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ok...my step-dad is VERY VERY VERY VERY racist....its so annoying...and niether my mom or dad or step-sister or step-bro are racist at all...and he just talks about n*gg*r this and n*gg*r that ans it just gets so annoying and no matter how we all tell him how annoying it is and how he needs 2 stop he just goes "well thats my opinion...blah blah blah" and we tell him we dont care about his opinion so much that he has 2 tell us a million times and its just so annoying but im not racist at all and i just hate it when he or anyone talks bad about anyone....its just so annoying...and its not like u can talk 2 him cuz hes so opinionated he doesnt listen 2 anyone....what do i do...i cant stand it when he gets on one of his talk things and we r all yelling at him and he wont stop.....help!!
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I'm not black or white but I know that what people say is takin' wrong because I've been accused of calling my friend an n*gg*r,but I'm not racist.Just tell him that what he says can be tooken wrong and you dont like that he says what he says.If he gets mad tell him that you dont want to fight but you dont want him to say nigro around you or your family or friends because you dont like it.
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go on a little strike. For every racist thing he says dont talk to him for a day. Tell him your doing this, even if he tells you he doesnt care or it doesnt bother him ,trust me it will get to him when hes looking for something or needs to know something. He'll get ticked off and maybe wont change his mind but atleast he'll stop saying it in front of you. sadly some racist people will never change their minds all that easily, because it seems you tried everything. But i could research and ask around about how to get people to be more excepting, if you want that sort of help send one to my inbox.
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sorry if this affends you in any way but-> I hate people like that he sounds very closed minded and stubborn-> but he needs to realize hes being an tell him to shut up for a secound and listen to you and say something like you know dad<-or whatever you call him->it really annoys me how hateful you are you dont really think of people as being equal even tho they are you just hate everyone thats different then you its not right and if you are going to continue to be like this I will get up and leave the room whenever you start to talk about something rude about people of other races
<-hope I helped...dancergal->
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just ignore what ever he says about "niggers". Its his opinion what he thinks about people. Just like you have your opinion of how annoying he must be. Just go to your room and lock your door. try blasting music so he can get the point. If that dont work tell him if he dont stop talking like that then say your going to live with a grandparent and its wrecking the household.
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Well.. maybe he was raised that way! Some people are raised to be racist while others arent! When he starts being that way just walk away or try tot change the subject! Some of my family members are like that too, becuz im white nd' i date blk boys! But just walk away or try to change the subject nd' talk bout something else like skool or some type of thing u wanna go do! I hope i helped!
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