Member Since: October 23, 2004 Answers: 3 Last Update: October 23, 2004 Visitors: 1358
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my boyfriend of one year has told me that he wants to take a "break" from me and he wants space. I didnt have a problem with it at first until he started to be mean to me and not wanting me to call him. He says we used to argue alot and he feels if we take a "break" it will make our relationship better when we get back 2 gether. i love him and miss him and i dont understand why he's being soo mean and why he expects me to act as if i dont care
HELP ME PLEASE
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I feel your pain. I am going through something similiar with my boyfriend of 2 years. He has said the same thing about us arguing alot. He has been living across the usa for 4 months now and he has said that he misses me and wants me back. My point is if he thinks he needs a little space then give it to him but let him know that you love him and you want him back when hes ready. Tell him that he doesnt have to be mean to you to get his point across. If he really loves you he will come back to you. But faith in your love for him. I know its extremly hard for you. I have felt so many emotions since my boyfriend left me but I have done all I could to survive without him and now he has come to his senses. Try to be patient and pray that he comes back to you.
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hey i have a problem with cutting and i dunno how to controll it and today 10/22/04 i wound up cutting my self agian because my b.f broke up with me and im like in love with him and ahh...hard to explain and well i need some advice on how to stop or atleast trying to controll it please help me!! ill rate you high and i would like some advice from ppl who actualy do it or used to thanks soo much and if you wanna takl to me more about it im me on
babi beautifulx3 or email me at babii_thug_699@yahoo.com
thanks so much!! ill rate ya a five if ya get at me
love always courtney (link)
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First of all I am sorry to hear about all your pain, I feel for you. I totally agree with the advice that FrEe2bMe gave you. Find someone that you can trust and talk to them let the know how you feel and how you have been dealing with your pain and (I can not stress this enough) pray to God and ask him for help. I know you may not believe in him but trust me he is there and if you pray hard enough and put your trust in him he will help you through everything. Find a person who believes in him and let them tell you all the wonderful things about him I know that you will find all your answers through him. Good luck with everything and remember that god loves you very much and he hates to see you in pain.
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Well.. First of all me and this guy have been "dating" for about 2 months.. And well we are truly in love I mean you have NO IDEA!! And I really really like him SOO much and we are just like the best couple ever... And WELL Yesterday he told me that he kissed another girl!! And I donno what to do.. I mean he said he didnt feel anything and he regreated it and I mean he told me himself what he did... But I donno what to do b cuz i mean I love him soo much.. and YAH!! I don't kno if i should be mad or what.. So will SoMeOnE PLZ JUST HELP ME!!! (link)
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Everyone makes mistakes and yes even men. I would let him know how hurt you are by the fact that he kissed another girl when he was supposed to be commited to you. I would also give him a second chance(everyone deserves one). I DO NOT think you should make him feel like hes on probation. He is your boyfriend not your son. Talk about what happened and let him know that it will take a while for you to trust him again and then work on the relationship. But put down some ground rules let him know that if it happens again you are through no matter how much it hurts you.
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