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Q: Ok. I'm 14 and I resently had sex with a guy I had never met before. He was around 21. I have rented a book over being pregnant and I have all the symptoms. I took the pregnancy test and sure enough I am. Well anyways I don't know who he is and i'm really scared. I don't know how to tell my parents and I want him to be there when I tell them! Well if you can help me or give me ideas to tell them and find him...Please HELP!!!
I rate 5's on every one
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well sweetie.. it looks to me that you have a problem. Just tell your parents what you told us. They might yell .. but its okay because in the end they will be there for.. instead of not telling them and being alone in this. I know your really scared. Im 15 and im pregnant, im scared too. As for the father of baby.. I dont want to sound rude but he might not be there for you. There are plenty of single mothers out there as we speak.. I think you and the baby would be better off without the father. Hes 21 years old.. and he probably sleeps around for fun.. most guys do. But you dont want to get mixed up in that sorta thing.. it would be to much stress on you and the baby.
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Q: is there anyway i can like my my vagina better for when i get fingerd....like not to make the guy grossed out lol
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Sweetie there is no way you can make your vagina better for the guy. Believe me.. the guy isnt going to think your vagina is gross. Maybe trim your hair up alittle .. and so you dont smell .. clean down there very good.
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Q: i'm 14/f i got my period when i was 10. i kno thats young. these past few days i've been getting LOTS of white stuff come out of my *area* and i haven't had my period for i think 1 and a half months? my boobs are getting smaller too i think. i'm not sure. i'm a virgin. i don't know whats happening anybody know?
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hunnie.. that white stuff is called Discharge. its prefectly normal for every girl to get dischange. The reason you might have skipped a period is because of Stress. Its prefectly normal and there is nothing to worry about.
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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
x o Me o x
Gender- female
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Okay sweetie. Just because your friend is going to have sex with a boy this February doesn't mean you have to do it also. But if you really want to then its your decision. Oh and you want to do it with your friend's eX. Well I think that if you do do it with your friend's eX she will find out anyways. SO just do it when you think your ready. Plus if your a real good friend then you should tell her yourself of what your planning on doing. Take Care.
-Katie-
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Q: I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?
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Well i think you should sit your boyfriend down and talk to him about what he wants to do in your realationship.... sometimes you just have to give him time, maybe he isn't ready for anything more just right now.... i know my boyfriend seems to want to just do the same thing (hug, kiss, hold hands, and cuddle) well it seems that way but you or i won't really know unless we ask and fine out for ourselves! Well keep me updated on whats going on.... Good luck :)
-Katie-
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Q: My friend does drugs.... i don't know if i should help her or not? What if she doesn't listen to me? help me please with my problem!
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Well this is what you do... you talk to your friend about her problem and if she still doesn't listen to you and doesn't get into her head that drugs can kill her! Then you should go to her parents and if you a real true friend then you would do this for her.... she needs you and she will thank you after she is done yelling at you! lol she will thank you!
-Katie-
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Q: Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
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Well i think you should tell your boyfriend what you did and not keep anything from him!! He is your boyfriend and to have a realationship with someone you should not lie or keep any secrets even something like this! Just tell him and tell him your sorry and if he really loves you like he says he does then he will forgive you! Good Luck
-Katie-
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Q: during any type of sexual activities, how long is it supposed to take before a guy has an "orgasm"? i think i have a problem, because in less than a minute i already bust. whats wrong?
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its normal, you have nothing to worry about!
-Katie-
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Q: i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13
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No there isn't anything wrong with you... the time you must worry is if your 15 and you still didn't get your period yet! But your perfectly fine!
-Katie-
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Q: umm do you have a boyfriend? what do you and him talk about and what keeps your love burning?
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Yes i have a boyfriend, we have been together for 1 month and a half. You ask what do we talk about? well i talk to him about anything i feel i want to ask, tell, or say to him! And what keeps our love burning? Well i guess it is the fact that we would do anything for eachother and we both love eachother so much! I am just myself around him and you should be to if you have a boyfriend. Boys don't like fakes... they like YOU for YOU! So that is a clue to be YOURSELF around your man!
-Katie-
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Q: How old do you have to be to have sex?
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Well really any age.... but you don't want to lose your virginaty at the age of 5 or 6! Thats just gross.... but i take it your not 5 or 6! When you think your ready then i guess you can have sex. But if i were you i would probably wait til your about.... 17 or 18 because then you can decide if your old enough and wise enough to have sex for the first time!
-Katie-
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Q: ok well im going to lucnh with a boy today idont kno wut to talk to him about plz give me alotta ideas i dont wanna bore him!! hes sweet cute and popular!! plz help ill rate a 5!
signed- confused
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Well Confused....
This is what you do.... be yourself and ask him how his day was so far! Just see what he is interested in and ask him about it! Don't be neverous and be yourself! Ask him questions that your interested in to know about him!
*I hope i helped
-Katie-
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Q: I have an older cousin and i am sorta jealous of her in a way because she is more popular and beautiful then me and plus older! I want to be JUST like her! how?
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Well first of all.... your special in your own little way and you dont need to be like someone but yourself! who cares if she is more popular then you? the only way she is, is because she is older and has probably been in your position before! Now about the beauty... your beautiful on the inside and that is ALL that matters! And for the older part.... you can't do anything about that sweetie.... she is always going to be older then you and you will always be younger! So that you will have to deal with! I hope i helped
-Katie-
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Q: well i asked you about my boyfriend cheating on me from the other day! Well my friend saw a girl at his house! What do i do?
