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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor? (link)
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thats how mine was. 2 or 3 days. now im on the shot and i dont get my period at all...its heaven. lol its not abnormal tho
*jesikuh
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okay well i've always told myself that i'm going to wait until marriage before i have sex... but now that i'm older and in highschool i've faced reality. and i'm not gonna kid myself. if i'm ready to have sex, i'm going to. of course i'm gonna wait for the guy i love, but still. everyone always says "wait til marriage" but in reality WHO REALLY DOES? and even if i have sex with a guy and we break up and regret it, that doesnt mean i'm gonna be depressed for the rest of my life would it? so whats the big deal? who agrees. (link)
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sex until marriage is not popular these days. people wanna go out and experiment before marriage...dont listen to other poeople and dont get pressured into doing it. do whatever you want doll. do it with some one you FULLY trust and some one your almost positive u wont regret it with. and make sure u kno he wont hit it n quit it:)
*jesikuh
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what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx (link)
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you dont i dont think? its not like ur going into battle lol
*jesikuh
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okay.. this ones for the girls obviously..well i'm 14 years old and my boobs are really weird. like the areola and nipple are blended together.. my nipple is rarely out unless im really cold! this makes them super pointy n ugly!!! is this just a stage .. will my boobs be normal when they grow a little more? sorry but i really need help with this! i HATE it! (link)
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ehh it prolly wont stay like that forever. especially when u have kids.
*jesikuh
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months and i was at his house the other day and we were getting kind of sexual... we didn't have sex or anything but we were like "dry humping" and my underwear shifted and his penis went in... it wasn't for like that long because as soon as we both felt it we like jumped apart from eachother. he said that he didn't cum but there is still the whole issue of pre cum and he might have a little bit... he didn't go in deep though it was like hardly an inch. is there a chance that he could have cummed a little bit and i could get pregnant? or does he have to go in deeper? (link)
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no way jose dont sweat it...slim to none chances
*jesikuh
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so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much! (link)
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i dunno means he liked it lol HE WANTED MORE BABY!
*jesikuh
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There are 2 guys at my school that I like but I don't know if they like me back. I feel like they are flirting with me, but I'm not sure. How do I tell the difference between just friendly conversation/actions and flirting? (link)
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ask them if they like you...easy stuff darlin!
*jesikuh
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im goen out with this kid who is older than me and i really like him he says he likes me alot too but my problem is like that for example today we were going to meet eachother somewhere and i went there and he came in after me and didnt c me at first so he started talken to a bunch of his friends...girls and guys..and in since they r older n all i dont wanna look annoying or clingy and go over and say hey but after a while i did and he was saying like, "hey u were here this whole time??" and stuff like that and i feel stupid if i dont say anything too cuz ill be like in the same room of w.e and hes over there and we arent talking or anything or if i say hi i feel dumb too. please help me if u can, thank you (link)
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talk to him about it, tell him what u juss said about u feeling embarrassed cuz their older and not ur friends
*jesikuh
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My friend is always feeling really bad about herself. Were only 14 but she thinks that there is something wrong with her because she has never been asked out or had a real boyfriend. She's always jealous of other people. I keep telling her that she can't focus on what everybody else has that she doesn't or what other people can do better than her. I try to tell her that there are so many good things about her, but she won't listen. It's frustrating to me because I want her to see what everybody else sees, a funny, creative, beautiful girl. I told her to stop feeling sorry for herself. What do I do to make her feel better about herself? How can I help her to love herself? (link)
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tell her that ur only 14 and u dont have to have a million bf's before u even like...start high school! some people juss dont have bf's until later on, it doesnt mean shes a bad person! or not good enough or anything...
*jesikuh
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i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do! (link)
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juss dont dump him, hold urself back...maybe u'll end up loving him too much to hurt him =D whatever u do, dont dump him. i have friends with the same problems i dont understand it lol
*jesikuh
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Hi well my friend is a guy and well lets say his name is allen well he's 16 and Im 15 and I stayed the night with him last night, with his sister though. But he came in her room and slept with me Im afraid we did something or not, What do I do? need help fast! (link)
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wait wait...how do u not kno if u did something...obviously if u dont kno, it didnt happen...
*jesikuh
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ive none this guy for ever and we were best friends and we slowly like moved apart cause he was older and i uset to like him and he found out so he kinda rummbed that in my face and now i think he still thinks i like him when i dont so he wont even talk to me and were at the same bus stop and i really want to be friends with hima again and hes 2 years older thhen me so if i dont talk to him this year before he goes to a new school well probley never be friends again +help me please (link)
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juss make a bigger effort to talk to him...juss go up to him at ur bus stop and be like so how have u been?!?! and make convo...
