Two of my best friends aren't speaking to eachother.My one friend is mad at the other because she's real popular and since she has so many friends, she ignores her.But she dosen't get to see many of her friends so it's hard for her.And if I agree with her then my other friend will get upset.And when they aren't fighting they disclude me!I tried talking to them but she dosen't get it.I can't stand them not speaking to eachother.What do I do?
Hey! Thats weird cause im in the same situation lol. My best friend is sort of getting conceided because so many boys like her and so many people want to be her friend. It's very annoying and she barely has time for me anymore. I don't really blame your one friend for being mad at her because it is very upsetting especially when you're really good friends. I think you should talk to them both, it's not great advice I know but it works. Just invite them somewhere, like the movies, or invite them both over, and maybe they'll become friends again. Good luck! Rate me!
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my friend says she is always excluded but thats not true and its really annoying when i go to ride my bike with some friends and she gets upset cuz we did not invite her well she lives to far away and does not know how to ride a bike this is a really bothering me what should i do to make her see she is never excluded???
Maybe you and the people your hanging out with are really good friends to her. She probably feels like shes unwanted. Everyone gets left out at times, but maybe you and you're friends should nvite her somewhere so she'll see you guys don't try to exclude her. Im sure you've been excluded too and nobody enjoys it. It sounds to me that all she wants to do is hang out with her friends and theres nothing wrong with that. Im not saying you should never ride your bike again but if you want your friend to be happy, I really think you should do other things too and invite her.
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alright this might be long so be prepared.
last year i was friends with like EVERYONE but this year people are telling me how much i've changed and stuff. i didn't even notice it until they told me. now it seems like i'm pushing everyone away and i honestly don't mean to. it's like i can be fine talking to a person one second, then all the sudden i'll remember something they did and i'm annoyed. a couple minutes ago i was listing the people i talk to regularly and stuff, and i think i only got up to like 20 people and theres 600 students in my grade. it seems like im being a fake person than what i really am and lately i've been kind of depressed like everythings going wrong. so i guess my question really is what are some ways i can get back to my original self and maybe regain some of my friends that i used to have
wow! thats weird!I had the exact same problem.My friends were all falling apart and they always talked about me and said i changed. I dont know how I got through it cause it hurt really bad and I kno how you feel.I dont really know what to say but just try to be thankful for what you have and just try to be yourself around your friends.If you do that for a while and their still bein that way then they arent your friends cause a friend will like you for who you are no matter what.Oh yea and remember this..people dont change.. it just takes a little while to realize who they really are! hope i helped!
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Okay.. i have had a secret that only my really good friends know but im not going to tell what it is. Well, in skool one day this kid chase shouted it out loud and everyone looked at me. I asked him who said it and he said it was my bestfriend! Well she promised she didnt do it so i forgave her and she told me my other friend jade said it.. but now i heard that this girl that i really dont like her name is shelby she told 2 of my friends that didnt know and i didnt even tell shelby about it my other friend shannon did. Today we were in s/s and my other friend amanda told me she said it! Im just so confused! should i be mad at all these people or should i just let it go?? please help!
I dont think they are really your friends if they did that to you but i think if u have anymore secrets dont tell anyone unless you kno for sure that noone would tell. You should just let it go for now but dont let it happen again!
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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Well i dont think she is a true friend if shes gonna get mad at you for something that silly.. but i think you shouldnt go out with the guy justin.. just tell him u want to be friends just for now.Hope i helped!
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Ok this is gonna be long- ish, but I hope at least a few ppl at least read it. Here goes...
Alright, the boy I like, Nick and me were like friends-ish last year. Like we would talk and joke around after classes and stuff and I was majorly crushing him. Hes adorable and funny and REALLY smart and nice and has this laid-back, sarcastic kind of sense of humor. But he hangs out with the nerds, kind of, so it felt like he was within my league.
So we come back to school this year, and he isnt in any of my classes except band, and he plays another instrument so i have no reason to talk to him or anything. I have told myself to just stop likeing him, its useless, etc. But I CANT STOP! I havent spoken a word to him since last year, but I cant get him off my mind. I am pretty sure he knows i like him, since i check him out alot (:-D)and he catches me. BUt I figure if he hasnt done anything about it, he doesnt like me back. So whats the point? But yet, sometimes I see him looking at me. Its really weird. I cant get up the nerve to ask him out :( i was thinking maybe I should slip a note in his locker?? BUT IM TOO FRUCKING NERVOUS! I think that his kind of humor, around his friends, would make it SO easy to make fun of me if he thought I was stalker-ish or whatever. I need help... I need help... :(
ok i would say to start talking to him if u really like him.... when your in band say hello and say how was your summer and talk about what u did. Then after a while you should ask him what hes doin on a certain day and just ask him if he would want to hang out sometime but not on a date. If you keep talkin to him and hanging out with him then he will start to like you and he will get to kno you better. When i started to read your letter i thought he sounded really nice and i dont think he sounds like an ignerant person that wouldnt want to hang out with you. So just try to start talkin to him and hangin out with him and you'll get to know eachother. Good luck!
