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Friends I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say.
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well it seems like u are nervous... talk to them like u would talk to ne one else... tell them about ur day... talk about teachers & school work... Televison shows... etc... theres so much... if u feel like u r being ignored... try to find new friends... do this... when u see people in the halls give em a warm friendly smile... be fonfident about urself... if sum1 needs help volunteer to do it... join clubs... get involved... yeah its hard but adjusting to changes is a part of life... ]
Tell then your name and stuf you like to do and the same for then. If they are nice. If your friends ingore you then they are not really your friends ]
Just be yourself, ask them about themselves and what they like to do. Tell them more about you because it seems like they want to know more. Let them know what you feel comfortable with them knowing. ]
talk about wut u like. if you're interested in sports, try talking about that. if you like to dance or sing, try that. good luck, and just be yourself.
Me ]
Well, I'm sorry about your friends ignoring you, why are they ignoring you in the first place, thats pretty mean. But, just be yourself in front of the people you eat lunch with. Just be friendly and stuff. Just say stuff like "Well my names ____ what are your guys' names?" and just kind of go from there and just be like "I came from ____ and its so different here, like ______ and _____" and just ask them like "So, have all of you guys gone here for awhile or are some of you guys new too?" Just ask them simple questions and ask like "So, what are you guys doing this weekend?" or "What do you guys like to do for fun?" Just ask things like that and just talk. Ask them if they're on any sports and stuff. They should ask you questions too. And once you get to know them, you'll warm up to them and stuff. Just be friendly and outgoing and be positive and not too shy! =D Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney ]
juss talk! make convo be like hi my names **** anddd i juss came here from *** and they shoudl talk to you if their already trying!
*jesikuh ]
y do da friendz u alredi now ignore u?? n e way u should b urself nd find wut u hav in common w. da ppl in ur skool
good luc hun
xoxox
brunettebeauti ]
Hmm thats a tough one. Why aren't your friends you already knew ignoring you? Thats weird. Well anyway the best advice I can give you is just to be yourself. You'll make friends like that ;) good LucK! **jAmiSon** ]
if ur friends didn'thang out w/ u then they r not real friends. u need ot start somthin w/ someone!! plzz rate me!!!!
love,
andi :) ]
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