everytime he got a g/f he wouldn't talk to me. so maybe thats it. and well he is a guy and guys are weird. just give him space and time he will come around trust me.
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Ignore assuager.
Anyway, there's no way for us to tell what went wrong with you're friendship. All I can say is that this guy is an idiot. He doesn't tell you what's bothering him, so he's never going to know whether or not his anger is justified.
My advice is to just stay away from him and don't try to talk to him. I know he was your best friend, but, contrary to popular belief, friendship doesn't always last forever. Besides, why would you want to carry on a friendship with someone so rude and unforgiving?
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