i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do!
princs answered Saturday September 4 2004, 10:18 am: I have the same problem. Maybe your afraid of commitment. Or maybe youve been hurt in the past and you dont want to get hurt again so you push people away before they have a chance to hurt you. You could be waiting for this one particular guy so you dont want to tie yourself down cause maybe subconsciously you think you'll get him.
You need to just hang on and not break up with people so fast. If you find yourself getting frustrated and you want to break up with them maybe just take a breather, dont see him for a few days, think about all the things you like about him and if you know you have feelings for him then dont let yourself break up with him!!
If none of that works then do what I do, talk to friends/family about it, you could even try talking to the guy about it. If all else fails, go to counselling. It works pretty good.
Hope I helped :)
*princs
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xBaBiiDawLx3 answered Saturday September 4 2004, 9:51 am: You can keep a boyfriend if you really want one! It could be a number of things! Maybe your not use to commitment and is afriad of it! It coudl be that deep down inside u kno he isnt the "right" one! If you really want to stay with this guy just let all things go nd' focus on how good he is and how pefect he is to you! i hope i helped [ xBaBiiDawLx3's advice column | Ask xBaBiiDawLx3 A Question ]
HaNnAhBaNaNa&SeXiLeXi answered Saturday September 4 2004, 12:43 am: sweetie if you cant keep a boyfriend... maybe you should just try the whole "friends with bennafits" deal... then thatway you dont have to be with one person and no hearts are being broken... hope we helped!!!
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jesikuh977 answered Saturday September 4 2004, 12:32 am: juss dont dump him, hold urself back...maybe u'll end up loving him too much to hurt him =D whatever u do, dont dump him. i have friends with the same problems i dont understand it lol
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday September 4 2004, 12:16 am: ur scared of commitment and thats normal but if u really like this boi think about the good things about him before breaking anything off.hoped i helped.. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
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