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Well this is what you do.... not make a plan to walk in on them together in bed! Maybe he is cheating on you but then again he could have a tutor for school or maybe it was a friend of the familys! Just talk to him about it and clam down everything will be just fine!
-Katie-
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Q: Now i think my boyfriend is cheating on me! How can i find out...? Should i ask him or should i have a friend of mine to watch him? What should i do? We have been together for 1 month and everything was fine... so i thought! Then all the time i am around him he is never the same! Like he is doing something behind my back! What should i do?
Thanks
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To really find out if your boyfriend is a cheater NEVER EVER have some one watch him for you, because they might be the one he is cheating on you with! Be a really women and find out yourself if your man is a cheater or not! Go to him and ask him yourself! Hey who knows maybe the real reason he is being weird around is probably because he has something planned for you because the holidays are coming up!
-Katie-
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Q: There is this guy I like, and its like taking over my life.. all the sudden thats all i think about, its crazy! I can't conentrate anymore, even when I'm with my friends.. i dont pay any attention to them. I haven't told anybody that I like him. But how can I stop thinking at him ALL the time? -- Love *Melissa*
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Well Melissa there is really know way to stop thinking about this guy! Just try your hardest to slow your mind down alittle! I was like that with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago when i started going out with him and then it just slowed down and now i only think about him alittle bit.... but you like this boy alot and your mind is telling you to tell him that you have feelings for him or you will keep thinking about it OVER AND OVER again! I hope i helped
-Katie-
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Q: my boyfriend tells me how much he loves me about everyday and i feel the same but i think hes tryin to make me break up with him...always tellin me about other girls and them kissin him and its juss soo rude! what do i do?
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I think you should tell him about how you feel because it is not a good thing to feel that your boyfriend is lieing to you about loving you! My ex boyfriend was like that and he pushed me to the limit that i did break up with him and then he tried to get me back! It is just a game that some guys play on there girlfriends just to be entertained by the fact they are lieing to you and your beleiving him! So my advice to you is to just talk to him and if you really love him then you would do this! Set him straight...... talk to your man!
-Katie-
Good luck
.....if you need anything else just ask me!
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Q: what is the game seven minutes in heaven and how do you play it
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Here is how you play and what you need to play!
Things you'll need:
A bunch of people to play
A dark room or closet
A time-keeping device (watch, stopwatch, clock, etc.)
How to play:
Seven Minutes in Heaven can be played many different ways... and in fact can be used as the 'reward/punishment' phase of many other kissing games.
At its most basic, Seven Minutes in Heaven is played by putting 2 people in a dark room or closet for 7 minutes. That's it. Pretty simple, huh?
How you select the people is up to you... you can draw names out of a hat, roll dice, play spin-the-bottle... the possibilities are endless. The important thing is that 2 people end up together in a dark space... then let the heaven begin!
As an added bonus, everyone left OUTSIDE the room can keep themselves occupied as well... heaven for everybody!
-Katie-
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Q: Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...
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I don't know if you want to here this but this is what i think and this is sorta the truth! I have a friend that does drugs and once you start you really can't stop doing them. So to your pot-head crush he probably won't be able to stop doing pot if he has done it for so long! And for the, should you or shouldn't you give him a chance, i think you would probably be wasting your time trying to change him from being a pot-head to an innocent boy that doesn't do drugs. I think you should probably forget about him because there is someone else out there that is better for you! And plus if you do give him a chance there is also a good chance that if you and him are in a fight and he has been doing pot and get mad at you, you might not make it out with out any bruises.... i've dated one before and that is what happened and i don't want that happening to you!
-Katie-
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Q: I dont know if this is love life or friendship but I have a huge crush on here and he dosnt know it I want to tell him but Im afraid, I dont know if he knows me , what do I do I really need help , my heart pounds everytime I visit his coulmn, what do I do?!!!!
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Well get his screen name and talk to him on AIM or YAHOO and get to know him more! Once you think the time is right to tell him you have a crush on him then tell him!
-Katie-
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bio
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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.
ABC's about ME!
Age: 15
Birthday: 01/16
Color: Red and Pink
Dream Guy: Heath Ledger
Eyes: baby blue
Fears: being alone in the dark and heights
Greatest love: Victor
Hair Color: Blonde
Intrests: sexy boys, cheerleading, and PARTIES
Joys in Life: see above
Kisses or Hugs?: X's and O's
Love Life: Taken and happy
Music: country, rap, r&b and other
Name: ::*::*:Katelyn:*::*::
Obsession: skaters, music, fire, shopping (not in that order)
Preference: Guys
Question: Why label me when you dont have a label yourself?
Role Model: Paris Hilton
School: MP
Talent: erm...I'll get back to you on that one...
Uniqueness: I love to stand out in the crowd...so i'll try anything once
Very Best Friends: Madeline, Kelsey, Cassie, Meagan, Michel, Brittany, Jasmine, Kayla, Jessica, Heidi, and Amanda
Worst Thing I've Done: ...well, there was this one time...
Xtra Sturf 'Bout Me: I'm 5'4 I love to party and when your with me you will have a REALLL great time!
Yum-Yumz in Mah Tum-Tum: I love CHOCOLATE, smoothies, and strawberries! I really LOVE Chocoalte covered strawberries
Zodiac Sign: Capircorn
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: Mount Pleasant High School Student Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 2, 2004 Answers: 224 Last Update: November 1, 2005 Visitors: 16132
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