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Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...
if you really like him then you should give him a chance... and if he keeps smokin pot and gettin high and you dont like it then you should break up with him. Just see how it goes first. If he offers you pot.......... dont take it! lol! Well good luck!
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Okay, school is really stressful, DUH!! But this year I've decided no more bad grades for me and I'm starting off fresh this year. I'm going to get good grades, thats my goal. But I don't have the energy or excitement or whatever you want to call it to do my homework and sometimes even school work. I'm very organized. I just want to get good grades. Any ideas? I'm graduating in like almost 2 years. I want to make it the best.
If you want good grades you NEED to do all your homework and turn in all your work. I dont do very well on tests and quizzes but my teachers always raise my grade alot when i turn in all my work cuz its a big part of your grade. Study when you have tests or quizzes and pay attention so you know whats going on. If your still not doin well then you should ask the teacher if you can do extra credit. If you do all these things you'll get a good grade. Hope I helped and good luck!
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my boyfriend of one year has told me that he wants to take a "break" from me and he wants space. I didnt have a problem with it at first until he started to be mean to me and not wanting me to call him. He says we used to argue alot and he feels if we take a "break" it will make our relationship better when we get back 2 gether. i love him and miss him and i dont understand why he's being soo mean and why he expects me to act as if i dont care
HELP ME PLEASE
I think you should just leave him alone for a while... and just dont talk to him unless he asks you a question. He'll come around sometime... they always do! lol
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What the hell is with these people that spell things that are supposed to be a g with a q? And what the hell is with the double "i"? Like some people have II went to a place where you could eat iicecream "seriiously" what the heck is up with that? Don't you people know how to spell?
haha... well some people try to look cool when their typin online. so they write ii am qoin to the movies lol or somethin like that.
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Well.. First of all me and this guy have been "dating" for about 2 months.. And well we are truly in love I mean you have NO IDEA!! And I really really like him SOO much and we are just like the best couple ever... And WELL Yesterday he told me that he kissed another girl!! And I donno what to do.. I mean he said he didnt feel anything and he regreated it and I mean he told me himself what he did... But I donno what to do b cuz i mean I love him soo much.. and YAH!! I don't kno if i should be mad or what.. So will SoMeOnE PLZ JUST HELP ME!!!
Don't be mad about it. If you really love him then you should give him another chance cuz everyone makes mistakes and you might regreat breaking up with him but if it happens again i would break up with him if i were you. Good luck!
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ok so theres this boy thats like 4'7 or sumthing in 7th grade and im like 5'7 in the same grade....(i just turned 13) and he supposedly likes me, but is too shy to tell me cuz he thinks...i dunno wut he thinks! anyways, hes so cute(like a little baby) and i have this thing that when i find out that ppl like me, i feel like i like them too, even if i dont...i wanna go out with him, but at the same time, i dont.... i dont wanna be going out with a guy so much shorter than me cuz i wont b able to kiss him and hug him and sutff...sorry this question is so long, but i need advice....thanx mucho
Height difference doesn't matter. If you really like him then you shouldn't care what people think.The only think that matters is that your happy. Hope I helped!
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you!
This has happened to me before... yeah that is really wrong but dont let it effect you. Your friend was wrong for doing that to you but dont hate her for it. There are more guys out there and you'll find him... and none of your friends would be able to take him. So just remember... theres more fish in the sea. Hope I helped and good luck at finding that special person lol!!
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my best freind Tina and i have been best freinds sicne we were 4 and we're so close! well she and i became freinds w/ this girl kaylinn and at first her and tina were really close but a couple months later they got into a huge fight and hate eachother...now im caught in the middle...i would pick my bestfrind over kaylinn cuz i've known tina for ever but im not gunna just drop kaylinn. i dont want enemies! anyway i really dont kno what to do so if theres any tips feel free to say them
Im in the same situation my two bestfriends are in a fight and its really hard for me becuz if i want to invite one somewhere the other one will be upset becuz they just cant be together.. but the best think to do is try to hang out with them both equally so their feelings wont get hurt. Be friends with both of them and dont get involved cuz one will end up bein mad at you.If your startin to get invovled then tell both of them that its between them and you dont want to be enimies with either one of them cuz their your good friends. Well hope I helped!
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Sorry it's so long, but I think I might to need to tell a teacher or somebody, can you help me?
A friend told me earlier today, she made me pinky swear that I wouldn't tell a guidence counciler or anything... well she told me she's cutting, or like that she wants to start.
Then by 3rd period... 3rd block, whatever you call it, she said she talked to a friend and said that she decided she doesn't want to cut... I don't think she started, just she talked about wanting to cut, and she said she was suicidal, because she couldn't stand living with her mom, her parents are divorced, and he mom won't let her live with her dad, and her mom won't go to court & let her choose what she wants to do.