*jesikuh
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I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox (link)
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im sure u can, and no that doesnt sound stupid...ur juss not...as expirenced...lol which is good. no one needs to do a lot till their way older =D
*jesikuh
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Hey Everyone,
This is Missc and I have a question for ya'll. Ok, so there's this guy...i'll call him BoB for now so I don't get black mailed by my friends. LoL. 1) So, I REALLY REALLY like Bob! I see him everyday except for over the weekends, I find myself always trying to make him laugh, and...I really REALLY like him! So, one day at our drama rehearsal, we were laughing for the whole 2 hours of rehearsal, and by the looks of it, i thought he was flirting with me, then the next time I talk to him, he tells me that he got back together with his Ex. :( So, I'm like...well, that really sucks for me, because his Ex is one of my good friends. And it's not that I hate her now because she's dating him or anything, it's just the fact that he's with another girl. 2) So, anyways, I tell him I like him, and he says, "well we both have things to deal with, it's all good." What did he mean by that?!? 3) My other question out of the 3 is...is it right to date BoB twice, and dump him twice, and have him ask me out twice and i say "no" twice? 4) IF he wasn't with his new girlfriend, would he still like me? After all that we've been through?
Thanks you guys!
It sucks being in love.
~miSSc~ (link)
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alright darlin...
1) thats good that you like him and kno u do, but that sucks hes with his ex whos ur friend...wait it out? its ok that ur jealous thats totally normal
2)dont kno what he means by that...dont badger him about u liking him tho (i kno its hard) but he'll get annoyed...and that would suck...
3)dont kno what u mean by it but it sounds disfunctional. lol u lost me.
4)i dunno if he'd still like you cuz all guys are diff and u can never tell exactly what a guy thinks...their mysterious
i hope all ur guy troubles with BOB go away soon =(
*jesikuh
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Okay ... my boyfriend and I have never met. Hes 18 and im only 14. I love him more then anything in this entire world and would do anything for him, but my parents dont like this. They don't even know we havent met :/
Hes coming to see me soon and then hes moving down here. But the fact that hes not here gets in the way of me being happy that im with him. I feel like im stuck in place, and im just "waiting", and waiting on nothing. I know that he loves me, and that i love him but this is killing me. Should i wait it out? (link)
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obviously u met him thru the internet or something and hes 18 thats major jailbate...get a guy that lives around u thats around ur age!!!!!! and its especially bad that ur parents dont approve, bring a guy home to mommy and daddy that they'll approve of doll =D
*jesikuh
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i never see my bf at school. how do i change that? and when i see him outside of school he wont even give me a hug. plz help (link)
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well if thats the case, its prolly never gonna get better, ur prolly young so why dont u stay single and flirt and find what u'll want later on in life rather than staying with a guy who wont even talk/hang out with u..there no point in a relationship like that
*jesikuh
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I'm 15 years old and have a 20 year old brother. We are extremely close and we usually tell eachother everything. He has this girlfriend who I absolutely hate though. Everything she does is annoying and she's pretty much a slut. I feel like he can do so much better than this girl but he's supposedly 'in love'. How can I get over this grudge or tell my brother how I really feel? Should I even tell him? Even our mother doesn't like her! (link)
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talk to him about it...maybe he'll start noticing some things u and ur mom have and end the relationship before he gets hurt
*jesikuh
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There's this boy named cory that goes to my school. Hes really nice when we're alone or somethin is wrong and im pissed (like me and my "friend" got in a fight and he was there to "try" and fix it). Well anyways... I think I like him and I think he likes me, but i jus dont wanna see dumb, cuz i asked him out be4, and i usually dont do that. He is super nice, and flirts with me all the time and i of course flirt back. We spend so much time together, people are ALWAYS like, do u go 2gether. He like picks me up and carries me around and stuff. Do you think I should go with him or somethin? If u need nemore info, jus ask!! (link)
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if you like him, tell him and figure out whats goin on there!!! simple as that
*jesikuh
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Hi well my boyfriends friends come up and pinch my ass , everytime I ask them to stop they ust kiss me like Im thier own and my boyfriend lets them what do I do? (link)
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tell them to lay off and you got a man...one of my old bf's friends did that ... it was odd...
*jesikuh
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well.. i wrote the other day and i told yall that there was this guy on my bus.. and he asked me out.. and i said no.. hahaha.. cuz i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt.. and yea.. so.. me and him are cool again.. but there is this one little girl who likes him.. and everytime he is with me.. she starts talking mess about me to all her little friends.. so.. i didnt want that.. so today.. he went up to talk to me.. and he was like.. " hey.. so you gunna holla at me or wut? " and i was like.. oh.. nope.. srry.. jessie might get mad.. and he was like what?? so.. i told him she was talking mess.. and now hes mad at her.. and shes even more mad at me.. so.. i dont know what to do.. should i stop talking to him?? or what?? ill rate ya if you give good advice :) (link)
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dont stop talking to your friend cuz of some little girl. talk to the girl and be like kno what i dont appriciate u talking shit everytime i talk to MY FRIEND grow up. lol i hate girls sometimes.
*jesikuh
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