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Bi-sexual? Or just confused?
I'm almost 15 years old, and I'm female. I've always been very open about myself. Recently i found myself attracted to both boys AND girls, and I want to be open about it. My parents are very supportive, but how do i make the bashers at school leave me alone, if and when i DO come out to them? I want to show GAY PRIDE!
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I hope you are very happy being Bi-Sexual. U have my support too. Be open about it. The bashers at school shouldnt care if u r or rnt. Its not up to them to tell u to be or not to be. You be yourself and not what others want u to be.
Christine
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Hi, this is a very hard position to be in right now......i think if nd wen u do come out 2 them that tha only thing u can really do is ignore the bashers at scool...i no itz hard but if u do maby they'll get tired of it nd stop......u never no maby they wont even care at all!!!!
I really hope i helped, advigurl1020
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There is a difference between pride and force. Don't go around with a big rainbow on your chest and say HEY- I"M BI. That would just be stupid. It's not even about gay bashing...it's about forcing people to learn everything. People will be a whole lot more open to it, if you don't go around mentioning in every other sentence ...I'm bi. I have a habit of doing it with my vegetarianism...and it's become a bother to some people. So that is my advice. Be proud of who you are. Don't flaunt it. People who know you, and love you will know...and they'll be okay with it. :D
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Maybe your just going through a phase most girls do.... but if you really are bi sexual then you shouldn't hide it! Scream it loud and say it proud that your Bi! As long as your happy that is all that matters! And as for them the "bashers" at your school if they give you a problem then tell them to screw themselves because your who you are!
-Katie
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Well, I have a friend who is bi and a lot of gay and lesbian friends, it's really a common thing tho some people don't see it all that much. A lot of people hate me and my friends cuz they are bi and gay and i don't care. If and when you tell people about yourself you need to realize, people WILL in fact hate you, whether it's right or wrong they will and before you do tell people you need to make sure you'll be able to accept it. All i can say to deal with those people is to keep your head held high and go on with your life. Eventually, they'll go on with theirs. And if they don't, there's always teachers, principals, adult figures in general, If you ever feel even the slightest bit unsafe in your school you go to an adult figure and talk about it. You should always feel safe in school..ALWAYS! I'm glad you wanna tell people about it but you need to make sure you'll be ready for the reactions of people. If you lose friends over it, they were NOT good friends, and hey you probably will i'm like the only friend of my friends who are gay because their other friends sucked. Always be proud of who you are no matter how many people might dislike who you are. Good luck hope i helped. :)
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If your bi then that is kool ignore those idiots at skool who cares wat they say and ne ways most guys in the world are attractive to that shyt so it will be all good
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Just come out with it! Let the "bashers" hate! You do what makes u happy nd' comfortable! I say do it! Only your true friends will understand nd' support you to! I support you! i hope i helped
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