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ugh my mom and my boyfriend
whenever i have a boyfriend i have to hide it from my mom. she said its okay to have one but i usually never tell her. but i got one now and i really need 2 tell her bc hes so different from any1 ive ever got with....and shes met him n stuff n she thinks we go out but i dont call him my bf around her. but the thing is she wont let me go newhere (but i do newayz she just doesnt know) but its hard to sneek around her i just wanna tell her but she like wants to "get 2 know him" im like IM NOT GETTIN MARRIED CHILL OUT...she acts like wer gettin married she wants to meet his parents n everything so she knows who im with...how can i tell her to calm down...i tryed tellin her but she always finds a reason for everything...helllllpppp
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ok...your mom will never see you as an dult until you are married and have have children and even then she will see you as a young child. Has anything happened in the pas that would make her crazy about thae subject?
well seems to me that you do really care for him..so she just ants to kow what kind of family he is from.
Ask he what is it that she is scared of..nicely..ask her what she feels will happen. If these things never have then she has go to give you some space and trust you.
remember she loves you...even if the moms get all hyper the feeling is coming from love.
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i think yew should just stop sneaking around and tell yur mom.. i hav eto deal with tha same exact stuff... eventually a gave up n its not that bad haveing tha parents meet... its actually funni.. and 1 day yew can get in bigg troble sneaking around... n just listen to yur mom.. no1 says yew have to do it all... but yew should listen and hear her out...
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i no wht u r going throught...my mom will flip out nd want 2 meet him nd his parnets...nd wont let us out alone...u just have 2 get them 2 trust u...tell her that he is ur b/f that u really really like him nd try nd make a friend-2-friend relationship w/ ur mom other than a mother-2-daughter relationship...
hope i helped good luck x3
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She just cares about you, thats actually probably a good thing. Just tell her, and have him come over to hang out a few times so that she can be around him more and see what hes like, and when she meets his parents shes probably not thinking abot talking to them for like 30 minutes, she probably just wants to see what they're like and stuff, so she knos what kind of background this guy is coming from. Just tell your guy that your mom is like really protective and she wants to "get to kno him." That way you dont haveta sneak around anymore, and youll probably be able to do more things with each other more often
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just someday when u think u its time for u to tell her, tell her!! tell her that she doesnt know everything about u and she never will...tell her to calm down when she needs to chill out..hope i helped...*-x-*aimee*-x-*
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Tell her but before you do think of every possibly reason why she wouldn't like it or disapprove of it or whatever and come up with a answer for every single thing. And then when you go to talk to her about she will say all of those things and you can come back on her and maybe you can prove to her that your not getting married and everything else lol. Are you the only child? Or the youngest? Thats probably why she does this is because shes scared of losing you maybe?
Good luck.. I hope everything works out.
<33 Britney =]
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just introduce your parents before a school dance or something. Chances are she'll trust you more if you are like "hey mom, yeah your right i am going out with him" like.. if you tell her. If you dont want her to get too involved then just tell her to f off.. well in a nicer way..
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