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!what is wrong with my boyfriend!
my boyfriend of one year has told me that he wants to take a "break" from me and he wants space. I didnt have a problem with it at first until he started to be mean to me and not wanting me to call him. He says we used to argue alot and he feels if we take a "break" it will make our relationship better when we get back 2 gether. i love him and miss him and i dont understand why he's being soo mean and why he expects me to act as if i dont care
HELP ME PLEASE
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I think you should just leave him alone for a while... and just dont talk to him unless he asks you a question. He'll come around sometime... they always do! lol <3Juliet<3
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He is being mean to force the issue. He is frustrated and needs some time. Give it to him. If the relationship is worth anything, he will be back.
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just fuck him.. he'll get into it again.
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maybe he is starting to rethink the wohle "break" and thats his way of hiding that he was wrong
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Ok. He wants a break, maybe you two have been too full on and he's scared and chickened out. Or maybe he's telling the truth, maybe you do argue a lot and maybe he does think a break will be good for the relationship. That's probably why he doesn't want you to call him all the time, cause he wants time apart. I know you love him and I know you miss him but the only thing you can do is get out there and have fun. Don't sit around waiting for him to be ready for you.
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I feel your pain. I am going through something similiar with my boyfriend of 2 years. He has said the same thing about us arguing alot. He has been living across the usa for 4 months now and he has said that he misses me and wants me back. My point is if he thinks he needs a little space then give it to him but let him know that you love him and you want him back when hes ready. Tell him that he doesnt have to be mean to you to get his point across. If he really loves you he will come back to you. But faith in your love for him. I know its extremly hard for you. I have felt so many emotions since my boyfriend left me but I have done all I could to survive without him and now he has come to his senses. Try to be patient and pray that he comes back to you.
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darlin', i think he's broken up with you... he just doesn't know how to let it be final and all. so he took the coward's way out. which, honey, means you can do so much better. i think it's time you play a little hard to get.
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wOw..well if he's bein mean and tellin unot to call him then hes not worth it..maybe jus take a break from tlkn for a while then try it again later u kno if u were wit sum1 alot they can get agitating..sO jus try that hope i helper xO -- cOurt
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maybe he just wants to take a break...maybe he isnt aloud to have a gf and his parents r getting suspicious or something.....u always gotta think about the possible things...hope i helped
*-x-*Aimee*-x-*
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Hey, if he really needs space all you can do is give him space. But I dont know, he could just say that because he wants to break up but doesnt know how to tell you. You never really know, but just wait it out and see what happens.
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