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Question Posted Saturday October 23 2004, 1:27 am

Well.. First of all me and this guy have been "dating" for about 2 months.. And well we are truly in love I mean you have NO IDEA!! And I really really like him SOO much and we are just like the best couple ever... And WELL Yesterday he told me that he kissed another girl!! And I donno what to do.. I mean he said he didnt feel anything and he regreated it and I mean he told me himself what he did... But I donno what to do b cuz i mean I love him soo much.. and YAH!! I don't kno if i should be mad or what.. So will SoMeOnE PLZ JUST HELP ME!!!

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arlo answered Saturday October 23 2004, 7:38 pm:
you can be mad, but if you're truely in love, and he didn't enjoy it, then you should try and forgive him. once my ex(was my boyfriend) kissed another girl and i was mad for a few days, but we stayed together for a long time after that. the only reason we ended up breaking up was because he moved away. i still love himdeep down. so give him another chance, and if he does it again, then it's time to dump him. but hey, you never know, it might work out. good luck, hope it helped.
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ElementaryHustler answered Saturday October 23 2004, 1:19 pm:
Well I think it depends. Did he tell you that he kissed another girl or did someone else tell you. Now If he told you I would forgive him but don't forget he kissed another girl. I mean what happens if this happens again. Now if someone else told you then I would dump him. Once a cheater always a cheater. But its all up to you, you know. I know its going to hurt if you do end up breaking up with him but it's going to hurt even worse in the long run. I hope everything works out well. Good luck

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ThReEdAySgRaCe_GuRl answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:57 am:
Well, he did just kiss a girl, its not like he actually "did" anything with her. I think he just was confused, alot of guys like try to kiss diff girls to find out if they feel that special spark, believe it or not, all players want that special one sooner or later! Anyway, he was very brave and understanding by telling it to you, he knows that he wants to be with you and so he told you. That shows that he can open up to only you! sure it was wrong, but confused and now he knows! so follow your heart and hopefully u two stay together! rate me!

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XoToTaLLy_SwEeT_7 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:10 am:
Don't be mad about it. If you really love him then you should give him another chance cuz everyone makes mistakes and you might regreat breaking up with him but if it happens again i would break up with him if i were you. Good luck! <3Juliet<3

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xOxTinkerBellxOx answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:05 am:
Well...that just happened to my friend and well.i think you should talk to him about how you feel.And you should be lucky he told you cause that is showing you he truely loves you but i think you should talk to him.

i hope i helped

-Amanda Marie

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elizabeth111111 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 10:01 am:
duh.. drop him. if he does it once he's obviously gonna do it again, dont get stuck with one that you cant trust.

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smh answered Saturday October 23 2004, 3:27 am:
Everyone makes mistakes and yes even men. I would let him know how hurt you are by the fact that he kissed another girl when he was supposed to be commited to you. I would also give him a second chance(everyone deserves one). I DO NOT think you should make him feel like hes on probation. He is your boyfriend not your son. Talk about what happened and let him know that it will take a while for you to trust him again and then work on the relationship. But put down some ground rules let him know that if it happens again you are through no matter how much it hurts you.

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Sherry answered Saturday October 23 2004, 3:02 am:
Yes, you should be mad. He kissed a girl and personally, i think you should dump him. Buttt since you love him so much and want it to work out. Dont be mad but set strict rules(Like dont ever see that girl again, dont go to partys for a while) and when he has your trust back then you can let him do more stuff and if he doesnt want to show you that he can be trusted, then dump him.

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