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Q: i have a seriouse problem with keeping a boyfriend. I have never been dumped because i always dump them so quickly! its so hard because i always wnat new guys, im never happy with just one, and i never want to hurt anyone or cheat on anyone! i have a boyfriend right now and i like him sooo much, he is perfect for me, but for some reason i want to dump him, its so hard and confusing, what should i do!

You can keep a boyfriend if you really want one! It could be a number of things! Maybe your not use to commitment and is afriad of it! It coudl be that deep down inside u kno he isnt the "right" one! If you really want to stay with this guy just let all things go nd' focus on how good he is and how pefect he is to you! i hope i helped

Q: I noe this may sound kinda stupid...but..i have neva gone down on a guy...i have done other things but not that and i was wondering if you can give head with braces..? i mean i noe its possible but what about tha wires n stuff??? PlZzZz help..Thanx! xox

First of all yea u can do it just be really careful about it! Second of all do u really want to do this wit this guy? I went to the health department the other day nd' they was telling me stories bout girls giving head and they said one girl came in and she had a mouth full of herpes nd' genital warts all around her mouth and in her throat! They told her theere was really nothing they can do cuz wants its in your mouth its very hard to control or do nethang bout it! Just be safe cuz i do care! i hope i helped

Q: i was wondering if me and my bestfriend should go out. we liked eachother befour but we didnt know we liked eachother.Are friendship is unstopable.mybe it could work out as boyfriend and girl friend.could it?

I would say go for it! Because yall both know what eachother is like nd' just trust him nd' believe in him and things should go well! Dont let little things ruin the relationship and friendship! Good luck! i hope i helped!

Q: there is this guy that i really like but i have only really seen him like 4 times but i talk 2 him online and on the phone alot and i think he is really sweet and want 2 do stuff wit him but i don't know if i should go over 2 him house or what cuz i can drive and he can 2 but he got in an accident a few days ago so his car is totaled but he also said he doesn't wanna go out he just wants 2 b friends wit benefits which is cool wit me. but do u think i would seem desperate if i call him cuz he doesn't call me alot now cuz of being in the accident so he doesn't have much time. should i call him or go 2 his house or something ? help

Dont be afraid to call him.. it wont make u look desperate! I dont know about going over to his house though i mean do u really know what this guy is like or about? Not all guys seem to be the way they say they are *im saying this from experience, and im still hurting over it* just be really careful okay cuz i dont want wat happened to me to happen to you! Be safe nd' have fun! I hope i helped!

Q: i have a lowered s-10 truck and i was wondering if goin over sped bumps and hole and stuff will it tear up the bottom or do something else 2 the bottom and is there nething else i should that could posable do 2 my truck thanks alot

Yea it can mess up the bottom if you aren't careful.. just go slow over them types of things! You should be alright.. becuz where i live everyone has the lowered s-10 trucks everywhere! So just be careful over speed bumps and holes nd' dips also! i hope i helped!

Q: Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do?

Just tell your mom how u feel! I know how u feel! My mom is the same way.. becuz i like blk guys and im white nd' she doesnt approve of it either! But i knew one day i had to tell her! She still doesnt like it.. but she supports what ever makes me happy! Hopefully your mom will to! Hes only half mexican so it cant be that bad! Just tell ur mom that you really like this guy nd' hes really sweet to you nd' treats you good! i hope i helped!

Q: I'm almost 15 years old, and I'm female. I've always been very open about myself. Recently i found myself attracted to both boys AND girls, and I want to be open about it. My parents are very supportive, but how do i make the bashers at school leave me alone, if and when i DO come out to them? I want to show GAY PRIDE!

Just come out with it! Let the "bashers" hate! You do what makes u happy nd' comfortable! I say do it! Only your true friends will understand nd' support you to! I support you! i hope i helped

Q: Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not

I say go with him! Don't worry bout what others say! There will always be haters nd' ppl who dont agree with what you do everywhere u go! Just do what makes u happy nd' makes u feel comfortable! Im talking to a guy now who is a grade younger than me! Ppl just need to grow up! Ur mature.. you know what to do! I hope i helped

Q: ok...my step-dad is VERY VERY VERY VERY racist....its so annoying...and niether my mom or dad or step-sister or step-bro are racist at all...and he just talks about n*gg*r this and n*gg*r that ans it just gets so annoying and no matter how we all tell him how annoying it is and how he needs 2 stop he just goes "well thats my opinion...blah blah blah" and we tell him we dont care about his opinion so much that he has 2 tell us a million times and its just so annoying but im not racist at all and i just hate it when he or anyone talks bad about anyone....its just so annoying...and its not like u can talk 2 him cuz hes so opinionated he doesnt listen 2 anyone....what do i do...i cant stand it when he gets on one of his talk things and we r all yelling at him and he wont stop.....help!!

Well.. maybe he was raised that way! Some people are raised to be racist while others arent! When he starts being that way just walk away or try tot change the subject! Some of my family members are like that too, becuz im white nd' i date blk boys! But just walk away or try to change the subject nd' talk bout something else like skool or some type of thing u wanna go do! I hope i helped!

Q: Hey, My name is Megan, and i'm 15. I've always been treated pretty bad in school. I don't think i'm fat or ugly, but everyone calls me ugly. I don't know why they would say things to hurt me, and it makes me feel bad all the time, though I try to hide it. Today at lunch, someone gave me a joke love letter of someone I know asking me to homecomming. (The one who gave me the note hates me) When I opened it, a fry with ketchup on it fell on my white skirt, and ruined it. They all laughed it up, while a friend of mine yelled at them. I don't understand why people do the things they do to me, I try to ignore them, but you know, it hurts. I just wish people at my school would treat me like a human. I'm not mean to people, i'm nice. I don't talk about people I keep to myself...what is wrong with me?

They only do that to make themselves feel better! You only have a few more years to go, dont worry bout wat they think! Your education is far more important! Ive been in your situation to! I just let go of it..and let them know what they said bout me didn't bother me.. after awhile they stopped, they got to know me! Now im friends with everyone! When u get older you will meet new people out there and there will be people who accept you for who u are! I hope i helped you! Id like to continue to talk to you! My sn is x BaBii DawL x3 im me whenever you want to! I hope I helped! Good Luck

Q: okay well see im going to the movies with my 2 bestfriends and they are bringing their boyfriends!! see i dont have one so i feel left out what is a good way to get someone to like you?

Just always be yourself! No guys wants a fake girl! If you have a great personality it will be no problem! If you can't get a date find a really good guy friend to take to! I hope i helped!

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Hi! My name is Mandi, I can give really great advice to everyone and anyone! Im 16 yrs. old soon to be 17 and Im a junior in highschool! I love to help people! So feel free to ask anything!!! Rate me if you can also, but you don't have to either.. its more important for me to answer ur questions than anything!