Question Posted Saturday October 30 2004, 11:23 am
Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...
*~HotteeTS~* answered Saturday October 30 2004, 2:53 pm: Okay, this is what I think... if you stay with this pt head you can get yourself into big trobl! If you forget about him... yes you're losng your boyfriend but wouldn't you rather have that then risking getting in big trouble. [ *~HotteeTS~*'s advice column | Ask *~HotteeTS~* A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Saturday October 30 2004, 2:33 pm: The chances are that once you get involved with this guy then a) you'll find it hard to get out of it and b) you yourself might get into drugs too. You could give him a chance, yeah, but people who are addicted to stuff find it really hard to give up. No matter what it is, nail biting or drugs. If you take a chance and get it together with this dude, then you might get dragged down with him. Ultimately, you have to do what your heart tells you. It sounds stupid but it's true. If you really think that you could make things work with him then go for it but you have to be prepared for there to be trouble. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
GroverTheStoNer answered Saturday October 30 2004, 2:26 pm: He's wasting his own life! I wouldn't even bother with him. If you really want to, you can talk to him. I just wouldn't because he doesn't sound very smart for doing drugs. Do what you wanna do.
*Randy T* [ GroverTheStoNer's advice column | Ask GroverTheStoNer A Question ]
pinklemonadestand answered Saturday October 30 2004, 2:19 pm: I don't know if you want to here this but this is what i think and this is sorta the truth! I have a friend that does drugs and once you start you really can't stop doing them. So to your pot-head crush he probably won't be able to stop doing pot if he has done it for so long! And for the, should you or shouldn't you give him a chance, i think you would probably be wasting your time trying to change him from being a pot-head to an innocent boy that doesn't do drugs. I think you should probably forget about him because there is someone else out there that is better for you! And plus if you do give him a chance there is also a good chance that if you and him are in a fight and he has been doing pot and get mad at you, you might not make it out with out any bruises.... i've dated one before and that is what happened and i don't want that happening to you!
RedNeckShOrTy answered Saturday October 30 2004, 2:03 pm: It depends. If him being a pot-head doesnt bother you then give him a chance. But if you can't get past the idea of him doing pot than forget him. I know one of my friends who is dating a guy who does drugs. The guy is nice and she dont mind that he does drugs. if you like him then give him a chance. If you dont like dating him b/c he does drugs then forget him. But at least give him a chance before you turn him down. I hope I helped!
taking_back_sunday_09 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:51 pm: I think you should give up on him. If he's flawless then he wouldn't be wasting his future like this. There are a few things that can happen when you're around him while he's high or in possession, like getting arrested. It's best not to mess with guys like this. [ taking_back_sunday_09's advice column | Ask taking_back_sunday_09 A Question ]
xhurleybabiix answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:45 pm: I think you should give him a chance..even though he's a pothead, he could change, anyone can change. It is hard for someone to stop drugs and crap..but if you think it would work out, give it a try. [ xhurleybabiix's advice column | Ask xhurleybabiix A Question ]
XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:44 pm: if you really like him then you should give him a chance... and if he keeps smokin pot and gettin high and you dont like it then you should break up with him. Just see how it goes first. If he offers you pot.......... dont take it! lol! Well good luck! <3Juliet<3 [ XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7's advice column | Ask XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 A Question ]
SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:28 pm: You should forget him... if you really like him... be friends with him first... and try to help him... if he quits... than u can date him... but if he doesnt... it's best not to get involved wit him... [ SoNuLiCiOuSsS's advice column | Ask SoNuLiCiOuSsS A Question ]
XxRockon answered Saturday October 30 2004, 1:09 pm: well if u can see the better things about him then u cud persue him. But i personally think that u shud go for another guy. this guy is dangerious and if u got ivloved wit him he cud try and persuade u to do pot and he mite succeeed in since ur yunger than him, unless u were strong and stood up for urself. Basically..i think that u shud try and go for another guy..there are so many great ones and it wud b better i think to find one who doesn't do drugs [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
ninik answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:52 pm: Goget him man he's obviously not good for you...pot-heads that keep smoking weed are just troubled guys in life...unless you really like him I suggest you to give him an other chance just don't go with him when he goes and takes blunts and stuff just try it out and if it doesn't work well you know...sry [ ninik's advice column | Ask ninik A Question ]
Newyork89 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 12:50 pm: Well, he isn't flawless. I don't think you want to get involved with him. I know most people at school do pot but it's not cool to be around them. They have no idea what they're doing, so if he were to tell you he loves you, it might have been the pot. [ Newyork89's advice column | Ask Newyork89 A Question ]
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