Can she change her mind from being suicidal, to having talked to somebody that fast, or should I tell one of my teachers... I have a teacher that I know I can tell anything to. What she made me promise is not to tell anyone, like from guidence or anything.
So what I'm asking is
1.)Is she really over it?
2.)Would I be breaking the promise (I don't care if I am or not, I just want to know if I'm breaking it. if I tell the teacher I mean.)
3.)And Should I tell the teacher?
(she told me around 7am, then around 12ish she told me she talked to a friend and won't cut, and doesn't think she's suicidal. She seemed happy when she told me.)
Thanks for all the help in advance, I appreciate all answers, even if they're rude.
tell her that he has a long life ahead of her and she should be thankful.Tell her that cutting herself is very serious and she could die. If she doesnt listen to you then you should get her help. Tell a teacher or her mom or someone that could get her help and get her to stop what she is doing to herself.You sound like a good friend and this is the right thing to do. This is what a good friend would do. Hope I helped!
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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship!
If I were you I would stop writing notes to him and screaming that you love him some guys are really immature like that.. they don't understand how a girl feels and he will get embarrassed and start sayin mean things. I know becuz i've been in the same situation before. Im not saying you can't still like him but you should just keep it to yourself. If he doesn't like you then there are more fish in the sea..I hope I helped!
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I know this is long, but PLEASE READ! I need help! Thanks you very much!
Hello, I'm a 14 year old girl, Freshman. Last Saturday I went to the Homecoming dance and I danced with this guy... lets call him John, 14. (I knew nothing about him!) We had a great time and he asked me out... I said yes...
Well I went back to school and everyone found out! All the other guys that like me (who are my friends) seemed mad and sad at me. One of of my friends... Dan... asked me to go with him to the dance a few weeks ago, but I didn't because a lot of other guys asked...
I felt bad today because I figured out... 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8... or so guys liked me all together... I feel so bad... everyone seems mad at me... and I cryed today at lunch in front of all those guys... (they tried to cheer me up)
Also today... one of the guys... Tim... gave me a letter saying he loved me and he cried because I was going out with someone else and I felt so embarrassed... and sad... also Dan told me he loved me yesterday trying to get me back... he wants me back....... (he said, "Will I ever get a chance to go out with you?).... that also made me cry....
I have no idea what to do... Tim wants me to break up with John and Dan wants me, but I'm going to the movies this weekend with John (maybe) and I was planning on kissing him.....
PLEASE someone help me... I'm so confused...
Wow! This seems dramatic! well if you really like this guy and you think he is the right one for you then stay with him and don't let other people ruin it for you. If you think that there are better guys out there for you then you shouldn't stay with him cuz then you would be hurting all of these peoples feelings for nothing. Its up to you...! I tried the best I could im sry if this isnt good advice! Well I hope it is and I hope everything works out. Good luck!
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hey...theres this guy who I just met but he goes to the school in the town next to mine...anyway...we hit off really well bc weve only talked for about a week N I like him N he likes me...last nite I was talkin to him on the phone N he said that he was 18...I was suprised bc he doesnt really look like 18 N then he asked if I had a problem with it...I said no bc I think age doesnt matter...but Im only 14 N he was askin how my parents would feel if they knew...then today I was thinkin bout it N now Im kinda worrying...but maybe its just bc I never liked an 18 year old...I kno this isnt really a question but Id just like to hear oppinions of wut ppl think bout age differences...or if anyone has been in this situation...thanx!
I've never been in this situation before. Age doesn't really matter to me unless they are wayyy older! Four years isn't that bad and if you really like someone then you shouldn't care about the age difference. Just make sure he's the right one for you! Well, I hope I helped!
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OK here's my story...
I just started high school and I became friends with this really sweet guy. And I like him and I think he likes me too. Well yesterday he told me that him and his gf broke up. And every single day he always hangs out with me at lunch!! And we stand really close hehe. Well he gave this girl a hug the other day n all but I dont know if hes goin out with her - but Ill know hes not if he hangs out with me tomorrow! He always stares/flirts with me! I love him to death! Should I make a move or something?? Don't tell me to ask him if he likes me cause I can't do that!And do you think he might like me too? Please help! Thanks! -Ems-
It seems like he likes you to me. I think you should keep hanging out with him and talking to him but if he is also hugging this other girl you should ask him if hes going back out with her. Dont make a move right away.. make sure hes not going out with her first. I hope I helped! Good luck!!
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this year's science is so hard for me. its called cpe science. i am getting an f (omg!), and the grading period ends in 1 1/2 weeks. if i work very hard do you think i may be able to bring the f to a d? im sure we will be having a test tomorrow or thursday, and we will have more labs and papers to be handed in. actually all my grades are slipping....please, i need help.
I've been in the same situation before. The best thing to do is turn in ALL your homework and all your work that you did. Even if you don't get it just try and you'll get credit for it. I don't do well on tests but when i turn my homework in my teachers always raise my grades. Ask your teacher if you can do extra credit. Hope I helped!! Good luck with science lol!!! Rate me!
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